I can’t anymore I might cut off my parents

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

My parents instilled limiting beliefs on me on everything, they are so closed minded and non innovative in mindset, always be critiquing my progress. Even attempting to looksmin me.


Are all Asian parents like this?????



Also I am going to die before them too, because of the health conditions they have given to me.

 

[gravlek]

Why do you not live on your own

 

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wdym

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

@Xangsane @pneumocystosis @Iasacrko @andy9432 @shabby890 @Beastimmung @Jungcuck

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

wdym

Why do you not live on your own

I have been living on my own for years, but whenever I visit them or even on calls they would always treat me like a child despite all their knowledges are outdated and detrimental to our lives in 2024.



My parents do everything they can to not let me moneymax, they see it as a threat for me to have freedom and break from their grips

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

I have been living on my own for years, but whenever I visit them or even on calls they would always treat me like a child despite all their knowledges are outdated and detrimental to our lives in 2024.



My parents do everything they can to not let me moneymax, they see it as a threat for me to have freedom and break from their grips

Them looking good is more important than my own life

Get criticism from hitting the gym instead of swimming, but will be critiquing on the swimming pass prices.


My health don’t matters, it’s all about success or achievement that I obtained but they want credits for it, I wouldn’t care tbh.


Learning new languages and get criticised for it instead of seeing it as an opportunity for more broader bussiness opportunity.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

Them looking good is more important than my own life

Get criticism from hitting the gym instead of swimming, but will be critiquing on the swimming pass prices.


My health don’t matters, it’s all about success or achievement that I obtained but they want credits for it, I wouldn’t care tbh.


Learning new languages and get criticised for it instead of seeing it as an opportunity for more broader bussiness opportunity.

If i cut contact with them they will paint me as a bad guy the blacksheep in my family and makes everyone hate me and cut ties with me

 

[thereallegend]

Fuck em
All

 

[Alt Number 3]

keep them at arms length. living alone is already a huge step in that direction. I’d want to move out soon too, for other reasons

 

[kebab]

keep them at arms length. living alone is already a huge step in that direction. I’d want to move out soon too, for other reasons

This

 

[SecularIslamist]

Your parents are based. I can tell you're young and they have a traditional mindset which you consider "backward" and would like to break "free" from. Alhamdulillah for my strict parents. I thank them everyday as I get older even if they were bluepilled about some stuff.

 

[LVZZO]

Even attempting to looksmin me

You are that ugly... mercy on your soul

 

[Goth]

At least ur not Dravidian nigga

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

Your parents are based. I can tell you're young and they have a traditional mindset which you consider "backward" and would like to break "free" from. Alhamdulillah for my strict parents. I thank them everyday as I get older even if they were bluepilled about some stuff.

they discourage me from working part time, them hearing me applying on anything almost preemptively criticize my decision despite I have more knowledge on these zoomer world better than them.

ofc I can't play football. and only swimming.


okay if they are strict like no phone no internet no porn and strict bedtime, no candy but whole foods then I understand, that's out of giving and wishing well.

 

[SecularIslamist]

they discourage me from working part time, them hearing me applying on anything almost preemptively criticize my decision despite I have more knowledge on these zoomer world better than them.

They want you to concentrate on education probably. Whatever you're thinking they are well intentioned for sure. They wouldn't knowingly cuck you. If they do then maybe gook parents are worse than even whites.

ofc I can't play football. and only swimming.

That's odd they are selective.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

They want you to concentrate on education probably. Whatever you're thinking they are well intentioned for sure. They wouldn't knowingly cuck you. If they do then maybe gook parents are worse than even whites.

To be their atm?

That's odd they are selective.

status?

 

[SecularIslamist]

To be their atm?

No they want you to be self sufficient.

status?

I don't see how you swimming gives them status jfl.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

No they want you to be self sufficient.

Hmm but I don't have trouble with academic

I don't see how you swimming gives them status jfl.

Maybe football involved alot of contact injuries, idk bad examples.


What about them keeping me financially depending on them?

 

[SecularIslamist]

Hmm but I don't have trouble with academic



Maybe football involved alot of contact injuries, idk bad examples.


What about them keeping me financially depending on them?

Idk that's odd. But you sound like an angsty teen. Either you are or your parents are really fucked in the head. I'm old enough to know it's usually the angsty teen, rather than parents being abusive.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

Idk that's odd. But you sound like an angsty teen. Either you are or your parents are really fucked in the head. I'm old enough to know it's usually the angsty teen, rather than parents being abusive.

Maybe

but I have lived with other families, they seems to be more healthy dynamic, not always ofc