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6ft8InTheNetherlands
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When I was in my early 20s all I spent my time on was the gym, steroids, constantly 'researching' things on forums and gaming.
I thought going to college was stupid so I never went, and I looked down on people who drank alcohol and did drugs and went out with friends. For whatever reason I simply felt superior to them.
I basically stayed home on the computer and occasionally went on dates with girls.
The truth is that when you don't at least somewhat prioritize your social life when young, you will suffer greatly in your late 20s and early 30s as most bonds are formed during your college years.
All the hours of being a loner and surfing the internet and forums added up for me.
Social inexperience is very real and you won't see the effect until you are 28 and older like me and more lonely than ever. It will be an uphill battle to have meaningful relationships for the rest of your life if you significantly neglect your social life in your early 20's.
Personally, it has negatively affected many areas of my life. For example, I cannot introduce my girlfriend to my friends because I do not have them and you miss the social skills you need to mingle with strangers. It is also very bad that the only person you are in contact with is your girlfriend. There are not many things lower status than having no social life.
I am currently working in security in an area with LOTS of hot young girls and all the guys I work with are HIGHLY social and VERY popular with the staff because of their incredible social skills. They can have small talk with strangers for hours if they would have to and are respected and well liked by many because of their CHARISMA and SOCIAL SKILLS. And yes, many of them get laid despite their very average looks.
I thought going to college was stupid so I never went, and I looked down on people who drank alcohol and did drugs and went out with friends. For whatever reason I simply felt superior to them.
I basically stayed home on the computer and occasionally went on dates with girls.
The truth is that when you don't at least somewhat prioritize your social life when young, you will suffer greatly in your late 20s and early 30s as most bonds are formed during your college years.
All the hours of being a loner and surfing the internet and forums added up for me.
Social inexperience is very real and you won't see the effect until you are 28 and older like me and more lonely than ever. It will be an uphill battle to have meaningful relationships for the rest of your life if you significantly neglect your social life in your early 20's.
Personally, it has negatively affected many areas of my life. For example, I cannot introduce my girlfriend to my friends because I do not have them and you miss the social skills you need to mingle with strangers. It is also very bad that the only person you are in contact with is your girlfriend. There are not many things lower status than having no social life.
I am currently working in security in an area with LOTS of hot young girls and all the guys I work with are HIGHLY social and VERY popular with the staff because of their incredible social skills. They can have small talk with strangers for hours if they would have to and are respected and well liked by many because of their CHARISMA and SOCIAL SKILLS. And yes, many of them get laid despite their very average looks.