I actually think it’s completely over for me(insane suicide fuel)

[Deleted member 1660]

So like 2 hours ago I got bored and decided to do a tinder experiment with my photos to see how I would do
Now I wasn’t expecting 20 stacies to be thirsting all over me, but in now way was I expecting what happened

This is the pic I posted of myself:
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The only “girls” I matched with within the first hour
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I’ve been rated as chadlite overall on here and now I’m extremely skeptical. Like I don’t even want to put any effort into looksmaxing anymore

How do I cope with this fuck me

I’m only 17 and this is what I’m going to have to settle for. This genuinely made be suicidal, I legit want to kill myself right now. I know I’ll never be a slayer but I thought I wouldn’t have too much difficulty getting an attractive gf. These are legit 2/10 subhumans and I think one of them is a transgender
Advice?

you look like caucasian zyzz

 

[King Solomon]

Damn that’s pretty dark and gloomy shit man. It may not seem like it but after spending so much time on this site I’m blackpilled the core but it’s made me devoid and incapable of happiness. The cesspool that this site is just makes it worse, but I can’t stop coming back.

Yeah, the more you learn the darker this reality is. That doesn't mean one should give up in fact I promote the opposite. I promote doing whatever one can to retire as young as possible and to earn true freedom and become self sufficient and live off grid. The society is only getting worse and will continue to do so.

I hear you but just make a committment to break free for a period of time and then come back on your own terms. For instance after this post I won't be back until next month. It's written it shall be done.

Good luck

 

[Deleted member 8869]

Become medium ugly and bloatmax.
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"medium" ugly

 

[thereallegend]

legit 2/10 subhumans

No, they’re Beckies.

You’ll have to date 2-3 points down for consistent sex in the West.

 

[Deleted member 15089]

No, they’re Beckies.

You’ll have to date 2-3 points down for consistent sex in the West.

No way those are beckies. Beckies are average looking and I clearly mog them more than 3 points. If I am 6.5-7/10 they are 2-3/10

 

[tyronelite]

Show your whole profile setup

 

[Deleted member 15089]

dude I’m in the exact same position, I only get 2 psl 2/10 foids

It’s truly over for hypergamycels like us, never began for sub gigachads

I’ve been rated chadlite on this site and yea I can tell U it’s over. Funny cuz even u mog you to suicide

“Funny cuz even u mog you to suicide”, do you mean that you mog me to suicide?

 

[Lawton88]

am i actually a chadlite or not in your opinion? i just dont understand how im really only attractive to 2/10/ 2 psl women. fuarkkkkkkk

Irl you should do alright if you are outgoing at all. You have a looks level where people would argue if you are a HTN or a Chadlite.

 

[Mewton]

You uploaded only a single portrait of your face on tinder and expected to get many matches?

Took the "muh chad can post a single front camera aspie selfie and slay left right" meme too far

 

[Deleted member 15089]

Irl you should do alright if you are outgoing at all. You have a looks level where people would argue if you are a HTN or a Chadlite.

Can I reach solid chadlite with surgeries? What’s holding me back from clear chadlite

 

[Deleted member 15089]

Took the "muh chad can post a single front camera aspie selfie and slay left right" meme too far

Yeah what I did was pretty aspie. If I’m being honest I’m depressed I’m not that good looking (don’t even look as good irl as the pic and still get rated HTN)

 

[Lawton88]

Can I reach solid chadlite with surgeries? What’s holding me back from clear chadlite

You don't need surgeries

 

[Deleted member 15089]

You don't need surgeries

So I can never be chadlite?

 

[Lawton88]

So I can never be chadlite?

Some would say you are. The lips is the only thing you could improve much. Don't know if those appliances really work or not myself.

 

[Deleted member 15089]

Some would say you are. The lips is the only thing you could improve much. Don't know if those appliances really work or not myself.

Ik I cannot become chad, but I’d like to know what features i would need if I were?

 

[reputation]

So like 2 hours ago I got bored and decided to do a tinder experiment with my photos to see how I would do
Now I wasn’t expecting 20 stacies to be thirsting all over me, but in now way was I expecting what happened

This is the pic I posted of myself:
View attachment 1620753


The only “girls” I matched with within the first hour
View attachment 1620755View attachment 1620758View attachment 1620759

I’ve been rated as chadlite overall on here and now I’m extremely skeptical. Like I don’t even want to put any effort into looksmaxing anymore

How do I cope with this fuck me

I’m only 17 and this is what I’m going to have to settle for. This genuinely made be suicidal, I legit want to kill myself right now. I know I’ll never be a slayer but I thought I wouldn’t have too much difficulty getting an attractive gf. These are legit 2/10 subhumans and I think one of them is a transgender
Advice?

