It is never worth it to attempt to fix things after a botched relationship or FWB situation

[turkproducer]

it is almost as if once you are dead to a woman you are truly dead to them

so there is no point trying to fix things with them, if it goes sour just leave because in my experience they are never willing to truly fix shit

just forget your oneitis and ex if you are still obsessed

 

[mysterycel]

If a girl breaks up with you, go no contact immediately, don't give them any response or fuel or anything to justify their bullshit, they don't exist and your future is gone. If they ever contact you again, ensure you are in a position to mog them into oblivion. Never settle for bullshit, you deserve better if a bitch is trying to play games. Women can't love men unless it's their child.

 

[turkproducer]

If a girl breaks up with you, go no contact immediately, don't give them any response or fuel or anything to justify their bullshit, they don't exist and your future is gone. If they ever contact you again, ensure you are in a position to mog them into oblivion. Never settle for bullshit, you deserve better if a bitch is trying to play games. Women can't love men unless it's their child.

trust me every situation that went sour with a female it never worked out even if i tried to ghost or work things out but especially if i tried to fix shit

 

[mysterycel]

trust me every situation that went sour with a female it never worked out even if i tried to ghost or work things out but especially if i tried to fix shit

I can relate. I thought it would be a good idea to date a bitch that cheated on her boyfriend with me for 2 years because we were in love, turns out she's just a sick narcissistic parasite. I tried to fix things, but realized it wouldn't matter. I'd just become a beta cuck loser she wants me to be. She's a shit tier human, and that won't change probably ever.

 

[turkproducer]

I can relate. I thought it would be a good idea to date a bitch that cheated on her boyfriend with me for 2 years because we were in love, turns out she's just a sick narcissistic parasite. I tried to fix things, but realized it wouldn't matter. I'd just become a beta cuck loser she wants me to be. She's a shit tier human, and that won't change probably ever.

yeah they always try to betafy you

my ex always tried to make me feel guilty for not placing her on a pedestal and after we broke up she always hit me up but never actually met me, the vibe was always different.

 

[mysterycel]

yeah they always try to betafy you

my ex always tried to make me feel guilty for not placing her on a pedestal and after we broke up she always hit me up but never actually met me, the vibe was always different.

They only do that to keep you around bro. That's why the vibe is different, because you're the option now, not the choice. It's called hoovering. They know you now and have made an assessment, so in case their options cease to exist, they will settle for you again, they're looking to date up, not down. The vibe will never be restored though, and if they do, they're lying and manipulating you. Life is not a movie, I wish things were different. Bluepilled life is bliss, you can ignore this information. Sadly black pill is the crushing realization, that it was temporary, their feelings only exist in the moment, and when they're gone, you are the one that holds on to them.

 

[turkproducer]

They only do that to keep you around bro. That's why the vibe is different, because you're the option now, not the choice. It's called hoovering. They know you now and have made an assessment, so in case their options cease to exist, they will settle for you again, they're looking to date up, not down. The vibe will never be restored though, and if they do, they're lying. Life is not a movie.

yeah i feel you mate i know it’s dead with her

i threw away a virgin LTR type of girl, i fucked up but it is what it is.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

We are nothing to women