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I literally have nothing, no interests, no passions, no hobbies, i dont like doing anything and i dont enjoy anything, nothing at all. I try to get on social media so i maybe at least get cheap dopamine hits but that isnt even doing anything anymore, im not even into shit i used to do just for entertainment because no video games or anything to watch is fun , i have no hobbies,i dont even like any music i genuinely like nothing, i have no personality im just a robot , an empty fucking husk of a person.Im 17 turning 18 soon and i just moved to a new city for uni, for over a month ive been trying anything to at least have some friends, since the first day of uni when noone had friends either i initiated and talked to people , ive approached over 10 people overall , people and groups , and I still dont even have friends. I even try to be more laid back with some and let it flow but no nothing, with some i try to say lets hang out on the breaks at least and they just blow me off, and before you say im an autist, im genuinely not i had friends in hs and i talk normally about shit everyone else talks about just about the classes or teachers or whatever else is happening just small talk, and now everyone else has friends and friend groups , going out every other day living the uni experience but for me? no even though i tried , even the same people that blew me off have friends theyre hanging out with ,shit some people even found girls already. The worst part is I cant find any objective reason this is happening, im 187 cm im pretty muscular since ive been lifting for a while ,according to everyone else in my city and people who are brutally honest with me my face is at worst above average and according to them i should easily be getting girls,ive grown my hair out , i have improved my style ,im clean with clean clothes, i dont smell, i groom myself and everything like that, i even got into the best school possible, everything objective i can do but apparently im just a fucking reject when it comes to social life. Oh and to top it off im khhv ive never even had female friends or fucking anything. its so fucking over and i cant do anything about it i always thought if i just tried to initiate it would work but no ,now im just a fucking cockroach unwanted by everyone in my little fucking house all day doing nothing, the worst part is that im actually an extrovert and want to talk to people and hang out but i guess im just an unloveable unwanted little wretch.
 
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DNRD Get a haircut and have a shower incel.
 
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Der Mann ohne Eigenschaften
 
@Xangsane
 
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Blabla get into cyber
 
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Blabla get into cyber
jfl at careercoping this whole world is built on sociality if you dont know the right people and friends you wont get ahead anywhere, the skilled nerds always get fucked over by the average guys with connections
 
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jfl at careercoping this whole world is built on sociality if you dont know the right people and friends you wont get ahead anywhere, the skilled nerds always get fucked over by the average guys with connection
I was NOT talking about careers when i said get into cyber
 
I literally have nothing, no interests, no passions, no hobbies, i dont like doing anything and i dont enjoy anything, nothing at all. I try to get on social media so i maybe at least get cheap dopamine hits but that isnt even doing anything anymore, im not even into shit i used to do just for entertainment because no video games or anything to watch is fun , i have no hobbies,i dont even like any music i genuinely like nothing, i have no personality im just a robot , an empty fucking husk of a person.Im 17 turning 18 soon and i just moved to a new city for uni, for over a month ive been trying anything to at least have some friends, since the first day of uni when noone had friends either i initiated and talked to people , ive approached over 10 people overall , people and groups , and I still dont even have friends. I even try to be more laid back with some and let it flow but no nothing, with some i try to say lets hang out on the breaks at least and they just blow me off, and before you say im an autist, im genuinely not i had friends in hs and i talk normally about shit everyone else talks about just about the classes or teachers or whatever else is happening just small talk, and now everyone else has friends and friend groups , going out every other day living the uni experience but for me? no even though i tried , even the same people that blew me off have friends theyre hanging out with ,shit some people even found girls already. The worst part is I cant find any objective reason this is happening, im 187 cm im pretty muscular since ive been lifting for a while ,according to everyone else in my city and people who are brutally honest with me my face is at worst above average and according to them i should easily be getting girls,ive grown my hair out , i have improved my style ,im clean with clean clothes, i dont smell, i groom myself and everything like that, i even got into the best school possible, everything objective i can do but apparently im just a fucking reject when it comes to social life. Oh and to top it off im khhv ive never even had female friends or fucking anything. its so fucking over and i cant do anything about it i always thought if i just tried to initiate it would work but no ,now im just a fucking cockroach unwanted by everyone in my little fucking house all day doing nothing, the worst part is that im actually an extrovert and want to talk to people and hang out but i guess im just an unloveable unwanted little wretch.
dnr
 
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then what
That‘s the fun part isn‘t it?
Seing how crazy things can be, learning stuff and outperforming people. Making money is fun
 
That‘s the fun part isn‘t it?
Seing how crazy things can be, learning stuff and outperforming people. Making money is fun
i replied on the topic of cyber as a career and you said youre not talking about careers, i asked you then what are you talking about, i still dont get it
 