Wait longer and see if anything changes

 

[eduardkoopman]

Advice?

you are in the most social and opportunity irl places, at your age.
kids at school.
kids haging and chilling after school
kids doing certain hobbies
kids doing parties in the weekends

Why the fuck, in such case. Do you base everything on brutals online dating/Tinder data?

How you get treated at above irl places by girls?
Do you chill with girls, and are you proactive, do you try?

 

[Deleted member 15089]

you are in the most social and opportunity irl places, at your age.
kids at school.
kids haging and chilling after school
kids doing certain hobbies
kids doing parties in the weekends

Why the fuck, in such case. Do you base everything on brutals online dating/Tinder data?

How you get treated at above irl places by girls?
Do you chill with girls, and are you proactive, do you try?

I haven’t been proactive irl in years. I never really do anything tbh.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I haven’t been proactive irl in years. I never really do anything tbh.

if you can be social, ad are not crippled by high inhib, autism, etc..
Than I would advice to be proactive irl.

With your looks level, it should reap decent rewards.when you meet girls irl, and try to get sutff going on wit them when you get some feedbac from them

 

[Deleted member 15089]

if you can be social, ad are not crippled by high inhib, autism, etc..
Than I would advice to be proactive irl.

With your looks level, it should reap decent rewards.when you meet girls irl, and try to get sutff going on wit them when you get some feedbac from them

Decent meaning? Could I attract hot girls, like 7/10+? I don’t mean slaying easily but with some effort

 

[eduardkoopman]

Decent meaning? Could I attract hot girls, like 7/10+? I don’t mean slaying easily but with some effort

I would expects on should be able to be appealing to women that are above avearge looks also.
Assuming you are not a midget

 

[eduardkoopman]

I haven’t been proactive irl in years. I never really do anything tbh.

 

[KDA Player]

You are a future chad, son, mark my words.

 

[MulattoTrenMaxxer]

You're cute; you can rest easy knowing I'd kiss you if I ever came across you.

 

[KDA Player]

You're cute; you can rest easy knowing I'd kiss you if I ever came across you.

ban the girl please, no spy there

 

[Zer0/∞]

I'm sick of being attacked for my heritage(White/European)

slavs are not white

 

[Zer0/∞]

you are in the most social and opportunity irl places, at your age.
kids at school.
kids haging and chilling after school
kids doing certain hobbies
kids doing parties in the weekends

Why the fuck, in such case. Do you base everything on brutals online dating/Tinder data?

How you get treated at above irl places by girls?
Do you chill with girls, and are you proactive, do you try?

Just be NT!

 

[Preoximerianas]

I see so you believe you're a depressed autist and for some reason you have put no effort into getting women.

-As for the depression the only thing that helped me get out of my own mind and become the man who I am to day was after going through an accident where I became basically a cripple, gained fat for the first time in my life, nearly died, lost my job, my wealth, almost everything (This was just 8 years ago now) was the following things.
1.) No longer giving a fuck about what people think of me
2.) Living my life by design and actually writing down my goals, purpose, vision, values, plan, habits, etc and doing what I want to do in life and post these on my wall and repeat them every morning.
3.) Mastering or nearly mastering the Whim Hof method: Youtube this as this probably saved me from ending myself.
4.) Semen retention: Eventually this turned into practicing sexual transmutation with qigon, taoist methods, meditation, etc. I will be making a post on this in the near future.
5.) Exercise: Because I became a cripple and I used to be extremely athletic this made me feel like dog shit because most of my life was the enjoyment of sports. It took a year just to run again. But once I could run I started doing hill sprints then with resitance, Also, I hit the gym harder than ever and learned as much as possible and using a more scientific approach instead of just gym bro stuff and a ton of supplements. I maxxed out all my lifts within one year and now I hit a PR of some form every week.
6.) Stop dwelling in the past and stop having negative thoughts of the future and just living in the moment. If I constantly was thinking about negative things that would happen then they would. I just think about ways I was successfull in the past and relate them to things I'm currently working on and as for the future I just visualize my future plans or activities once a day but I don't fear it I embrace it and look forward to it.
7.) Relinquish things out of my control or that waste my time: TV, chat rooms (obviously now I do this but It's to help others and learn more), politics, sports (entertainment), movies, bad people or bad relationships, social media, internet browsing, even the weather. I let all those things go and cut out of my life what I didn't need or can control.
8.) Put all my efforts and energy in things I can control with my daily habits and working towards my goals and improving in areas where I needed improvement every day with no excuses. My routines was like breathing working out is like eating, reading and studying was like sleeping, it just happened naturally after I had a consistent routine and a 7-10 streak then it was automatic.

