I am ugly, short and have no friends as a 16 year old man. Am i an incel? Is Anything wrong with me?

[zen10]

Hey people, i am writing this hoping i get some advice on how i can be okay with myself because i have depression since i am 14yo (currently taking cipralex). I don’t have friends, i get sometimes bullied at school and what frustrates me the most is that there isn’t a single person that helps me when i am getting bullied. Another problem i have is that i started blaming all my insecurities for not having friends and social status (blackpilled). I am shorter than average in Europe (161cm / 5’3) and my face is awful (recessed chin and jaw). I am trying to fix my face but it will take time… People treat me different by mocking me or talking badly. I am tired of everything and sometimes i question my existence and my purpose because the only thing that i am good is having good grades (I don’t like school i js do it to make my parents proud of me), playing video games and guitar. I don’t see a future and before everyone starts saying “oh just go talk to people” yeah i have tried that couple of times but after everything they don’t really want to talk to me so it’s kinda force someone. I am a loser no meaning

Edit: also i wont grow much more because my bone age is 17/18 and my growth plates are almost closed

 

[sørenyuko]

ITS NEVER OVER!
WAGMI BRAH NEVER GIVE UP!

but seriously though, internalize the blackpill but dont let it make you act in bad faith, determinism is undoubtedly real but it also bends to your next action, try everything imaginable, become a real participant in the world, you got this

 

[zen10]

ITS NEVER OVER!
WAGMI BRAH NEVER GIVE UP!

but seriously though, internalize the blackpill but dont let it make you act in bad faith, determinism is undoubtedly real but it also bends to your next action, try everything imaginable, become a real participant in the world, you got this

i want a shotgun because i am tired of everything and everyone ihms and my life bro

 

[itsoverforme333]

Hey people, i am writing this hoping i get some advice on how i can be okay with myself because i have depression since i am 14yo (currently taking cipralex). I don’t have friends, i get sometimes bullied at school and what frustrates me the most is that there isn’t a single person that helps me when i am getting bullied. Another problem i have is that i started blaming all my insecurities for not having friends and social status (blackpilled). I am shorter than average in Europe (161cm / 5’3) and my face is awful (recessed chin and jaw). I am trying to fix my face but it will take time… People treat me different by mocking me or talking badly. I am tired of everything and sometimes i question my existence and my purpose because the only thing that i am good is having good grades (I don’t like school i js do it to make my parents proud of me), playing video games and guitar. I don’t see a future and before everyone starts saying “oh just go talk to people” yeah i have tried that couple of times but after everything they don’t really want to talk to me so it’s kinda force someone. I am a loser no meaning

Edit: also i wont grow much more because my bone age is 17/18 and my growth plates are almost closed

Very sorry to hear what your going trough. Abt the bullying why are you getting bullied and what country are you from ? are you in therapy still ( I suppose yes)

 

[sørenyuko]

i want a shotgun because i am tired of everything and everyone ihms and my life bro

Never kys, you'll most likely fail and make your life a living hell being profoundly disabled for no reason

 

[zen10]

Very sorry to hear what your going trough. Abt the bullying why are you getting bullied and what country are you from ? are you in therapy still ( I suppose yes)

Yes I have psychiatrist and a new therapist. I am from Portugal. I don’t know why i am getting bullied maybe because i am short and ugly so people take advantage. I am 161cm it’s so bad i hate but i sadly cannot make anything unless i kms

 

[seasonedwb]

i want a shotgun because i am tired of everything and everyone ihms and my life bro

Should’ve never joined bp community I am genuinely so sorry brotha I mean this from 1 guy to another life gets better even if you don’t got looks GET ABSOLUTELY LOADED SO THE PEOPLE THAT TALKED DOWN ON YOU WILL HAVE TO LOOK UP TO YOU INCE THERE BEGGING FOR A JOB

 

[harste09]

Don't kys, blast roids to the grave if you are already set on dying, at least you will die a sick kunt

 

[harste09]

Should’ve never joined bp community I am genuinely so sorry brotha I mean this from 1 guy to another life gets better even if you don’t got looks GET ABSOLUTELY LOADED SO THE PEOPLE THAT TALKED DOWN ON YOU WILL HAVE TO LOOK UP TO YOU INCE THERE BEGGING FOR A JOB

red-pilled advice, they will still hate him but now they will jsut have even more of a reason to resent him due to the disparity in wealth

 

[zen10]

Should’ve never joined bp community I am genuinely so sorry brotha I mean this from 1 guy to another life gets better even if you don’t got looks GET ABSOLUTELY LOADED SO THE PEOPLE THAT TALKED DOWN ON YOU WILL HAVE TO LOOK UP TO YOU INCE THERE BEGGING FOR A JOB

Thanks friend I appreciate your message. I hope you re doing fine in life bro