i think my girlfriend isnt goodlooking enough for me and idk what to do

[chord]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here


edit - for the triggered people getting it wrong I am by no means saying shes ugly she is a very beautiful girl well over average please read what im saying (took the pictures off as i was adviced)

 

[Pale God]

Ethnic subhuman really thinks he can do better. Lol

 

[cfshere]

Dnr, but maybe smile in the pictures instead of trying to mog her jfl

 

[2s2f]

shes at your level be happy edit out this entire thread before she finds it and you will be lonely forever

 

[Arhcie]

Hey. vro if you love her keep doin that but just saying she is 4 fucking 11 so if you ltr with her have a kid hes gonna be a fucking manlet. But you do you your htn so you shouldnt have any issues regarding finding another foid

 

[roidar]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here

you do mog her but only slightly lmao, have you seen how she looks without makeup?

 

[VXO]

looks wise your in a completely different tax bracket to your girl. just start going a little colder and colder, seeing her less and less and basically treating her like she Dosent really exist and she'll break up with you. your no longer the bad guy. its a process that takes time but if you haven't got the courage to tell her its just not working anymore then that's what I would recommend. if you weren't having these feelings you wouldn't even of thought to ask the question or be questioning yourself. so do what's right and get out of the relationship even if it takes a few weeks.

 

[chord]

you do mog her but only slightly lmao, have you seen how she looks without makeup?

i only posted pictures where she looks rlly quite decent lol yes i have been with her for two years i have seen her without makeup only makes the doubts worse

 

[chord]

looks wise your in a completely different tax bracket to your girl. just start going a little colder and colder, seeing her less and less and basically treating her like she Dosent really exist and she'll break up with you. your no longer the bad guy. its a process that takes time but if you haven't got the courage to tell her its just not working anymore then that's what I would recommend. if you weren't having these feelings you wouldn't even of thought to ask the question or be questioning yourself. so do what's right and get out of the relationship even if it takes a few weeks.

thank you for your opinion i appreciate it

 

[chord]

Dnr, but maybe smile in the pictures instead of trying to mog her jfl

lmaoo i have plenty where im smiling but either she hasnt done her makeup or isnt ready i had to find pictures with fair comparisons with both people looking decent

 

[Viriato_catholic]

she isnt ugly but u mog her

 

[lmnopq]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here

Dnr your girl is hot fuck you

 

[Rakopo]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here

js breakup bro its not that deep

 

[MOSSADGLOWIE]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here

follow your intuition if u dont find her attractive anymore then break up you'll make it worse if you try to force the relationship it'll be bad for the both of you

 

[Pale God]

looks wise your in a completely different tax bracket to your girl. just start going a little colder and colder, seeing her less and less and basically treating her like she Dosent really exist and she'll break up with you. your no longer the bad guy. its a process that takes time but if you haven't got the courage to tell her its just not working anymore then that's what I would recommend. if you weren't having these feelings you wouldn't even of thought to ask the question or be questioning yourself. so do what's right and get out of the relationship even if it takes a few weeks.

Are you gay? She's a woman. Even HTBs are worth more than Chadlites but they are looksmatched. Is he supposed to date some model or actress. Get real, you moron.

 

[roidar]

i only posted pictures where she looks rlly quite decent lol yes i have been with her for two years i have seen her without makeup only makes the doubts worse

Honestly if she looks alot worse with makeup aswell you are definitely out of her league, although that is your opinion. I am more concerned by the height difference, she is 1 inch away from being considered a dwarf, and she will fucking nerf the shit out of your kids, If you have a son with her he will most likely be ~5'8, compared to if your girlfriend was 5'6 your son would be ~6'0. I think if you really dont want to be with her anymore tell her its for the best of your future kids as that will make it seem less rude. If you guys are happy togethor I dont see why you would break up unless you really plan on having kids

 

[VXO]

Are you gay? She's a woman. Even HTBs are worth more than Chadlites but they are looksmatched. Is he supposed to date some model or actress. Get real, you moron.

you may think they are worth more. that's the problem with us men we don't hold ourselves to a high enough standard.

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

You dont look good enough for this thinking

 

[chord]

she isnt ugly but u mog her

no no absolutely i agree shes good looking for sure just wasnt quite sure if we are "looksmatched"

 

[Rothschild]

delete this right now wtf r u doing posting ppl in ur personal life here

 

[VXO]

Are you gay? She's a woman. Even HTBs are worth more than Chadlites but they are looksmatched. Is he supposed to date some model or actress. Get real, you moron.

he looks good.

 

[Viriato_catholic]

no no absolutely i agree shes good looking for sure just wasnt quite sure if we are "looksmatched"

just ascend her

 

[Pale God]

Honestly if she looks alot worse with makeup aswell you are definitely out of her league, although that is your opinion. I am more concerned by the height difference, she is 1 inch away from being considered a dwarf, and she will fucking nerf the shit out of your kids, If you have a son with her he will most likely be ~5'8, compared to if your girlfriend was 5'6 your son would be ~6'0. I think if you really dont want to be with her anymore tell her its for the best of your future kids as that will make it seem less rude. If you guys are happy togethor I dont see why you would break up unless you really plan on having kids

Ethnic subhumans shouldn't have kids anyway but I guess their slave mentality propaganda Islam will brainwash them into having kids. Lol

 

[Viriato_catholic]

she looks like a fucking child

wtf

 

[chord]

delete this right now wtf r u doing posting ppl in ur personal life here

again new to this place and also new to lookism etc as a whole only keeping the post up for a bit to gain insight and apparently some well needed humbling

 

[Pale God]

he looks good. she looks like a fucking child.