After doing all this I have earned true freedom with passive income for life from rental properties, my own off grid self sufficient shelter, and I can do whatever I want whenever I want with whowever I want to. I mostly just enjoy self improvement, helping others and now looking to eventually get out of the states.

The autist part must be a self diagnosis but I believe in finding your true purpose and goals in life and using some of those exercises and techniques this can help with this.

As for the upper hand as far as the aging factor goes. I wouldn't worry about that I would put all your effort into solving this as soon as possible because the life is short and time acutally due to our preception of time it speeds up as we age so by the time you're 20 you've actually lived half your life in terms of perception and men normally die at 76.5 years of age. Yes 29 years of age is normally the cut off when the average man starts to lose attractiveness but I probably more in depth knowledge on longevity than this entire board combined so if you have any questions ask away.

With this being said don't relax because it's only going to get more difficult the older you become because soon you won't be able to hookup with HS chicks or even college chicks. By that time they will have so much experience you may not have the ability to break out of your own mind. So I can't stress this enough, use the next 2-3 months to incrementally reach the end game goal.

1.) Get to know a girl
2.) Connect/date
3.) sexual talk/contact
4.) Escelate to kiss
5.) Escalate to the bedroom
6.) Rinse and repeat


You'll have to figure out what's holding you back or what the problem is and solve it.

_For most people here it's either face, height, or frame but this isn't your case at all. I'm guessing it's a fear of social embarrassment because you lack the experience at 17 and you may be afraid a girl may embarrass you in school or on social media because of your lack of experience. This is my best guess.

If this is the case then I would reccommend finding a chick that's not in your school and if possible that's not on tinder because if she's on tinder she's had 10+ dicks already. I would highly reccomend a group outside of school that has young girls around your age or younger. I would say go for a girl younger than you. As stated before, youth group was like shooting fish in a barrel so this may or may not work for you. I would say go for a girl that's below your attractiveness as well. Most likely if you do this she will potentially be inexperienced as well, very into you because you're more attractive and she won't even know you're inexperinced because she has little to no idea what she's doing either. She can be your practice chick to continue level up and to try new things and to see what works and what doesn't.


I was a mentalcell in HS. Although I had my first kiss in preschool and first more advanced expeience in 5th grade but not full on sex (only because the girls approached me which ended up hurting me later in life because I thought it was supposed to be this way). By 9th grade I was full on incel and it was due to my lack of going through puberty. Now I still had girls call me cute but I was so embarrassed about my lack of musclularity, height and D that I would never take advantage. I finally went through puberty in 10th grade and had a height increase of about 5-6 inches over summer and everything else caught up as well which boosted my confidence enough at least to follow through on girls approaching me. Now girls stopped approaching me (which was much more than just approaching at party's) after college. I thought maybe I lost my looks or sex appeal but I found out older women learn not to approach men (unless they have supper high status) or at least as aggressively as they did in my school years which would be anywhere from grabbing my hand, sitting on my lap or putting my hands on their tits. I must have been very lucky or the girls were slutty because I learned later this is rare for most men. So from 24 (M.S. degree and had 3 years of work in between degrees) to 30 I had no play and 29 is when I had the accident. By 31 after going through intense self improvement, landing a new job in a shipyard then working on a Navy ship with tons of Navy women and I slowly just started picking up more and more young women 18-20 years of age. I finally had the confidence and skills to approach and land every approach as long as they gave me the right signals then I would make a move.

In the end I believe you will land a chick within a month, kiss within 6 weeks, sex within 8-12 weeks. I would say set the target date of no later than the end of summer. Go in as many groups or camps or whatever over the summer if you don't get anything before the end of the school year.

Good luck

Easily one of my most respected users for content like this, the stuff you've posted I have genuinely added to my life and it has made more of a difference than any of the bullshit ever peddled by the media.

 

[KDA Player]

Easily one of my most respected users for content like this, the stuff you've posted I have genuinely added to my life and it has made more of a difference than any of the bullshit ever peddled by the media.

Yeah the bro is high iq high quality postmaxxing

 

[eduardkoopman]

Just be NT!

true
WHEN on is HTN or better looking

 

[Lorsss]

You're cute; you can rest easy knowing I'd kiss you if I ever came across you.

are you a lady?

 

[Britmaxxer]

what is your age set too on tinder. what is your bio. what are your pictures.

let me guess, on your tinder profile
-you are 18
-your bio is "6ft, here for long time not a good time" or some other completely generic and boring bio
-all your pictures are you, alone, squinting and clenching like a retard straight at the camera. bonus if one is in a bathroom or literally a straight up jawline rating pic that you posted here. thats assuming you have more than one photo on your profile. the one picture you have posted looks autistic as fuck btw.
-there are no pictures of you with friends, doing anything, nothing on your profile to suggest any kind of life or status at all.

you wonder why you have no matches? what do you actually have to offer. you are a broke, autistic and low-self esteem teenager. you post on incel forums in your free time. you do not socialise. looks only open the door. classic teenagecel thinking his lifes problems will be fixed when gets a double jaw or rhino. your 17.. you have so many opportunities to make your life better that I guarantee you are NOT taking.

