I have trouble talking to girls and I'm 16.

[Ovioid]

I'm not sure if this is the right forum, sorry if it isn't.

I'm 16 and I have had a few girlfriends before but I broke up with them all for the same reason, which is the fact that I can't talk to girls at all. I know its because I was called ugly a few years ago by a girl I liked which totally ruined my confidence, which is then when I started going to the gym, but even after that my confidence has remained the same. No matter how the girl looks, no matter how long I've known them for, I still can't talk to them, when talking to girls I'm awkward, weird, and I always basically need to have a male friend around, so that when things get awkward they can jump in and help me. I have tried asking for help before from people I know, but none of them took it serious, and I genuinely need help.

 

[KuniLowda]

Holy larp, atleast you aren't an incel.

 

[Ovioid]

Holy larp, atleast you aren't an incel.

Sadly I'm not larping, while I may not be an incel, it doesn't take away from the fact that I can't speak to women.

 

[FlotPSL]

it doesn't take away from the fact that I can't speak to women.

Low T bro

 

[medialcanthus]

I'm not sure if this is the right forum, sorry if it isn't.

I'm 16 and I have had a few girlfriends before but I broke up with them all for the same reason, which is the fact that I can't talk to girls at all. I know its because I was called ugly a few years ago by a girl I liked which totally ruined my confidence, which is then when I started going to the gym, but even after that my confidence has remained the same. No matter how the girl looks, no matter how long I've known them for, I still can't talk to them, when talking to girls I'm awkward, weird, and I always basically need to have a male friend around, so that when things get awkward they can jump in and help me. I have tried asking for help before from people I know, but none of them took it serious, and I genuinely need help.

you need to get the idea out of your head that women are alien and treat them like you would treat any other person, even if they look good. Women are also still people at the end of the day, they eat sleep shit and get horny just like men. Idk if you watch porn but if you do shut it down completely, if you have an MTN+ friend plunge yourself into very social situations with them

 

[Ovioid]

you need to get the idea out of your head that women are alien and treat them like you would treat any other person, even if they look good. Women are also still people at the end of the day, they eat sleep shit and get horny just like men. Idk if you watch porn but if you do shut it down completely, if you have an MTN+ friend plunge yourself into very social situations with them

Yeah, I understand what you are saying, but I have tried that before, I just dont stop stuttering and I cant look them in the eye. I dont mean to see them as different. It could be because of porn, but quitting that has been impossible so far, I dont do it often though, like once or twice every other week, I can't quit I end up going back, I don't know why. Now as far as hanging around people MTN+, I'm not sure if they are as I don't understand rating, and the people I talk to don't really hang around girls if thats what you were heading towards. Thank you for the genuine reply though, I'll try to do what you said.

 

[medialcanthus]

Yeah, I understand what you are saying, but I have tried that before, I just dont stop stuttering and I cant look them in the eye. I dont mean to see them as different. It could be because of porn, but quitting that has been impossible so far, I dont do it often though, like once or twice every other week, I can't quit I end up going back, I don't know why. Now as far as hanging around people MTN+, I'm not sure if they are as I don't understand rating, and the people I talk to don't really hang around girls if thats what you were heading towards. Thank you for the genuine reply though, I'll try to do what you said.

MTN just means the average guy, not noticably ugly but not hot either. You could probably quit porn by being too busy to consume it. If you have enough to do throughout the day it probably won't even come to mind. And after a while when you get horny just hangout with a girl or call one. There's always gonna be events and parties so theres no excuse to not getting pussy if you're not ugly. Quit porn and start looking girls in the eyes ffs (that might be the worst thing on here)

 

[Ovioid]

Low T bro

I dont think I have low T, might tho, idk.

 

[Ovioid]

MTN just means the average guy, not noticably ugly but not hot either. You could probably quit porn by being too busy to consume it. If you have enough to do throughout the day it probably won't even come to mind. And after a while when you get horny just hangout with a girl or call one. There's always gonna be events and parties so theres no excuse to not getting pussy if you're not ugly. Quit porn and start looking girls in the eyes ffs (that might be the worst thing on here)

I mean I have some people on my rating thread telling me that I'm low HTN+ but idk because some dude also told me to kms and stuff, I don't know what I genuinely look like to people. If u wanna check that thread out and tell me, would be appreciated.

 

[medialcanthus]

I mean I have some people on my rating thread telling me that I'm low HTN+ but idk because some dude also told me to kms and stuff, I don't know what I genuinely look like to people. If u wanna check that thread out and tell me, would be appreciated.

yea nothing very wrong with your looks buddy plunge yourself in any type of female interaction and stop being a fucking loser

 

[FlotPSL]

I dont think I have low T, might tho, idk.

check just incase

 

[Ovioid]

yea nothing very wrong with your looks buddy plunge yourself in any type of female interaction and stop being a fucking loser

got it bro thanks, Ima lock in and try ig, but I'll have to wait til next year of hs starts so I can talk to some girls there

 

[Ovioid]

check just incase

like what should I just get a bloodwork? If its low what do I do

 

[ltnsyn]

like what should I just get a bloodwork? If its low what do I do

Eat and sleep better.. That alone will get your T to a decent amount.

 

[Ovioid]

Eat and sleep better.. That alone will get your T to a decent amount.

thanks bro

 

[Muttcel foid killer]

I'm not sure if this is the right forum, sorry if it isn't.

I'm 16 and I have had a few girlfriends before but I broke up with them all for the same reason, which is the fact that I can't talk to girls at all. I know its because I was called ugly a few years ago by a girl I liked which totally ruined my confidence, which is then when I started going to the gym, but even after that my confidence has remained the same. No matter how the girl looks, no matter how long I've known them for, I still can't talk to them, when talking to girls I'm awkward, weird, and I always basically need to have a male friend around, so that when things get awkward they can jump in and help me. I have tried asking for help before from people I know, but none of them took it serious, and I genuinely need help.

Just talk to them like normal people you had GFS your not ugly just stop being autistic

 

[Ovioid]

Just talk to them like normal people you had GFS your not ugly just stop being autistic

How do I fixing stuttering when around them though?