Nothing excites me anymore. Can anyone relate?

[Peachy]

I'm 21 years old and at this point I managed to get bored of everything. I don't find anything interesting anymore and it's not because I'm some fucking autist, but because I genuinely am not passionate about anything. My average day is: waking up, driving to college, sitting in the class and trying to stay awake, driving home, browsing the internet till I go to sleep. The only thing that can quantify as having an interest is me playing guitar and going to the gym. I feel like this is the way most people will end up living their lives in the future. How do I cope?

 

[Pillarman]

sounds low t, or maybe you watch too much porn

 

[Lux]

I'm 21 years old and at this point I managed to get bored of everything. I don't find anything interesting anymore and it's not because I'm some fucking autist, but because I genuinely am not passionate about anything. My average day is: waking up, driving to college, sitting in the class and trying to stay awake, driving home, browsing the internet till I go to sleep. The only thing that can quantify as having an interest is me playing guitar and going to the gym. I feel like this is the way most people will end up living their lives in the future. How do I cope?

Same except for me its just the gym & I'm only in highschool. Most people do drugs, party, fuck, & get some drama in their social life. This feeling your getting just comes from being isolated.

 

[turkproducer]

Yes this is exactly me too.

Hobbies do help but ideally it all comes back to a lack of sexual attention from women, if you were able to fuck a girl at least once every few months you’d fee much more complete

Same except for me its just the gym & I'm only in highschool. Most people do drugs, party, fuck, & get some drama in their social life. This feeling your getting just comes from being isolated.

Do you not do drugs? or party

 

[pisslord]

ennui

• n.
  Listlessness and dissatisfaction resulting from lack of interest; boredom.
• n.
  A painful or wearisome state of mind due to the want of any object of interest, or to enforced attention to something destitute of interest; the condition of being bored; tedium.
• n.
  A feeling of weariness and disgust; dullness and languor of spirits, arising from satiety or want of interest; tedium.

 

[Deleted member 616]

Nothing excites me before my coming surgeries ngl tbh

 

[DidntRead]

Your dopamine receptors are probably destroyed from porn

 

[Deleted member 616]

ennui

• n.
  Listlessness and dissatisfaction resulting from lack of interest; boredom.
• n.
  A painful or wearisome state of mind due to the want of any object of interest, or to enforced attention to something destitute of interest; the condition of being bored; tedium.
• n.
  A feeling of weariness and disgust; dullness and languor of spirits, arising from satiety or want of interest; tedium.

Over for frenchvocabularycels

 

[Deleted member 2621]

I'm 21 years old and at this point I managed to get bored of everything. I don't find anything interesting anymore and it's not because I'm some fucking autist, but because I genuinely am not passionate about anything. My average day is: waking up, driving to college, sitting in the class and trying to stay awake, driving home, browsing the internet till I go to sleep. The only thing that can quantify as having an interest is me playing guitar and going to the gym. I feel like this is the way most people will end up living their lives in the future. How do I cope?

Go on a dopamine fast. It will reboot you to childhood excitement, I do it twice a year

 

[pisslord]

Over for frenchvocabularycels

@Krezo would understand

 

[Peachy]

Yes this is exactly me too.

Hobbies do help but ideally it all comes back to a lack of sexual attention from women, if you were able to fuck a girl at least once every few months you’d fee much more complete

Do you not do drugs? or party

I'm straight edge. I made a promise to myself that I won't do any drugs.

 

[Deleted member 2621]

I'm straight edge. I made a promise to myself that I won't do any drugs.

You should try LSD. Its less dangerous than coffee

 

[turkproducer]

Go on a dopamine fast. It will reboot you to childhood excitement, I do it twice a year

How do you do that?

 

[Peachy]

You should try LSD. Its less dangerous than coffee

Drugs are for degenerates. Not being sober makes me freak out. The only experience I've had to being "drugged" is when I was at the hospital and they pumped me with a bunch of drugs that were supposed to calm me, but all it did is made me want to kill myself because I hated that feeling and wanted it gone.

 

[Tsukuyomi 🌙]

I felt this way for a long time then realized it was because of others. Then I realized I like to get people. Usually clown them. Clowning idiots makes me feel big. Try it out. They really truly deserve it.

