Im a fucking loser.

[Melnikomplex]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

 

[justaloser]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

dnr but im sorry/happy for you

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

if it makes you feel any better, i lost my virginity at 18, my senior year. i also transferred my last year to a completely different school, and had very few friends. i legit was so suicidal i told myself that i atleast cant die a virgin, and just instagrammaxxed until i found some foid willing to fuck with me. you got this bro.

 

[ascend.exe]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

As a guy who used to get made fun of by his classmates then went to every party in Senior Year why don't u just try talking to em?

Wut are you doing to looksmax, like ur clearly jealous of ur brother but why are you sweaty?? That means ur prolly out of shape

 

[amp]

if it makes you feel any better, i lost my virginity at 18, my senior year. i also transferred my last year to a completely different school, and had very few friends. i legit was so suicidal i told myself that i atleast cant die a virgin, and just instagrammaxxed until i found some foid willing to fuck with me. you got this bro.

can you elaborate more on the instagramaxxing and how u escalated with the foid

 

[Melnikomplex]

As a guy who used to get made fun of by his classmates then went to every party in Senior Year why don't u just try talking to em?

Wut are you doing to looksmax, like ur clearly jealous of ur brother but why are you sweaty?? That means ur prolly out of shape

Im sweaty because its a 30 minute bike ride to school ( in morning Texas heat). My brother gets a ride from his friends though. I will admit im not the skinniest and leanest, but I am working on that.

 

[TopTierIncel42]

read everything just for you truecell

 

[Melnikomplex]

if it makes you feel any better, i lost my virginity at 18, my senior year. i also transferred my last year to a completely different school, and had very few friends. i legit was so suicidal i told myself that i atleast cant die a virgin, and just instagrammaxxed until i found some foid willing to fuck with me. you got this bro.

Instagrammaxxed doesnt work for me (maybe I haven't tried hard enough) but half the time the foids I follow never follow me back

 

[Melnikomplex]

read everything just for you truecell

You underestimate how much this means for me

 

[ascend.exe]

Im sweaty because its a 30 minute bike ride to school ( in morning Texas heat). My brother gets a ride from his friends though. I will admit im not the skinniest and leanest, but I am working on that.

dang that sucks that ur bro gets a ride, I can sympathize with that being sweaty at school sucks and destroys all ur confidence.

I think if u put yourself out there and maybe talked to the nicer people who get invited to those parties u wanna attend. Be friendly and kind to others and I think they'll do the same back.

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

can you elaborate more on the instagramaxxing and how u escalated with the foid

i dont do this anymore since im out of highschool and the dynamics are a bit different, but when i was in highschool "finstas"(fake instagrams) were a very big thing. getting into a girls finsta is literally the easiest way to instagrammaxx without followers, because its normal for those types of accounts to have low followers and be private. so i had a main with like 300-400 followers at the time, and a finsta i used to try and follow other girls on. i angle frauded like hell, in my 3/4s im easily HMTN and I had a long curly hair halo at the time. so I used these fraudmaxxed photos and the finsta technique to find some ltbs-lmtbs with body halos in my area.

 

[Banana.]

Hey man, I really feel what you’re saying. It sounds like you’ve been putting in a lot of effort — working hard, staying disciplined, trying to do the right things — and it’s rough when it feels like none of that pays off socially. You don’t deserve to feel invisible. Moving schools that late in high school is brutal for anyone, even people who seem confident or good-looking.

What you’re feeling doesn’t mean you’re doomed or “a loser.” It just means you’re in a tough chapter — one that will pass. A lot of people who peak later in life were in exactly your spot right now: lonely, overlooked, and wondering if it’ll ever get better. It does. You’re clearly self-aware, intelligent, and willing to work — that’s a combo that will open doors later on.

You might not be able to change everything overnight, but small steps matter. Talk to one person a day, even if it’s just a quick “what’s up.” Join a club or class activity that’s even slightly interesting to you. People remember consistency and kindness more than looks or parties.

You’re not behind — you’re just early in your story. Don’t let this current moment convince you it’s the whole picture.

 

[Melnikomplex]

dang that sucks that ur bro gets a ride, I can sympathize with that being sweaty at school sucks and destroys all ur confidence.

I think if u put yourself out there and maybe talked to the nicer people who get invited to those parties u wanna attend. Be friendly and kind to others and I think they'll do the same back.

I just feel like such an outsider since most of these kids have known eachother since elementary school. I feel like they've already established themselves as groups.

 

[amp]

appreciate it

 

[amp]

Hey man, I really feel what you’re saying. It sounds like you’ve been putting in a lot of effort — working hard, staying disciplined, trying to do the right things — and it’s rough when it feels like none of that pays off socially. You don’t deserve to feel invisible. Moving schools that late in high school is brutal for anyone, even people who seem confident or good-looking.

