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This is an old, old concept, but like all truths, they are old.
If you forget getting women and just focus on yourself you'll make necessary sacrifices for much more wholesome and "long term" reasons than chasing women.
When you chase women, it's about "pleasure" and short term gratification. Getting sex as fast as possible.
When you chase your own goals, it involves enduring pain, to get to some higher goal in a few years.
When you can see clearly that you'll be at a MUCH better place in a few years, you begin to think like old people, who from life experience learned that time goes quickly and if you just set your goal high, and a few years into the future, you'll soon be there, and it's a lot better than blowing all your energy and time on the current moment and being left empty handed in a few years.
Women are not at all even a worthwhile endeavor anymore. It's literally not in their nature to be loyal to you. Society used to force them to be loyal, but now it promotes them doing whatever they want, and it's in their nature to hop on the hottest dudes cock. Even if you're literally perfect, they will get with a different guy out of fucking boredom. Please realize this. There is no loyalty in the female brain, it's not a concept that they care about.
You'll find if you focus on yourself you'll be a lot happier too. You won't focus overwhelmingly on the opinions of others. Your life feels more meaningful. You actually get results in life and move forward into a life worth living. Life as the average male isn't worth living unless you're at the top, and in your 20s it becomes a "who can work harder" game.
Life for me was very difficult. I began life with zero opportunity. Bad genetics, bad parents, bad social connections, no job opportunities, nobody to network with. Literally zero. Not even a life worth living. You slowly over the years find jobs, find connections, build muscle, improve the way you dress, the way you look, it all takes time. The one thing I did have was work ethic. I always dreamt big and was willing to work to get it.
Life in your 20s is a competition. By the time you are 30 you are at peak SMV to all women of all ages and you should be mogging with money, social skills, a house, car, a good body, surgeries if you need it, etc.
The losers are the ones who never hit the gym, never worked hard to make money, never did anything substantial in their 20s. Or the ones who partied and chased women the entire time.
Seriously. Focus on yourself and you'll be surprised at how much you mentally develop.
If you forget getting women and just focus on yourself you'll make necessary sacrifices for much more wholesome and "long term" reasons than chasing women.
When you chase women, it's about "pleasure" and short term gratification. Getting sex as fast as possible.
When you chase your own goals, it involves enduring pain, to get to some higher goal in a few years.
When you can see clearly that you'll be at a MUCH better place in a few years, you begin to think like old people, who from life experience learned that time goes quickly and if you just set your goal high, and a few years into the future, you'll soon be there, and it's a lot better than blowing all your energy and time on the current moment and being left empty handed in a few years.
Women are not at all even a worthwhile endeavor anymore. It's literally not in their nature to be loyal to you. Society used to force them to be loyal, but now it promotes them doing whatever they want, and it's in their nature to hop on the hottest dudes cock. Even if you're literally perfect, they will get with a different guy out of fucking boredom. Please realize this. There is no loyalty in the female brain, it's not a concept that they care about.
You'll find if you focus on yourself you'll be a lot happier too. You won't focus overwhelmingly on the opinions of others. Your life feels more meaningful. You actually get results in life and move forward into a life worth living. Life as the average male isn't worth living unless you're at the top, and in your 20s it becomes a "who can work harder" game.
Life for me was very difficult. I began life with zero opportunity. Bad genetics, bad parents, bad social connections, no job opportunities, nobody to network with. Literally zero. Not even a life worth living. You slowly over the years find jobs, find connections, build muscle, improve the way you dress, the way you look, it all takes time. The one thing I did have was work ethic. I always dreamt big and was willing to work to get it.
Life in your 20s is a competition. By the time you are 30 you are at peak SMV to all women of all ages and you should be mogging with money, social skills, a house, car, a good body, surgeries if you need it, etc.
The losers are the ones who never hit the gym, never worked hard to make money, never did anything substantial in their 20s. Or the ones who partied and chased women the entire time.
Seriously. Focus on yourself and you'll be surprised at how much you mentally develop.
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