I am at a very low point in life - any advice appreciated

[edger0uter]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

 

[valentine]

starvemaxx like JORDAN BARRETT

 

[Abdullahm06]

you can fix every single one of those problems except maybe the last one

 

[edger0uter]

starvemaxx like JORDAN BARRETT

I feel like moneymaxing first should be the first priority, no?

 

[User28823]

literally just take stimulants... jfl

 

[edger0uter]

you can fix every single one of those problems except maybe the last one

If you're talking about me getting scammed - getting a job would "fix" that. I would have way more money and would actually be able to buy stuff agian

 

[edger0uter]

literally just take stimulants... jfl

I don't think that mixes well with obesity

 

[valentine]

I feel like moneymaxing first should be the first priority, no?

you can do both at once. i dont know how people get fat, whenever i gain weight i just stop eating and starve 24/7 till i lose it. but everyones situation is different so i wont judge. if youre already depressed and low on motivation its harder to lose weight

 

[Zeekie]

I feel like moneymaxing first should be the first priority, no?

Those two are not mutually exclusive. You can lose weight and get money at the same.

 

[edger0uter]

you can do both at once. i dont know how people get fat, whenever i gain weight i just stop eating and starve 24/7 till i lose it. but everyones situation is different so i wont judge. if youre already depressed and low on motivation its harder to lose weight

I thought about getting a job, being able to afford healthy, low-calorie foods and then doing it that way

 

[User28823]

I don't think that mixes well with obesity

it will literally solve every problem u listed bud

 

[Zeekie]

• I am low on money -> Well first, did you go to college? Second, get a job nigga.
• I am low on testosterone -> Lose weight, eat better, exercise, get sunlight.
• I am low on discipline -> Tough luck.
• I am low on motivation -> Let me sound like a bullshit Instagram couch for a second... motivation comes from action, the more you do, the more motivated you feel, so yeah, just pick one thing, do it to the smallest scale and you will start to feel like doing other stuff. Ideally tho, do not rely on motivation, just make following through on your goals as frictionless as possible through routines or systems.
• I am high on body fat percentage -> Lose weight, really not that hard.
• I am low on girls that are interested in me -> Just fix the other things you listed.

 

[edger0uter]

Those two are not mutually exclusive. You can lose weight and get money at the same.

I guess. But still, I should first get a job so I can afford healthy food

 

[edger0uter]

• I am low on money -> Well first, did you go to college? Second, get a job nigga.
• I am low on testosterone -> Lose weight, eat better, exercise, get sunlight.
• I am low on discipline -> Tough luck.
• I am low on motivation -> Let me sound like a bullshit Instagram couch for a second... motivation comes from action, the more you do, the more motivated you feel, so yeah, just pick one thing, do it to the smallest scale and you will start to feel like doing other stuff. Ideally tho, do not rely on motivation, just make following through on your goals as frictionless as possible through routines or systems.
• I am high on body fat percentage -> Lose weight, really not that hard.
• I am low on girls that are interested in me -> Just fix the other things you listed.

I went to college, yeah. Graduated from a higher college of IT.

 

[Zeekie]

I guess. But still, I should first get a job so I can afford healthy food

Ideally yes, but you can also work with what you have, literally doing something is better than nothing. I have a sample diet plan that's like 9 dollars/day, if you can afford that.

 

[TwoFace]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

take steroids and glp-1's

 

[looks>books]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

Jesus

Before you jfl try it out not church not mormons not the bible Jesus just a short prayer to ask him to reveal himself

Actionable steps-
Just ask yourself constantly “what can i do?”

Just keep asking yourself that question it helped me simplify my life bc that questions is really all that really matters.

The cool thing about life is its always your next move, whether rich or poor or mogger or sub.

Maybe you climb out oneday and become rich chad, or maybe youll die tmrw, who knows.

But asking yourself “what can I do?” Never fails

 

[looks>books]

“ What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? What can i do? “

This should be your mind 24/7

But also remember sometimes the right thing to do is to be oresent and enjoy the moment (sunsets, loved ones, good things, healthy delicious food, etc)

 

[Abdullahm06]

If you're talking about me getting scammed - getting a job would "fix" that. I would have way more money and would actually be able to buy stuff agian

i only read the tldr tbh

 

[Coeus]

Jesus

Before you jfl try it out not church not mormons not the bible Jesus just a short prayer to ask him to reveal himself

Actionable steps-
Just ask yourself constantly “what can i do?”