 

[Deleted member 15089]

true
WHEN on is HTN or better looking

Am I at least htn?

 

[Deleted member 15089]

what is your age set too on tinder. what is your bio. what are your pictures.

let me guess, on your tinder profile
-you are 18
-your bio is "6ft, here for long time not a good time" or some other completely generic and boring bio
-all your pictures are you, alone, squinting and clenching like a retard straight at the camera. bonus if one is in a bathroom or literally a straight up jawline rating pic that you posted here. thats assuming you have more than one photo on your profile. the one picture you have posted looks autistic as fuck btw.
-there are no pictures of you with friends, doing anything, nothing on your profile to suggest any kind of life or status at all.

you wonder why you have no matches? what do you actually have to offer. you are a broke, autistic and low-self esteem teenager. you post on incel forums in your free time. you do not socialise. looks only open the door. classic teenagecel thinking his lifes problems will be fixed when gets a double jaw or rhino. your 17.. you have so many opportunities to make your life better that I guarantee you are NOT taking.

These are all true things. To be honest the only thing I put on my entire profile was the picture, literally nothing else. I guess my question is am I good looking enough to where it’s worth it to put in the effort. I also don’t look quite as good irl than in the pic(lighting)

 

[eduardkoopman]

Am I at least htn?

easily.
more like chadlite face

 

[Britmaxxer]

These are all true things. To be honest the only thing I put on my entire profile was the picture, literally nothing else. I guess my question is am I good looking enough to where it’s worth it to put in the effort. I also don’t look quite as good irl than in the pic(lighting)

yes you are good looking enough for it to be worth effort of putting more than one picture in your tinder profile. jfl.

 

[Deleted member 14894]

Just having a Chad face is not enough. You need to NTmax... like for example you need pics with friends, on vacation etc. Having an instagram profile is also a must. If you don't have an Instagram or a low status Instagram, you'll get ghosted by the girls you've matched with on Tinder.

NTmaxxing is what you need to do.

 

[eduardkoopman]

yes you are good looking enough for it to be worth effort of putting more than one picture in your tinder profile. jfl.

If this OP guy is like 6'3 height. Than it's retarded, that he doesn't have alot of options.

 

[Deleted member 15089]

If this OP guy is like 6'3 height. Than it's retarded, that he doesn't have alot of options.

I’m 5’10, so with a chadlite face u think I don’t have a of options?

 

[eduardkoopman]

I’m 5’10, so with a chadlite face u think I don’t have a of options?

5'10 is not good. dependson location in the world.

u think I don’t have a of options?

irrelevant question.
Make a lifestyle, plan, actions, of asking out 20 girls in the next month. That is what matters. Not what some dude thinks.


collect YOUR data.
AND stop the dumb MENTAL MASTRUBATION, about how many you can get or can't get in your brain it's imaginations.
Just go chilling with your bros on a boat.

 

[Deleted member 15089]

5'10 is not good. dependson location in the world.


irrelevant question.
Make a lifestyle, plan, actions, of asking out 20 girls in the next month. That is what matters. Not what some dude thinks.


collect YOUR data.
AND stop the dumb MENTAL MASTRUBATION, about how many you can get or can't get in your brain it's imaginations.
Just go chilling with your bros on a boat.

Fair enough

 

[Deleted member 12234]

what is your age set too on tinder. what is your bio. what are your pictures.

let me guess, on your tinder profile
-you are 18
-your bio is "6ft, here for long time not a good time" or some other completely generic and boring bio
-all your pictures are you, alone, squinting and clenching like a retard straight at the camera. bonus if one is in a bathroom or literally a straight up jawline rating pic that you posted here. thats assuming you have more than one photo on your profile. the one picture you have posted looks autistic as fuck btw.
-there are no pictures of you with friends, doing anything, nothing on your profile to suggest any kind of life or status at all.

you wonder why you have no matches? what do you actually have to offer. you are a broke, autistic and low-self esteem teenager. you post on incel forums in your free time. you do not socialise. looks only open the door. classic teenagecel thinking his lifes problems will be fixed when gets a double jaw or rhino. your 17.. you have so many opportunities to make your life better that I guarantee you are NOT taking.

agreed lol. life is on literal easymode if you're in highschool. I even knew nerds who were pulling women back then simply from socialcircle-maxxing.