I’ve developed feelings and have been attached to a girl from my college for almost a whole year. I don’t know what to do, it’s complicated.

[nabiodcels]

Kind of in a similar situation, I came to the conclusion to distance myself slowly from her. I could’ve slayed her as well but too high inhib for that. Be the price, be confident and keep yourself up King, not worth the stress of people who are not clear about you.

I want to do that but I don’t know how to. I genuinely feel bad when I do. Legit the last day of the spring semester when we were on move out day, I said goodbye to her and then later called her and said sorry if I was being distant earlier in the semester like a little dog cuck. Idk what to dolike it’s just one mtb but im genuinely stuck

 

[nabiodcels]

bump

 

[moggedbyelonmusk]

I want to do that but I don’t know how to. I genuinely feel bad when I do. Legit the last day of the spring semester when we were on move out day, I said goodbye to her and then later called her and said sorry if I was being distant earlier in the semester like a little dog cuck. Idk what to dolike it’s just one mtb but im genuinely stuck

Imo you were a bit too vulnerable with her but not blaming you, foids can be tricky sometimes. Do nothing would be my advice but it’s up to you. Either by distancing yourself slowly, or directly cutting contact by ghosting. Slowly distancing seems a bit more NT, because otherwise she’ll think you’re hurt or something and that should never be the case. Complete ghosting out of nowhere can still be very effective too if doing rightly. For me it‘s 2 days since I have been distancing myself and you know, in this process I believe, you’ll also see how much worth you really are for that person. I realized that my Foid is still emotionally too attached on her subhuman “ ex/ good friend“, so yeah, she can have that ugly motherfucker she’s not deserving of the dark prince that i am

 

[nabiodcels]

Imo you were a bit too vulnerable with her but not blaming you, foids can be tricky sometimes. Do nothing would be my advice but it’s up to you. Either by distancing yourself slowly, or directly cutting contact by ghosting. Slowly distancing seems a bit more NT, because otherwise she’ll think you’re hurt or something and that should never be the case. Complete ghosting out of nowhere can still be very effective too if doing rightly. For me it‘s 2 days since I have been distancing myself and you know, in this process I believe, you’ll also see how much worth you really are for that person. I realized that my Foid is still emotionally too attached on her subhuman “ ex/ good friend“, so yeah, she can have that ugly motherfucker she’s not deserving of the dark prince that i am

Should I just ask her out or nah