NEED HELP.GIRLFRIEND CHIMPING OUT CUZ I WONT LET HER GO TO A PARTY

[Carder]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

talk to her about it, and find a compromise unfortunately for some people whenever boundaries are put feels like they're only on the partner and not relationship ones, if y'all cant find a compromise and she keeps being sort of "bitchy" towards you she's not for you, its just your turn and it's ending soon especially from what i've read about her acting weird

also if she beats you again sue her ass, equal rights equal fights remember boy