Left school with 1 "friend" I barely talk to, and left uni with 1 friend who is very busy. No work mates. Rely on fiancée for friends. Normal?

Is this normal?

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Sprinkles said:
dominance and strength = height

height = success

face matters a lot in regards to dating with women, for larger quality of life outside of dating height plays a significant role.
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Both determine your success in life. LMS is how humans rank one another in hierarchies.
 
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Not normal but you'll be too busy with your wife anyway, so it isn't an issue
 
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Fiqh said:
Not normal but you'll be too busy with your wife anyway, so it isn't an issue
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Social status matters still
 
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Fiqh said:
Depends on your job, I don't really know what you work as or where you intend to live.
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I wanna move out of the UK with wife
 
Xangsane said:
Title. I was severely bullied throughout school.
The girl who introduced me to my fiancée, though I try to talk to her platonically, tries not to talk to me. I struggle making and keeping friends I feel most are acquaintances at best and many of my connections fizzle out.
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I can somewhat relate there's only two people in my HS who I can actually call my friends
 
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Xangsane said:
Is it safe?
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Yes, it's safe and the people are fine. My friend's family regularly go there now that the airport is open.

If you haven't decided where you want to go, maybe focus on that first.
 
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Fiqh said:
Yes, it's safe and the people are fine. My friend's family regularly go there now that the airport is open.

If you haven't decided where you want to go, maybe focus on that first.
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Glad to hear.
 
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yeeyeeslayer said:
I can somewhat relate there's only two people in my HS who I can actually call my friends
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My "friend" from school would rather talk to other londoners than me who doesn't live there
 
Xangsane said:
Fate of every uk post uni graduate who doesn't move to London.
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Maybe move to London, hang out with him and befriend his friends?
 
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yeeyeeslayer said:
Maybe move to London, hang out with him and befriend his friends?
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Too expensive. Saving up for a house and other things. I have a mahr to pay for.
 
Xangsane said:
But for work promos?
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Outgoing, assertive, and not being neurotic will matter for work promos. Acting unconfident and shy will make people pass you over for somebody who is equally competent or even less so. Taller people usually get leadership and managerial positions easier but having your good looks will also help especially if your job involves dealing with clients.

Your autism will hurt your ability to get ahead at work unfortunately. What field of work are in?
 
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g0op said:
Outgoing, assertive, and not being neurotic will matter for work promos. Acting unconfident and shy will make people pass you over for somebody who is equally competent or even less so. Taller people usually get leadership and managerial positions easier but having your good looks will also help especially if your job involves dealing with clients.
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I've always been shy. And I'm autistic and 5'9
g0op said:
Your autism will hurt your ability to get ahead at work unfortunately. What field of work are in?
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Won't say here but in dms I will.
 
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If you've been on .org for any amount of time there's a good chance your life isn't normal.
 
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Xangsane said:
I was severely bullied at school and I try to make friends but many don't seem interested with me platonically.
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Why and what did you get bullied for?
 
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Xangsane said:
I feel so jealous I wasn't born a girl. How the hell do they manage to have a good social circle, including non nt ones
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Best advice I could say is get hench (going to the gym). I’m not the most outgoing guy always (especially in nightclubs surrounded by drunks), but since I’m hench, guys always come up to me (when I’m out at the club) asking for gym advice, and asking if I can do a gym session and train them up. I also get guys coming up to me asking me to help them get girls too.
 
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Lankastria said:
Best advice I could say is get hench (going to the gym). I’m not the most outgoing guy always (especially in nightclubs surrounded by drunks), but since I’m hench, guys always come up to me (when I’m out at the club) asking for gym advice, and asking if I can do a gym session and train them up. I also get guys coming up to me asking me to help them get girls too.
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I do work out and im muscular...
 
Xangsane said:
I do work out and im muscular...
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Probably not enough (if you don’t have random guys asking you for gym advice). Although I do remember you saying your 5ft 9, so it’s probably gonna be a different life for you (since I’m 6ft 2). And my height probably helps my physique look better than it is.

I swear that over the last year, a large majority of the guy friends I made was from them coming up and asking me for gym advice.

I’m not the most muscular being (not some roided gymcel), but am also not one of these guys who only looks like they work out when shirtless. You can tell that I work out whatever clothes I’m wearing - even in baggy t shirts.
 
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Lankastria said:
Probably not enough (if you don’t have random guys asking you for gym advice). Although I do remember you saying your 5ft 9, so it’s probably gonna be a different life for you (since I’m 6ft 2). And my height probably helps my physique look better than it is.

I swear that over the last year, a large majority of the guy friends I made was from them coming up and asking me for gym advice.

I’m not the most muscular being (not some roided gymcel), but am also not one of these guys who only looks like they work out when shirtless. You can tell that I work out whatever clothes I’m wearing - even in baggy t shirts.
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I'm more on the lean and muscular side with broad shoulders and a little waist with defined abs, pecs, toned arms and a prominent round ass. Look OK in clothes and nicely proportioned but better without
 
Xangsane said:
I'm more on the lean and muscular side with broad shoulders and a little waist with defined abs, pecs, toned arms and a prominent round ass. Look OK in clothes and nicely proportioned but better without
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You won’t get guys asking for gym advice with this body description. You need to be hench, and bulkier physique will do you better in this regard (but stay as lean as possible whilst doing so).

My physique is a bit like one of the roided love islanders (without actually being on roids): thick neck; big traps; rounded broad shoulders; big broad chest. Only areas I’m lacking a bit are my arms and legs. Tryna get my arms bigger still. But legs do not matter, unless you are a gymcel who wants to make friends with the autist virgins at the gym.
 
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Lankastria said:
You won’t get guys asking for gym advice with this body description. You need to be hench, and bulkier physique will do you better in this regard (but stay as lean as possible whilst doing so).

My physique is a bit like one of the roided love islanders (without actually being on roids): thick neck; big traps; rounded broad shoulders; big broad chest. Only areas I’m lacking a bit are my arms and legs. Tryna get my arms bigger still. But legs do not matter, unless you are a gymcel who wants to make friends with the autist virgins at the gym.
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I don't get people asking for gym advice. Thoughts on this body type?
 
Xangsane said:
I don't get people asking for gym advice. Thoughts on this body type?
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From pics you’ve posted (of drawings of your body), you need to work traps and neck loads more.

Also I’d say you’re on the scrawnier side. A bulk would help you make guy friends (from asking for gym advice). Everything could do with increasing mass tbf.
 
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welcome to adulthood, none of us have any friends.
 
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Lankastria said:
From pics you’ve posted (of drawings of your body), you need to work traps and neck loads more.
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I gotcha. How would you personally describe my body?
When I wear clothes my shoulders and ass are the most prominent
Lankastria said:
Also I’d say you’re on the scrawnier side. A bulk would help you make guy friends (from asking for gym advice). Everything could do with increasing mass tbf.
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Scrawny?
 
Impossible to make friends past school
 
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Fiqh said:
Yes, it's safe and the people are fine. My friend's family regularly go there now that the airport is open.

If you haven't decided where you want to go, maybe focus on that first.
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I visit Yemen every year it’s pretty safe but you see lot of people carrying their ak47 in the streets
 
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