I literally have nothing, no interests, no passions, no hobbies, i dont like doing anything and i dont enjoy anything, nothing at all. I try to get on social media so i maybe at least get cheap dopamine hits but that isnt even doing anything anymore, im not even into shit i used to do just for entertainment because no video games or anything to watch is fun , i have no hobbies,i dont even like any music i genuinely like nothing, i have no personality im just a robot , an empty fucking husk of a person.Im 17 turning 18 soon and i just moved to a new city for uni, for over a month ive been trying anything to at least have some friends, since the first day of uni when noone had friends either i initiated and talked to people , ive approached over 10 people overall , people and groups , and I still dont even have friends. I even try to be more laid back with some and let it flow but no nothing, with some i try to say lets hang out on the breaks at least and they just blow me off, and before you say im an autist, im genuinely not i had friends in hs and i talk normally about shit everyone else talks about just about the classes or teachers or whatever else is happening just small talk, and now everyone else has friends and friend groups , going out every other day living the uni experience but for me? no even though i tried , even the same people that blew me off have friends theyre hanging out with ,shit some people even found girls already. The worst part is I cant find any objective reason this is happening, im 187 cm im pretty muscular since ive been lifting for a while ,according to everyone else in my city and people who are brutally honest with me my face is at worst above average and according to them i should easily be getting girls,ive grown my hair out , i have improved my style ,im clean with clean clothes, i dont smell, i groom myself and everything like that, i even got into the best school possible, everything objective i can do but apparently im just a fucking reject when it comes to social life. Oh and to top it off im khhv ive never even had female friends or fucking anything. its so fucking over and i cant do anything about it i always thought if i just tried to initiate it would work but no ,now im just a fucking cockroach unwanted by everyone in my little fucking house all day doing nothing, the worst part is that im actually an extrovert and want to talk to people and hang out but i guess im just an unloveable unwanted little wretch.
I'm basically in your situation except I have a lot of male friends. I am 21 in 2 months and probably escortmaxxing soon. I hate my life.
 
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I'm basically in your situation except I have a lot of male friends. I am 21 in 2 months and probably escortmaxxing soon. I hate my life.
you are not in my situation bro youre much above me if you think about it , you ignore all the freedom friends offer you until you dont have it, i cant even go outside or talk to anyone i havent had instagram dms in months and the last one was a groupchat, the only way to meet women is through friends as well so having male friends is definately an escape route
 
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you are not in my situation bro youre much above me if you think about it , you ignore all the freedom friends offer you until you dont have it, i cant even go outside or talk to anyone i havent had instagram dms in months and the last one was a groupchat, the only way to meet women is through friends as well so having male friends is definately an escape route
Trust me bro it's just as bad if not worse. I am forced to watch my friends get girls and see girls that never are interested in me ever. It's like seeing fresh meats as a starving man daily and being denied it.
 
Trust me bro it's just as bad if not worse. I am forced to watch my friends get girls and see girls that never are interested in me ever. It's like seeing fresh meats as a starving man daily and being denied it.
its not even only about the inceldom , having literally 0 male friends on top of inceldom is literally the last nail in the coffin, i have no escape, even when im alone i have no personality or interests its just emptiness, emptiness that would be filled with social life but i literally have 0 social life, i cant go out i cant have fun i cant talk to anyone im a reject god has foresaken me
 
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i replied on the topic of cyber as a career and you said youre not talking about careers, i asked you then what are you talking about, i still dont get it
Figure it out yourself what you can do with it
 
Figure it out yourself what you can do with it
tech is definately a good field but if you have no connections youre just going to be taken advantage of, the nerd with high skills always get fucked over by the normal guys with connections bro , connections and friendships are everything literally everything in life
 
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tech is definately a good field but if you have no connections youre just going to be taken advantage of, the nerd with high skills always get fucked over by the normal guys with connections bro , connections and friendships are everything literally everything in life
It‘s not for everyone ig:bluepill::Comfy:
 
tech is definately a good field but if you have no connections youre just going to be taken advantage of, the nerd with high skills always get fucked over by the normal guys with connections bro , connections and friendships are everything literally everything in life
But yes even in the field im talking about, it‘s 100% about connections
 
Very relatable tbh. I am just an empty husk when I do activities. Its hard if not impossible to enjoy anything because i feel constant dread and loneliness wherever I am and whatever I do


Beyond over. I used to be such a happy kid with so many interests. Total social rejection destroyed me
 
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But yes even in the field im talking about, it‘s 100% about connections
bro its almost like you dont even want to try without connections because youll just be the loser everyone takes advantage of and you can only get jobs through friends or people you know
 
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Very relatable tbh. I am just an empty husk when I do activities. Its hard if not impossible to enjoy anything because i feel constant dread and loneliness wherever I am and whatever I do


Beyond over. I used to be such a happy kid with so many interests. Total social rejection destroyed me
i genuinely dont know whats wrong with people like us , i have literally no interest and arent happy or fulfilled doing anything on top of being utterly alone and isolated
 
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i genuinely dont know whats wrong with people like us , i have literally no interest and arent happy or fulfilled doing anything on top of being utterly alone and isolated
I have ptsd and avoidant personality disorder from parental child abuse.