What you’re feeling doesn’t mean you’re doomed or “a loser.” It just means you’re in a tough chapter — one that will pass. A lot of people who peak later in life were in exactly your spot right now: lonely, overlooked, and wondering if it’ll ever get better. It does. You’re clearly self-aware, intelligent, and willing to work — that’s a combo that will open doors later on.

You might not be able to change everything overnight, but small steps matter. Talk to one person a day, even if it’s just a quick “what’s up.” Join a club or class activity that’s even slightly interesting to you. People remember consistency and kindness more than looks or parties.

You’re not behind — you’re just early in your story. Don’t let this current moment convince you it’s the whole picture.

holy ai slop jfl

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

Instagrammaxxed doesnt work for me (maybe I haven't tried hard enough) but half the time the foids I follow never follow me back

dont try girls at ur school, do girls from surrounding neighborhoods, if a network of girls notices ur following all of them, its a recipe for absolutely none of them to follow u back if even just one of them doesnt show mild interest in u, because women demonstrate the largest amounts of ingroup bias.

 

[Banana.]

holy ai slop jfl

Not ai but I send it to chat gpt to spell check it for me so kinda I guess

 

[Melnikomplex]

Not ai but I send it to chat gpt to spell check it for me so kinda I guess

 

[Melnikomplex]

Not ai but I send it to chat gpt to spell check it for me so kinda I guess

Even if that was ai idc it still meant alot to me. Thanks bro

 

[THE ORG OGRE]

if youre ugly then fix it via looksmaxing, and if you have problem talking to people just progressively overload it every single day, lvl 1- start from asking people directions ,asking where the store is lvl2- slowly start to make short convos with people of 30 secs like whats your name , hows your day going, lvl-3 extend the short convos and just like that keep progressively overload...

 

[irrumator praetor]

I just feel like such an outsider since most of these kids have known eachother since elementary school. I feel like they've already established themselves as groups.

some group would be willing to take you in

 

[irrumator praetor]

if u need help finding a group to be accepted into then read my post about convomogging chad where I detail social castes in a hierarchical system. You can most easily at first socialmax with the local losers, according to my theory

 

[jaaba]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

I feel you brother, it’s a shit situation but all you can do is keep your head up and continue trying to improve your life; I know it’s water but there’s not much benefit on dwelling on your misfortune, it’s a slippery slope that won’t lead to anything helpful. Good luck with everything dude

 

[DoctorPMA]

I read everything and I know what you are feeling. I recommend you to put effort in socializing as much as you can. Learn about it and have exposure to it. It will get easier

 

[OldSpice]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

why'd ur parents take all ur money, what happened?

 

[OldSpice]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

if all ur siblings are attractive then genetics probably isn't the problem, maybe it's ur habits? Play sports and u can make friends there, lose wieght and it'll make u look better

 

[Melnikomplex]

why'd ur parents take all ur money, what happened?

They cant afford their debt for a business they tried launching

 

[Node]

Dnrd

 

[Node]

One moleciel

 

[Melnikomplex]

Idk what anything u said means

 

[OldSpice]

They cant afford their debt for a business they tried launching

damn will they pay u back when they remake the money?

 

[romanstock]

I used to bike to school, was the last person I knew to get a car, didn't go to prom, missed most school parties (i went to 2). And I also like history. OVer for you.

 

[Melnikomplex]

damn will they pay u back when they remake the money?

They said they would. I overheard them talking about filing for bankruptcy so I doubt it. Im still figuring things out because that was supposed to be my car fund.

 

[Robloxfan25]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

Are you gonna go to college

 

[OldSpice]

As I alr suggested earlier, why not lose weight, eat healthy and go to some sort of club, perferably sports or martial arts and you can make some friends there and start to be social?

 

[Melnikomplex]

Are you gonna go to college

If I can afford it yes

 

[amiok]

if it makes you feel any better, i lost my virginity at 18, my senior year. i also transferred my last year to a completely different school, and had very few friends. i legit was so suicidal i told myself that i atleast cant die a virgin, and just instagrammaxxed until i found some foid willing to fuck with me. you got this bro.

ts some real shit lol

 

[Need212]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

If you notice that you always carry a slight smell that means u smell like actual shit 24/7. I honestly think thats the issue to half your problems

 

[Melnikomplex]

If you notice that you always carry a slight smell that means u smell like actual shit 24/7. I honestly think thats the issue to half your problems

The thing is I bike about 30 minutes to school in the morning brcause my parents are busy driving my siblings, so I always show up sweaty. Any tips on solving this issue?

 

[Need212]

The thing is I bike about 30 minutes to school in the morning brcause my parents are busy driving my siblings, so I always show up sweaty. Any tips on solving this i

Dont be fat, or attain better physical fitness. The more in shape you are the less energy it will take to complete this commute, in turn making you sweat less. This means less burning of calories via sweaty fat and no stinky bacteria building up. Use an antiperspirant deodorant such as dove for men. Shower morning and night. Do cardio before your night shower.

