NEED HELP.GIRLFRIEND CHIMPING OUT CUZ I WONT LET HER GO TO A PARTY

[Carder]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

talk to her about it, and find a compromise unfortunately for some people whenever boundaries are put feels like they're only on the partner and not relationship ones, if y'all cant find a compromise and she keeps being sort of "bitchy" towards you she's not for you, its just your turn and it's ending soon especially from what i've read about her acting weird

also if she beats you again sue her ass, equal rights equal fights remember boy

 

[shngstaaaa107]

i don’t know if she is
she does everything i say
i mean everything
and also it’s been 4 years of on and off

she’s airing me and location off i’m gonna crash out on her

Complete obedience for 4 years? ATP it just seems like she'd rather her own freedoms for a while, dude. Let this one go, maybe, unless something serious is going on at the party, though, I really cant see anything crazy happening there

 

[7nclave]

Complete obedience for 4 years? ATP it just seems like she'd rather her own freedoms for a while, dude. Let this one go, maybe, unless something serious is going on at the party, though, I really cant see anything crazy happening there

no not for 4 straight years
it’s been on and off for 4 years
and she’s done some messed up shit in those 4 years,i won’t go into detail though

 

[bogaboga]

you think she’d let me go with her
her lesbian gbsf hates me
i’m only controlling and preventing her from going cuz it’s the same shit she does to me so how’s it fair?
anyways she likes when i’m controlling but i told her im not gonna do that when she picks and chooses when she likes me to be.
you’re right man.she probably really wants to go to see if she can get someone more fun
but she’s devoted her life to me when i try break up with her previously she tries killing herself

There it is lesbians well well well