Just be weird theory

[copemaxxeer]

For people who are not very good at navigating social conventions, it is often easier to learn to be visibly weird than to learn to adapt to the social conventions.

this often works because there are some spaces where being visibly weird is tolerated, or even celebrated. in fact, from the perspective of an organization, it is good for your success if you are good at protecting weird people.

but from the perspective of an individual, leaning too hard into weirdness is possibly harmful. part of leaning into weirdness is intentional ignorance of normal conventions. this traps you in a local minimum where any progress on understanding normal conventions hurts your weirdness, but isn't enough to jump all the way to the basin of the normal mode of interaction.

This is why I decided to femboymaxx, as an autistic male the battle to achieve success in the NT world was never a possibility in the first place.

 

[Ci-Sphere]

For people who are not very good at navigating social conventions, it is often easier to learn to be visibly weird

You say like being "weird" is a quirky thing for everyone.

Being "weird" only applies for good-looking guys because people will just go on to assume that its apart of his "character" (water) but if you're just a generic normie looking guy, being weird will only negatively impact you in social events.

People will just distance themselves from you and laugh at you.

 

[cooldude1231]

You say like being "weird" is a quirky thing for everyone.

Being "weird" only applies for good-looking guys because people will just go on to assume that its apart of his "character" (water) but if you're just a generic normie looking guy, being weird will only negatively impact you in social events.

People will just distance themselves from you and laugh at you.

Wrong

 

[Ci-Sphere]

Wrong

How, explain?

 

[cooldude1231]

How, explain?

Some people like people who arent social sheep

 

[Ci-Sphere]

Some people like people who arent social sheep

"Social sheep" = NT

We live in a world where we have to follow trends, memes and beliefs or else we will just be exiled and be labelled as autists.

But sure, go be ND and talk about how much you love Star Wars.

 

[cooldude1231]

"Social sheep" = NT

We live in a world where we have to follow trends, memes and beliefs or else we will just be exiled and be labelled as autists.

But sure, go be ND and talk about how much you love Star Wars.

Not really bruh
People wont care that much
Can find likeminded people too why care about Nts, u have a robot pfp so ur obviously autistic

 

[Ci-Sphere]

Not really bruh
People wont care that much
Can find likeminded people too why care about Nts, u have a robot pfp so ur obviously autistic

Different from my personal experiences, as soon as I started to follow the way people talked, dressed and acted I started to actually get respected and get up the social hierarchy. (Basically faking NT)

And bitch that's the Combine Elite from Half-Life 2. Uncultured.

 

[cooldude1231]

Different from my personal experiences, as soon as I started to follow the way people talked, dressed and acted I started to actually get respected and get up the social hierarchy. (Basically faking NT)

And bitch that's the Combine Elite from Half-Life 2. Uncultured.

Do you really feel sastified not being yourself though

 

[Ci-Sphere]

Do you really feel sastified not being yourself though

Nope. I mostly just release my autism on forums alike this one.

I never type like the way I do here because being "formal" is classified as weird.

 

[cooldude1231]

Nope. I mostly just release my autism on forums alike this one.

I never type like the way I do here because being "formal" is classified as weird.

You should find some autistic nerds to talk about half life with bro

 

[yoshisand]

For people who are not very good at navigating social conventions, it is often easier to learn to be visibly weird than to learn to adapt to the social conventions.

this often works because there are some spaces where being visibly weird is tolerated, or even celebrated. in fact, from the perspective of an organization, it is good for your success if you are good at protecting weird people.

but from the perspective of an individual, leaning too hard into weirdness is possibly harmful. part of leaning into weirdness is intentional ignorance of normal conventions. this traps you in a local minimum where any progress on understanding normal conventions hurts your weirdness, but isn't enough to jump all the way to the basin of the normal mode of interaction.

This is why I decided to femboymaxx, as an autistic male the battle to achieve success in the NT world was never a possibility in the first place.

Your femboy maxxing meaning your taking d up the booty

 

[DNRDniggerking]

dnrd

 

[copemaxxeer]

Your femboy maxxing meaning your taking d up the booty

No, I find men horrible, even the supposed chads everybody loves here look like alien monkeys to me

 

[copemaxxeer]

but if you're just a generic normie looking guy, being weird will only negatively impact you in social events.

If you are normie you shouldn't be thinking about personality in the first place but money maxxing for surgeries instead, normies are not allowed to have any personality besides oofy doofy slave or thughmaxxing criminal, you are not a person at that level but a commodity, kinda like asphalt or tomatoes

 

[yue]

tiktok and its consequences have been a disaster for the looksmaxxing community

 

[noodlelover]

So you think femboy maxing will get you girls? Or what?