Is looksmaxing an excuse?

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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
 
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Working on that hospital got you tripping lil bro
 
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Working on that hospital got you tripping lil bro
I have been thinking about this since way before I started working at the hospital. I am just grasping at straws in order for me not to socialize.
 
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@StrangerDanger @WishIwasChico @Krakowski thoughts?
 
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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.
You just sound low inhib from this. Could be that. Why are you afraid to get vulnerable? Why are you afraid of contacting women?
They don't bite.
My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
You can go for girls literally whenever. If you maintain resolve and don't let yourself become an abused dog, your romantic experience prior to ascending will be crucial for when you actually do ascend. Better to have bad experience than no experience at all. Otherwise you'll be a good looking autist instead of a bad looking one. Get social skills.

So you are excusing yourself.

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You just sound low inhib from this. Could be that. Why are you afraid to get vulnerable? Why are you afraid of contacting women?
They don't bite.
I fear humiliation.
You can go for girls literally whenever. If you maintain resolve and don't let yourself become an abused dog, your romantic experience prior to ascending will be crucial for when you actually do ascend. Better to have bad experience than no experience at all. Otherwise you'll be a good looking autist instead of a bad looking one. Get social skills.

So you are excusing yourself.

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I know what you are saying logically but I just don't feel worthy of relationships before looking my best.
 
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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
yes
 
The only people who say looksmaxxing is a cope are narcy Indians and kids who haven’t even graduated highschool yet
 
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Depends on how gl you are
 
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Yes it is look at that guy WishIWasChico, extremly autistic username and look at him now, considering your profile pic you might be in the same situation
 
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I fear humiliation.
If you're in a school/college/uni setting that's a common feeling to have. What I would say is just stop giving a fuck about how people percieve you, but that's easier said than done. Do you really care about the types of people who would perceive you negatively for doing what you desire? Is validation from the type of niggas to hate on your dreams really necessary?

I know what you are saying logically but I just don't feel worthy of relationships before looking my best.
Also fair. My biggest fear is coming across "The One" before I've ascended. Once you realize there are hundreds of "The Ones" it becomes a lot less stressful. If you fear getting cheated/dumped/manipulated for not looking good enough, drop those fears. The type of girls like that weren't even worth your time anyway.

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The only people who say looksmaxxing is a cope are narcy Indians and kids who haven’t even graduated highschool yet
I did not say looksmaxing is cope, I just said it might be an excuse for me not to socialize with women because I can say I'm ugly.

Depends on how gl you are
I am not attractive.

Also fair. My biggest fear is coming across "The One" before I've ascended. Once you realize there are hundreds of "The Ones" it becomes a lot less stressful. If you fear getting cheated/dumped/manipulated for not looking good enough, drop those fears. The type of girls like that weren't even worth your time anyway.

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True, there are a lot of girls that are "The One".
 
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Yes it is look at that guy WishIWasChico, extremly autistic username and look at him now, considering your profile pic you might be in the same situation
He mogs me.
 
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True, there are a lot of girls that are "The One".
TRUEsuka


That being said, better to looksmax before you fumble "The One" one too many times. Still go for every relationship you desire, and looksmax during them. Never get complacent.
 
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Its an excuse to justify being narcisstic or desperate for validation. Gymcel is a close 2nd
 
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That being said, better to looksmax before you fumble "The One" one too many times. Still go for every relationship you desire, and looksmax during them. Never get complacent.
Yeah I'll rot until 23 and keep looksmaxing with surgeries. Chadlite or bust.
 
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most likely since in the end getting laid is not even that important. you just make looksmaxxing a life purpose to fill the void and to have something you can strive for. and arguably its not a good type of goal to have set because you will never be truly satisfied
 
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most likely since in the end getting laid is not even that important. you just make looksmaxxing a life purpose to fill the void and to have something you can strive for. and arguably its not a good type of goal to have set because you will never be truly satisfied
Look like me AVI woken up or shotgun implants.
 
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Look like me AVI woken up or shotgun implants.
even if you did wake up looking like this, you would just get used to it. It's surely better than being ugly, that is not my point. but even having a 10/10 face won't make you fulfilled.

not sure what to tell ya brother I'm depressed with this shit too
 
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even if you did wake up looking like this, you would just get used to it. It's surely better than being ugly, that is not my point. but even having a 10/10 face won't make you fulfilled.

not sure what to tell ya brother I'm depressed with this shit too
WHY CAN'T I JUST ASCEND?!?
 
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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
Also this 'once i get there ill do x and x' is cringe. You will fail at life like this.
 
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posting about chico everyday isn't looksmaxing, so you're safe
 
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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
Yes it's an excuse to have your life on hold and not do stuff
 
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posting about chico everyday isn't looksmaxing, so you're safe
Not my fault making money takes a lot of time so I can't get surgeries for a while.

Yes it's an excuse to have your life on hold and not do stuff
Yeah but people try to antagonize and shame me for it IRL instead of seeing it as reasonable.
 