 

[dogedogedoge]

3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not.

I swear the only way to make friends is to drink or do drugs… But then it raises the question: Who wants to be friends with those people anyways? And then you’re a friendless loser forever!

 

[Melnikomplex]

I swear the only way to make friends is to drink or do drugs… But then it raises the question: Who wants to be friends with those people anyways? And then you’re a friendless loser forever!

Fr everyone always says to stay away from peiple doing drugs and drinking but then your just surrounded by them and your the odd one out

 

[shaneywaney69]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

if i knew u irl i would befriend u

 

[Melnikomplex]

if i knew u irl i would befriend u

U wouldn't even know i exist ur only saying this

 

[shaneywaney69]

U wouldn't even know i exist ur only saying this

whatever bro take care

 

[Molotongo]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

Won't read but good luck brah

 

[jharm]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

If you stink at school none of the popular people are gonna talk to you, if you sweat when biking then just walk. When you help someone with assignments just ask them a personal question(nothing weird just something casual). When you hear about a party just ask someone if they are going good chance they will ask u back, just say no and pray they tell you to come with them. Best way to get started is to befriend someone who isnt popular but way less of a social retard than you

 

[Melnikomplex]

If you stink at school none of the popular people are gonna talk to you, if you sweat when biking then just walk. When you help someone with assignments just ask them a personal question(nothing weird just something casual). When you hear about a party just ask someone if they are going good chance they will ask u back, just say no and pray they tell you to come with them. Best way to get started is to befriend someone who isnt popular but way less of a social retard than you

Thank you for that party tip and stuff but the thing about me sweating is that I really dont have much options besides biking. If I walk, it will be about a 1 hour walk to school and like 30 minutes by bike. To walk to school I would have to wake up much earlier, which in that case I will be super tired since I usually get off work late (job wont give me early shifts no matter what I do). The party tip thing seems interesting tho thanks bro.

 

[jharm]

I've recently moved to a new area and started attending a new school. All the hard work and progress I had made towards making friends in my old city went to waste. I only have 1 year of school left and still have never dated a girl, been to a party, or have been present at any popular social gathering. I dont know ow the core reason but im sure its because 1. Im ugly. 2. I cant keep a conversation flowing. 3. I have never engaged in mischief or what not. This new school has a crazy party culture, (keep in mind its a high school). Literally every week a party happens at someone's house, and I sit alone at my desk, coping with my social isolation by playing stupid fucking videogames and reading dumb shit about history. The only times I really talk to some people at school is to help them with assignments. When I come back to the class from the bathroom, no one even dares open the door ( it automatically locks after its closed) and I can only get in after I knock several times and the teacher opens the door. I also bike to school, because my parents took all my money and I cant buy a car (and once again, have no friends to drive me). I always arrive to school sweaty. No matter how much deodorant I put on, how good I shower, if I put cologne on, I still have a slight odor. My brother, on the other hand, is decent looking, has great friends who he hangs out with, who drive him, who talk with him. He talks to girls frequently. I do everything I belive I need to do ( I've been working 10~15 hours since I was 14). Im such a fucking loser and im afraid I will never be able to go to homecoming with girl or a group of friends. Im afraid I will not be able to experience prom like everyone else. Im afraid I won't ever attend a party. I hate my stupid fucking life. I did nothing to deserve this while my older brother and little sister get everything handed to them while everything of mine gets taken away.

If you stink at school none of the popular people are gonna talk to you, if you sweat when biking then just walk. When you help someone with assignments just ask them a personal question(nothing weird just something casual). When you hear about a party just ask someone if they are going good chance they will ask u back, just say no and pray they tell you to come with them. Best way to get started is to befriend someone who isnt popular but way less of a social

Thank you for that party tip and stuff but the thing about me sweating is that I really dont have much options besides biking. If I walk, it will be about a 1 hour walk to school and like 30 minutes by bike. To walk to school I would have to wake up much earlier, which in that case I will be super tired since I usually get off work late (job wont give me early shifts no matter what I do). The party tip thing seems interesting tho thanks bro.

Use a deodorant that contains aluminium chloride it may help and you could also shave your armpits cause the hair holds sweat. Also change your shirt everyday and not webring a backpack when biking also helps

 

[TiktokUser]

Thank you for that party tip and stuff but the thing about me sweating is that I really dont have much options besides biking. If I walk, it will be about a 1 hour walk to school and like 30 minutes by bike. To walk to school I would have to wake up much earlier, which in that case I will be super tired since I usually get off work late (job wont give me early shifts no matter what I do). The party tip thing seems interesting tho thanks bro.

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