Is she supposed to look like an old hag? You make no sense.

 

[BeefStrokinoff]

are you happy man? that's what matters. if shes good to you stay who wants a high maintenance god tier looking bitch that just stresses you out. if she treats you well, isnt ugly you find her good looking. and you have good chem fuck everything else let your self be happy big dog. let me tell you man them s tier bitches are evil and nothing but stress

 

[Kingbazoon]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here


edit - for the triggered people getting it wrong I am by no means saying shes ugly she is a very beautiful girl well over average please read what im saying

Looksmatch

 

[Sdnwidn]

I'm completely new here and literally made this account because this has been eating away at me for months and I don't have anyone in real life I can ask without them either calling me an asshole or just telling me what they think I want to hear.

This is a difficult thing to admit because it makes me sound shallow, but I'd rather be honest than pretend I don't feel this way.

I think I'm better looking than my girlfriend. Not by some tiny amount where I'm grasping at straws, but enough that it's become a recurring thought in the relationship. I'm 6'2", she's 4'11" I train consistently, take my health seriously, watch what I eat, stay lean, groom myself properly, care about my skincare, dress well, and I'm always trying to improve how I look. I put a lot of time, discipline, and effort into my appearance because it's important to me.

She... just doesn't. like at the very least try to improve her makeup

I love my girlfriend. She's an amazing person, and there are so many qualities about her that I value. But sometimes I catch myself feeling frustrated in the relationship because I'll think she's just not physically attractive enough for me. It sounds horrible to say out loud.

I love her. She's genuinely a good person, and that's why this is so fucking difficult. But there are moments where she'll ask something of me, and I catch myself thinking Why am I making all these compromises when I'm not even that physically attracted to her or get annoyed when shes trying to be touchy because im constantly thinking she just isnt good looking enough and i can pull better, I feel like a complete asshole for even having that thought.

I don't know how to tell her any of this because I know it'd absolutely destroy her confidence. At the same time, I can't keep pretending everything's fine when this keeps coming back into my head. What makes it worse is that even if I decided I wanted to be with someone I'm more attracted to, ending an otherwise healthy relationship over looks alone makes me sound like the biggest prick on the planet. So I feel completely stuck.

The only thing I'm genuinely unsure about is whether social media all these discussions about hypergamy, "leagues," and constantly seeing attractive people online have warped my perception a bit. I don't think that's the main reason I feel this way, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't wondered whether it's influenced me at all. So I'm asking for honest opinions. If you've been in a similar situation, tell me what you did. If you think I'm overlooking something, tell me. If you think I'm just being shallow, say it. theres also probably people thinking we are a looksmatch or im not ass attractive as i think i am and i js need to be humbled.

Please be honest. I can take criticism. I'd rather hear the truth than keep secondguessing myself. ill put our pictures and a video i took rn here


edit - for the triggered people getting it wrong I am by no means saying shes ugly she is a very beautiful girl well over average please read what im saying

shes short af, and i'd say you probably mog her but bro its not that big of a difference. You'll be fine if you leave but you'll likely find a girl just less attactive than her.

 

[Rothschild]

again new to this place and also new to lookism etc as a whole only keeping the post up for a bit to gain insight and apparently some well needed humbling

yes u deserved to be humbled nigga wtf

is ur only driving factor for a relationship if their good looking or "on ur level" nga tf who do u think u r, you aren't that good looking by any means

i know for a fact ur one of those niggas whos whole lives revolves around lust and ego u fag

if u cared abt her lifestyle as her partner u should be helping her

ur her looksmatch

 

[Asdec]

How stupid can you be to post a picture of your gf in this forum under a thread like that. I have no idea how people do this. Anyway, she is not ugly, neither are you. Mostly looksmatched, but the height difference is too big. Hope you won't have a son with her

 

[ilbradyil]

you look better than her but its not enough to be this concerned over it its egotistical tbh and you never had to start dating her if you didn't like how she looked

 

[chord]

yes u deserved to be humbled nigga wtf

is ur only driving factor for a relationship if their good looking or "on ur level" nga tf who do u think u r, you aren't that good looking by any means

i know for a fact ur one of those niggas whos whole lives revolves around lust and ego u fag

if u cared abt her lifestyle as her partner u should be helping her

ur her looksmatch

again my main concern with the post was for help proposing the idea of "ascending herself" to her and no i wouldnt be here asking for help only driving factor for a relationship if their good looking or "on ur level" because i dont believe thats grounds for a breakup

 

[chord]

you look better than her but its not enough to be this concerned over it its egotistical tbh and you never had to start dating her if you didn't like how she looked

thank you for giving me your opinion

 

[foidfondler]

What a fucking loser

 

[chord]

shes short af, and i'd say you probably mog her but bro its not that big of a difference. You'll be fine if you leave but you'll likely find a girl just less attactive than her.

nah man loads of women objectively better looking than her have approached me and texted me but i do love her and im not going to cheat but yes the difference is minimal if she bothered a bit that gap would easily close.