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I can't just live life as is, not worthy, not yet.
You need to step outside your bubble and see the bigger picture. I used to be like this too, and I can tell you its the worst thing to do. You don't even know if you're truly going to ascend

And if yes, then 1 year 2 years, 5 years, 10 years? By the time you do 'ascend' you will have nothing left to show for


Trust me incel . This is not something I or @Krakowski can convince you, but live in the real world and face it head on. Your recessed lateral orbitals would be the last concern of any single human you meet. This much I guarantee you
 
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I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
I just want my loneliness to be the poetic melancholy of a man who simply cannot connect with the result of the world. I want it to be aesthetic, walking through empty streets during the nighttime, pondering my existence and looking pained but beautiful. I want my loneliness to be something out of movies or music, artistic. When you're sad but look good, you're complex and troubled, misunderstood, and a reflection of the struggle of a man that's an alien to his own people.
Meanwhile if you're ugly and lonely you're just another gross loser. Hell no.
 
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You need to step outside your bubble and see the bigger picture. I used to be like this too, and I can tell you its the worst thing to do. You don't even know if you're truly going to ascend
I know I'm going to ascend.
And if yes, then 1 year 2 years, 5 years, 10 years? By the time you do 'ascend' you will have nothing left to show for
It will open doors.
Trust me incel . This is not something I or @Krakowski can convince you, but live in the real world and face it head on. Your recessed lateral orbitals would be the last concern of any single human you meet. This much I guarantee you
Just because people don't know the terminology doesn't mean the appearence of features won't affect them.

I just want my loneliness to be the poetic melancholy of a man who simply cannot connect with the result of the world. I want it to be aesthetic, walking through empty streets during the nighttime, pondering my existence and looking pained but beautiful. I want my loneliness to be something out of movies or music, artistic. When you're sad but look good, you're complex and troubled, misunderstood, and a reflection of the struggle of a man that's an alien to his own people.
Meanwhile if you're ugly and lonely you're just another gross loser. Hell no.
Spot on why I want to ascend too.
 
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Yes its true still your lookslevel reflects your dating life you are a 6’3 mtn no reason to be a incel at all
 
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INXP mind be brutal
 
I just want my loneliness to be the poetic melancholy of a man who simply cannot connect with the result of the world. I want it to be aesthetic, walking through empty streets during the nighttime, pondering my existence and looking pained but beautiful. I want my loneliness to be something out of movies or music, artistic. When you're sad but look good, you're complex and troubled, misunderstood, and a reflection of the struggle of a man that's an alien to his own people.
Meanwhile if you're ugly and lonely you're just another gross loser. Hell no.
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But I don't have to, I can fix all my failos since I have no unfixable ones.
You can do that like me i am planning to surgery maxx too but you dont need to be lonely in the mean time get some experience brother
 
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You can do that like me i am planning to surgery maxx too but you dont need to be lonely in the mean time get some experience brother
How can I enjoy fucking if I don't feel sexy during it, will just feel like I'm raping the girl because I'm ugly.
 
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How can I enjoy fucking if I don't feel sexy during it, will just feel like I'm raping the girl because I'm ugly.
The thing is you are not even ugly you look normal its something mentally
 
The thing is you are not even ugly you look normal its something mentally
Normal is ugly. I want to stand out. My friend IRL said I shouldn't get surgeries because I look normal, and I said looking normal is the problem.
 
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Normal is ugly. I want to stand out. My friend IRL said I shouldn't get surgeries because I look normal, and I said looking normal is the problem.
Normall people have gf and so you are not a sub 5 so there is not really a problem you can accend but in the mean time get at least some experience don’t waste your youth
 
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How can I enjoy fucking if I don't feel sexy during it, will just feel like I'm raping the girl because I'm ugly.
This.

I don't think looksmaxxing is the solution though. (beyond becoming reasonable looking, lean, taken care off,etc)

We are literally oppressed by society and the world around us to behave and believe like we are ugly cockroach losers.

The true ascension is mental and realizing everyone is against you and trying to destroy you. And the only way to succeed in life is to fight.
 
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My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?
Probably a bit of both. You're probably using looksmaxing as an excuse to not try now, but, no, it's not purely an excuse or even mostly an excuse. Interacting with women who are attracted to you from the get go is fun and makes you feel good. Trying to game women who are initially not attracted to you is fucking miserable.
 
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Normall people have gf
normal people are incels or are cuckold worthless losers.

dont compare normal people to people that actually have ambition and want to be respected in life.

people that actually want to fuck hot women instead of coping with some roastie.
 
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I shattered my femurs and used that as an excuse to piss in a bottle and jerk off all day after they stopped giving opiates
 
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I don't think looksmaxxing is the solution though. (beyond becoming reasonable looking, lean, taken care off,etc)
I will break every bone in my face before talking to a girl.
 
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I will break every bone in my face before talking to a girl.
yeah cuz ur mentally sabotaging yourself and you can break every bone in your face and it will never be enough.

You are literally posting on a suicide-forum at the moment.
 
Yes its true still your lookslevel reflects your dating life you are a 6’3 mtn no reason to be a incel at all
being a few inches above average doesn't guarantee you will do well if you are a mtn tho
 

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