I am at a very low point in life - any advice appreciated

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I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;
  • I am low on money
  • I am low on testosterone
  • I am low on discipline
  • I am low on motivation
  • I am high on body fat percentage
  • I am low on girls that are interested in me
I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.
 
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you can fix every single one of those problems except maybe the last one
 
literally just take stimulants... jfl
 
you can fix every single one of those problems except maybe the last one
If you're talking about me getting scammed - getting a job would "fix" that. I would have way more money and would actually be able to buy stuff agian
 
I feel like moneymaxing first should be the first priority, no?
you can do both at once. i dont know how people get fat, whenever i gain weight i just stop eating and starve 24/7 till i lose it. but everyones situation is different so i wont judge. if youre already depressed and low on motivation its harder to lose weight
 
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you can do both at once. i dont know how people get fat, whenever i gain weight i just stop eating and starve 24/7 till i lose it. but everyones situation is different so i wont judge. if youre already depressed and low on motivation its harder to lose weight
I thought about getting a job, being able to afford healthy, low-calorie foods and then doing it that way
 
  • I am low on money -> Well first, did you go to college? Second, get a job nigga.
  • I am low on testosterone -> Lose weight, eat better, exercise, get sunlight.
  • I am low on discipline -> Tough luck.
  • I am low on motivation -> Let me sound like a bullshit Instagram couch for a second... motivation comes from action, the more you do, the more motivated you feel, so yeah, just pick one thing, do it to the smallest scale and you will start to feel like doing other stuff. Ideally tho, do not rely on motivation, just make following through on your goals as frictionless as possible through routines or systems.
  • I am high on body fat percentage -> Lose weight, really not that hard.
  • I am low on girls that are interested in me -> Just fix the other things you listed.
 
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Those two are not mutually exclusive. You can lose weight and get money at the same.
I guess. But still, I should first get a job so I can afford healthy food
 
  • I am low on money -> Well first, did you go to college? Second, get a job nigga.
  • I am low on testosterone -> Lose weight, eat better, exercise, get sunlight.
  • I am low on discipline -> Tough luck.
  • I am low on motivation -> Let me sound like a bullshit Instagram couch for a second... motivation comes from action, the more you do, the more motivated you feel, so yeah, just pick one thing, do it to the smallest scale and you will start to feel like doing other stuff. Ideally tho, do not rely on motivation, just make following through on your goals as frictionless as possible through routines or systems.
  • I am high on body fat percentage -> Lose weight, really not that hard.
  • I am low on girls that are interested in me -> Just fix the other things you listed.
I went to college, yeah. Graduated from a higher college of IT.
 
I guess. But still, I should first get a job so I can afford healthy food
Ideally yes, but you can also work with what you have, literally doing something is better than nothing. I have a sample diet plan that's like 9 dollars/day, if you can afford that.
 
I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;
  • I am low on money
  • I am low on testosterone
  • I am low on discipline
  • I am low on motivation
  • I am high on body fat percentage
  • I am low on girls that are interested in me
I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.
take steroids and glp-1's
 
I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;
  • I am low on money
  • I am low on testosterone
  • I am low on discipline
  • I am low on motivation
  • I am high on body fat percentage
  • I am low on girls that are interested in me
I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.
Jesus

Before you jfl try it out not church not mormons not the bible Jesus just a short prayer to ask him to reveal himself

Actionable steps-
Just ask yourself constantly “what can i do?”

Just keep asking yourself that question it helped me simplify my life bc that questions is really all that really matters.

The cool thing about life is its always your next move, whether rich or poor or mogger or sub.

Maybe you climb out oneday and become rich chad, or maybe youll die tmrw, who knows.

But asking yourself “what can I do?” Never fails
 
“ What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? “

This should be your mind 24/7

But also remember sometimes the right thing to do is to be oresent and enjoy the moment (sunsets, loved ones, good things, healthy delicious food, etc)
 
If you're talking about me getting scammed - getting a job would "fix" that. I would have way more money and would actually be able to buy stuff agian
i only read the tldr tbh
 

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