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It all started with this thread that I invite you to read: https://looksmax.org/threads/help-m...y-first-time-as-a-beginner.17675/#post-338085
Then I made this thread before my first appointment: https://looksmax.org/threads/my-first-date-on-tuesday-afternoon.21284/
So today I had my first date with a girl I've been talking to for a month.
First of all, our meeting place was set up in front of her school at 3:30 p. m., when she was leaving school. I was nervous because I didn't know how to greet her (the kiss, a hug?).
I was in my shirt, a good haircut, Givenchy perfume, good breath, everything was calculated.
But finally her buddy left before I came and she just said hello with a smile, then we took the road to the nearest park, it was a little annoying because we didn't talk too much, it was always me who raised it, and after talking for a month every day, I didn't know what else to say to her without repeating myself.
She was very embarrassed by my presence, she was all red, and she was hot (it was 35 degrees too)
But shamefully the gaps in the conversation are just normal because we do not attend the same schools, studies, interests...
We came to the park, after looking for a good place (a bench) for a few minutes, because there were people she didn't like in the park, and it allowed us to be alone.
I made myself comfortable on the bench, both hands stretched out on it, but she had her bag on her back and was far from me. At that moment I thought it was over with her.
But I insisted that she make herself comfortable, leave her bag and sit quietly on the bench a little close to me.
She was also embarrassed by my insistent looks on her, she didn't hold the gaze game and also turned her head away.
Pause in the story: At one point in the conversation I told her I thought she was smaller, and she told me, I thought YOU WERE GREATER (HEIGHTPILL IS LEGIT,I AM 6"0 guys)
So little by little we got closer, I put my arm on her shoulder, we became more and more tactile, I even kissed her twice on the cheek.
We looked at each other very often. We took advantage of the silence. She told me she had to leave at 5pm but when it was 5pm she told me she finally wanted to stay until 6pm. At that moment I felt like a loser for doing nothing.
She was biting her lips, I understood that this last hour was going to be intense.
We continued to be tactile, close...
She also told me that last year she was for the first time in a relationship with a guy for 2 weeks. I told her it was my first time.
It was now 5:50 p. m. She told me that I was more comfortable than her teddy bear, that she didn't want to leave and that the time had passed super fast, yet we didn't talk much.
17h55, we were even closer, she was on my shoulders, then for a moment she approached her head more and more and more and we kissed several times. Oh MY GOD, it was the best feeling I had in my life. Then I took her back to the bus stop, there was her friend there, when we split up we kissed again.
I was really happy, I'm still happy, I'm sure that during her whole trip, she told her friend about us.
Even though we weren't very comfortable together, and we didn't talk too much, these 2 hours were great, I finally have a girlfriend, guyyyyssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
The moral of the story is that the girl waits for the guy to do everything, she doesn't care about talking fluently throughout the date, she just waits for you to be confident and act on it.
I thank all the people in the chat room who helped me ,@androidcel ,@dogtown ,@Potatoshoe12 ,@Bengt ,@manlet cUnt ,@kobecel ... and all others i forget
Then I made this thread before my first appointment: https://looksmax.org/threads/my-first-date-on-tuesday-afternoon.21284/
So today I had my first date with a girl I've been talking to for a month.
First of all, our meeting place was set up in front of her school at 3:30 p. m., when she was leaving school. I was nervous because I didn't know how to greet her (the kiss, a hug?).
I was in my shirt, a good haircut, Givenchy perfume, good breath, everything was calculated.
But finally her buddy left before I came and she just said hello with a smile, then we took the road to the nearest park, it was a little annoying because we didn't talk too much, it was always me who raised it, and after talking for a month every day, I didn't know what else to say to her without repeating myself.
She was very embarrassed by my presence, she was all red, and she was hot (it was 35 degrees too)
But shamefully the gaps in the conversation are just normal because we do not attend the same schools, studies, interests...
We came to the park, after looking for a good place (a bench) for a few minutes, because there were people she didn't like in the park, and it allowed us to be alone.
I made myself comfortable on the bench, both hands stretched out on it, but she had her bag on her back and was far from me. At that moment I thought it was over with her.
But I insisted that she make herself comfortable, leave her bag and sit quietly on the bench a little close to me.
She was also embarrassed by my insistent looks on her, she didn't hold the gaze game and also turned her head away.
Pause in the story: At one point in the conversation I told her I thought she was smaller, and she told me, I thought YOU WERE GREATER (HEIGHTPILL IS LEGIT,I AM 6"0 guys)
So little by little we got closer, I put my arm on her shoulder, we became more and more tactile, I even kissed her twice on the cheek.
We looked at each other very often. We took advantage of the silence. She told me she had to leave at 5pm but when it was 5pm she told me she finally wanted to stay until 6pm. At that moment I felt like a loser for doing nothing.
She was biting her lips, I understood that this last hour was going to be intense.
We continued to be tactile, close...
She also told me that last year she was for the first time in a relationship with a guy for 2 weeks. I told her it was my first time.
It was now 5:50 p. m. She told me that I was more comfortable than her teddy bear, that she didn't want to leave and that the time had passed super fast, yet we didn't talk much.
17h55, we were even closer, she was on my shoulders, then for a moment she approached her head more and more and more and we kissed several times. Oh MY GOD, it was the best feeling I had in my life. Then I took her back to the bus stop, there was her friend there, when we split up we kissed again.
I was really happy, I'm still happy, I'm sure that during her whole trip, she told her friend about us.
Even though we weren't very comfortable together, and we didn't talk too much, these 2 hours were great, I finally have a girlfriend, guyyyyssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
The moral of the story is that the girl waits for the guy to do everything, she doesn't care about talking fluently throughout the date, she just waits for you to be confident and act on it.
I thank all the people in the chat room who helped me ,@androidcel ,@dogtown ,@Potatoshoe12 ,@Bengt ,@manlet cUnt ,@kobecel ... and all others i forget
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