 

[Deleted member 2621]

How do you do that?

One day (possibly longer) and from waking up to going to bed you dont get any external satisfaction (dopamine). No tasty food, just something that tastes like nothing. No screen time, no music, just meditating and writing or creating something yourself. You shouldnt even talk to others a lot. Different varations but thats how I do it. This will reset your dopamine receptors and youll feel much better

 

[Peachy]

I felt this way for a long time then realized it was because of others. Then I realized I like to get people. Usually clown them. Clowning idiots makes me feel big. Try it out. They really truly deserve it.

I've been doing that since I was a kid, but the older you get, the less acceptable it is to do that.

 

[Deleted member 2621]

Drugs are for degenerates. Not being sober makes me freak out. The only experience I've had to being "drugged" is when I was at the hospital and they pumped me with a bunch of drugs that were supposed to calm me, but all it did is made me want to kill myself because I hated that feeling and wanted it gone.

Then only take below 100mikro gram, it will help you seing meaning in life by shutting of the "ruminative mind" and raising your serotonine. Also you wont trip, and please dont call me degenerate

 

[6ft4]

I feel the same, I coped with gymcelling for years but I stopped going, gonna take up running as a new cope

 

[Demir]

r/depression

 

[Peachy]

r/depression

I'm not depressed. Just because I don't find anything interesting, doesn't mean I feel like shit.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

You improve your life by having lots of sex.

 

[rockndogs]

The only thing that still excites me are looksmax.me alerts

 

[CupOfCoffee]

You're a porn and internet addict like me.

 

[Antinous]

There is no short-term solution, only a catalytic attitude, or in Greek words that refer to a daze are options; chronic boredom is the worst human mental state, kick the bucket

 

[Deleted member 2933]

Nothing excites me before my coming surgeries ngl tbh

 

[Chadelite]

you watch too much porn

i can guarantee it is

 

[Peachy]

You're a porn and internet addict like me.

I'm not a porn addict. I don't need porn to cum. I'm addicted to cumming, but I don't need porn to cum.

 

[CupOfCoffee]

I'm not a porn addict. I don't need porn to cum. I'm addicted to cumming, but I don't need porn to cum.

As long as you and @Dope have each other you should be happy

 

[Vanillestorms]

I'm not a porn addict. I don't need porn to cum. I'm addicted to cumming, but I don't need porn to cum.

Still over. You should jack off twice per week max. Once is better until you adjust your dopamine receptors.

That will help a bit but your biggest problem is the routine. Your life is boring so of course you transcend everything as boring. If you had more going on you woukdn’t have time to think how unsatisfying things are.

Try changing your life and stop fapping and you’ll see improvements 100%.

 

[Peachy]

Still over. You should jack off twice per week max. Once is better until you adjust your dopamine receptors.

That will help a bit but your biggest problem is the routine. Your life is boring so of course you transcend everything as boring. If you had more going on you woukdn’t have time to think how unsatisfying things are.

Try changing your life and stop fapping and you’ll see improvements 100%.

Last year when I had a gf it was still boring. Spending time with her felt like a chore to me and I only did it out of respect.

 

[Vanillestorms]

Last year when I had a gf it was still boring. Spending time with her felt like a chore to me and I only did it out of respect.

Were you attracted to her?

 

[Peachy]

Were you attracted to her?

Not at all

 

[Vanillestorms]

Not at all

And how do u expect your life to get better when you hang out with ppl you don’t like? Jfl

 

[Peachy]

And how do u expect your life to get better when you hang out with ppl you don’t like? Jfl

How is my life supposed to get better if I don't like anything or anyone?

 

[Deleted member 2426]

Ahedonia

 

[alien]

I have the same problem and I'm hoping that .25mg Cabergoline twice a week is going to help alleviate this symptom. I'll report later. I only just got started two days ago.

 

[lookserumaxeru]

I have the same problem and I'm hoping that .25mg Cabergoline twice a week is going to help alleviate this symptom. I'll report later. I only just got started two days ago.

Has it worked?

 

[BigBoy]

yea same im hoping itll go away

Has it worked?

thats not gonna work its cuz of depression