Its bad Ngl you will probably be targeted if all the other people are in cliques
I’m 2 PSL.
They seem like decent/nice people so far. But they probably see me as weird as well. Granted, I’ve only known them for two days and they know each other for longer than a week.
Thing is, I want to focus on getting good grades.
You can do both
You are right. I should be less anti-social. Plus they may think I don’t like them when I do. They’re funny and nice.
Same shit man. Ngl but it will be harder if they knew each other before uni. A lot of guys at my uni have known each other since high school and to bond with them is hard as fuck because they seem like best fiends and not willing to welcome other people too much.
Exactly
Yeah, it’s all about balance.
Yep, and poor mental health will fuck with his grades.
Not true
True
You’re also an idiot if you think the grades you get in college are even remotely close to how important connections are.
I’m not being racist even remotely.
I should add when I say “already” I’m talking about after OP’s behavior in early college.
Ok sorry
I thought this was the case because of how close they seemed but I asked one of them and they said they only met last week.
I think it has its charms too.
My mental health is fine.
Please enlighten me
My classmates are mostly ethnic. Only five white guys out of a class of 20-25.
I get connections outside of college. But are connections in college important at all?
Also if your class is really that ethnic you might be able to recover.
I would assume somewhat.
You can focus more on your studies. I don’t do homework at home but rather at school. During breaks, I can therefore make good use of my time, at the expense of not socializing. I also saw a chad-tier slayer sitting by himself during the hour-long break.
STEM! But surprisingly my classmates are NT non-whites.
Well, I talk to them but only in class and whenever I’m spoken to. I generally do not initiate a conversation or try to lead one.
Fair
Glad you're studying something useful
I wouldn't befriend too many people but maybe get the number of a guy sitting next to you for stuff like that. But it doesn't really matter tbh. You're just there for a degree, and it'd be weird to socialize with people much younger.
It is. They don’t invite me but they would welcome me as well if I wanted to join them, I guess. But idk.. I think I would just be less focused on my studies. Since I don’t do homework at home but rather at college. And during breaks is a good time to catch up, you know?
It’s not that I don’t ever talk. I do a little bit, but only during class. Not outside of class.
Thanks bhai.
You should still try to socialize more
Yeah, I already have seen cliques being formed. Why do you say not to befriend too many people?
I can if I want to. I just choose not to, but I’m thinking it’s not really wise of me either haha, so maybe I should take a middle road.
Gotta make a decision on if u want a social life with them or not.
Just speaking personally, I don't really have a desire to socialize that much. I assumed you were the same. So I'm saying you don't really have to socialize that much, just have a few cordial relationships in case you need it at some point.
Horrendous idea
During college hours, sure. But I would also need to figure out when to do my homework then.
I think I will. Thanks.