Very hard to live with
 
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im 187 cm im pretty muscular since ive been lifting for a while ,according to everyone else in my city and people who are brutally honest with me my face is at worst above average
Oh nice, another self pity post from someone who thinks his life is ruined when he is infact privileged. Go fuck yourself
 
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This is pretty normal male experience in the modern soyciety.
 
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I have ptsd and avoidant personality disorder from parental child abuse.

Very hard to live with
probably has something to do with being ignored since very young and deemed as worthless and unwanted not that it matters now i guess
 
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Oh nice, another self pity post from someone who thinks his life is ruined when he is infact privileged. Go fuck yourself
yeah im very privelleged to be a khhv at almost 18 who has never even had friends that are girls, have literally 0 friends and drowning in sorrow all day , im sure that most of the people even here dont have friends just like me and stay inside all day jfl
 
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This is pretty normal male experience in the modern soyciety.
i doubt it man everyone i see has friends and friend groups is outside every other day and has girlfriends and able to get girls since ms
 
go clubbing with who? alone? thats social suicide
no nigga just go clubbing alone. you are 187 and you are muscular. i suggest you talk to asian girls and just fuck to experiment with.
 
yeah im very privelleged to be a khhv at almost 18 who has never even had friends that are girls, have literally 0 friends and drowning in sorrow all day , im sure that most of the people even here dont have friends just like me and stay inside all day jfl
friends that are girls are mostly over rated trust me
try going to organised things to such a combat sports gym or university clubs to meet people aswell
 
no nigga just go clubbing alone. you are 187 and you are muscular. i suggest you talk to asian girls and just fuck to experiment with.
im in europe asian girls are rarer than an elephant in the sea, also here going clubbing alone is seen as creepy and weird as fuck people will be like , wheres your friends?
 
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friends that are girls are mostly over rated trust me
try going to organised things to such a combat sports gym or university clubs to meet people aswell
yeah but friends that are girls are probably the best way to meet more girls and get girlfriends or just slay, my uni doesnt have clubs but what sport do you recommend i do? i was thinking combat sports but i dont want brain damage or fucked up joints
 
im in europe asian girls are rarer than an elephant in the sea, also here going clubbing alone is seen as creepy and weird as fuck people will be like , wheres your friends?
then just pay a scort, which is 100% times better than a approaching a random girl, plus you get to choose her looks and she gives you pussy straight away. otherwhise just join some groups idk talk to Europecels
 
then just pay a scort, which is 100% times better than a approaching a random girl, plus you get to choose her looks and she gives you pussy straight away. otherwhise just join some groups idk talk to Europecels
the point of getting girls is actually getting them man idk i just never will understand escorts, what groups do you mean? i guess that could work
 
the point of getting girls is actually getting them man idk i just never will understand escorts, what groups do you mean? i guess that could work
try a sport and you'll definitely find some friends there
 
yeah but friends that are girls are probably the best way to meet more girls and get girlfriends or just slay, my uni doesnt have clubs but what sport do you recommend i do? i was thinking combat sports but i dont want brain damage or fucked up joints
for a combat sport do bjj, you might injure your joints/get a concussion but that is also a factor for every other sport aswell. you could do a non combat sport as well such as soccer. but that is a way you can meet people to go clubbing with and do other things with. also i recommend trying new hobbies even if it seem like pointless cope it can actually help you feel better and you might be able to meet people while doing it.
 
for a combat sport do bjj, you might injure your joints/get a concussion but that is also a factor for every other sport aswell. you could do a non combat sport as well such as soccer. but that is a way you can meet people to go clubbing with and do other things with. also i recommend trying new hobbies even if it seem like pointless cope it can actually help you feel better and you might be able to meet people while doing it.
seems like bjj would be like super expensive, i hate soccer i guess basketball seems kind of interesting but isnt it too late to start as a complete begginer? also what hobbies do you mean man i really need some inspiration rn
 
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what would you recommend? i currently go gym but because im young i think itd be good to do a sport
try boxing or something similar, just be safe.

or if you have pretty boy looks try to skate
 
seems like bjj would be like super expensive, i hate soccer i guess basketball seems kind of interesting but isnt it too late to start as a complete begginer? also what hobbies do you mean man i really need some inspiration rn
if your just competing at low level amateur basketball leagues, you'll probs do well, remember this isnt about doing well this is just about going out and meeting people
also literally any hobbies, something like hiking or skating, two sort of low cost things you can do
 
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try boxing or something similar, just be safe.

or if you have pretty boy looks try to skate
about boxing it just seems too brain damage risky, i want to have fun but also be in good condition after that, skating sounds cool but it really isnt popular here ive never even heard of anyone skating and it also fucks up your joints could close growth plates from the impacts
 
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if your just competing at low level amateur basketball leagues, you'll probs do well, remember this isnt about doing well this is just about going out and meeting people
yeah im not trying to go pro or something just have some fun and meet people , what i mean is , isnt it weird for a complete begginer to start at like 18? i feel like mostly kids do things like that
 
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