Just keep asking yourself that question it helped me simplify my life bc that questions is really all that really matters.

The cool thing about life is its always your next move, whether rich or poor or mogger or sub.

Maybe you climb out oneday and become rich chad, or maybe youll die tmrw, who knows.

But asking yourself “what can I do?” Never fails

Beautiful answer

You always got the best responses and im sure they are very appreciated

 

[looks>books]

Beautiful answer

You always got the best responses and im sure they are very appreciated

Ofc mate Gb and Gl

 

[ilbn_incel]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

Bruh these problems are so easy to fix

 

[oadboueq1293]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

the fuck u doing on ts forum fatass nigga?

all these problems can easilly be fixed and YOU KNOW how to fix them.

but u wont. u come to a incel forum and complain about it, hoping for sm holy grail method.

genes like that should not be passed on.

kill urself jew.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need to under go self hypnosis and you will break your unlucky spell
Write out eveything you want to achieve

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

Dnr LOSE WEIGHT

 

[Jaynoyn523]

I'm a 22-year-old fatcel. I've been fat practically my entire life, even when it was up to my parents what I eat and how much I eat of it.

This obviously resulted in me not being very popular with women throughout my life, and that lead to me turning into a mentalcel. And, as if that wasn't enough, getting rejected, laughed at, ignored, insulted, etc. by all women I've tried to get to know, the woman I thought was different, that I "dated" for the last few days, after her "taking a break" for "not being ready for a relationship", broke up with me recently. To be fair, she is someone who has, at one point, done coke, hangs out with male friends a lot, is uneducated and jobless (I'm at least educated), and some people in her family are Muslims, so technically it isn't that big of a loss, and the breakup may have also been mostly my fault, but that doesn't matter - the fact that I lost her, someone who gave me the feeling that not all women are shallow, hurts deeply, and knowing I can't simply replace her, that I'll be/sleep all alone at my apartment, hurts even deeper.

It also resulted in me becoming financially instable, after losing my first job. I am simply too unmotivated to do anything - including looking for a job, despite the fact it would make my life much easier practically instantly (as soon as my first paycheck arrives). Not only am I not looking for a job, though, I am also spending a shit ton of it on food deliveries, cab rides (thanks to my cousin who insists that he doesn't use public transit), and as of recently weed (as a form of coping [it doesn't even hit the same anymore]).

Oh yeah, also, I think my "ex", the one I talked about, scammed me for €64 two days ago. After sleeping over at my place, she went outside in the morning, telling me that she would return after getting some things done. When I then ran out of cigarettes, I called her to see what she was up to - but also to tell her to bring me more cigarettes on her way back. She agreed to do it, I sent her €14 for two boxes of cigarettes and an additional €50 for 5g of weed for the both of us and after a while she stopped responding. The reason why I'm not sure, though, is that she left a whole bong in my apartment that doesn't even belong to her - so maybe she'll eventually text back to get it back?

TLDR;

• I am low on money
• I am low on testosterone
• I am low on discipline
• I am low on motivation
• I am high on body fat percentage
• I am low on girls that are interested in me

I am not far away from being in the worst possible situation to be in, probably. Anyone have any advice on how I can get out of it?

Also, feel free to ask any questions.

get a blood test to see how deficient you are in testosterone and follow the doctors steps to fix it -> Start going to the gym 3-4 times a week (this will give you routine and get you started on losing weight, and also build discipline) -> get a job, any job it doesn’t matter just have an income flow of some kind -> save money, increase test levels with doctors advice, slowly lose weight in the gym then next step is to start learning -> get into courses of some kind, boot camps for certain subjects that would qualify you for a better job or at least give you experience and knowledge -> do that until you’re able to secure an even better job -> if you do this correctly by this point it would have been 1-3 years, you would have money saved, better education and a better resume, lost weight and so your SMV will have been increased dramatically compared to what it is now and then you could potentially start to look for girls to date.