People don't really understand my situation.

[Xangsane]

I get a lot, and I mean a lot, of likes on dating apps.
However these likes were from women I didn't really like:

• Not my racial preference (i.e. the majority of likes were from white or curryfoids, two ethnicities I'm not open to dating)
• Didn't seem HQNP or seem to have a good, pleasant personality based on photos and what she wrote on her profile
• The more non-primal ones were often a low-end MTB or below
• HTBs and above usually either were Instagram promoters, had nothing much written in her bio or prompts, or looked very primal
• I don't do casual dating or FwBs, and as a result my standards are strict. Ideally she should be a high-end MTB or below
• She must be comfortable with an Islamic way of life

And because I can't find the specific woman I want, I removed all my dating apps, and as a result getting my dad to help me out.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Why u go on tinder u aspie.
At least go on muzzmatch or go irl

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

chad problems

 

[currylightskin]

yakhi youre my little brother . no matter how angry you get youre still a little boy to me. have a good sleep . i see my little brother is very irritated

 

[Xangsane]

Why u go on tinder u aspie.
At least go on muzzmatch or go irl

Muzmatch in the UK = 95% curry

 

[incel194012940]

Gl on that pakistan mail bride thing
how Islamic do u except them to be? Which hoodie thing outside?

 

[Deleted member 19896]

What being 8psl does to a nigga. Xangsane is more hypergamous than the entire texas female population combined

 

[Xangsane]

yakhi youre my little brother . no matter how angry you get youre still a little boy to me. have a good sleep . i see my little brother is veruy irritated

People here make assumptions about me and wonder why I'm not getting what they want. The problem really isn't my looks as I get loads of likes, the problem is that I'm looking for a very specific type of woman that I cannot seem to find on apps.

 

[Xangsane]

What being 8psl does to a nigga. Xangsane is more hypergamous than the entire texas female population combined

I'm only looking for a high end MTB or above (doesn't have to be stacylite or above) that fits these traits.

I'm just very good at deciphering people's personalities when I swipe. I even swipe with dad next to me.

 

[currylightskin]

try muslim dating app and filter with the races you want

 

[Xangsane]

Gl on that pakistan mail bride thing
how Islamic do u except them to be? Which hoodie thing outside?

Thank you
They don't have to be ultra Islamic but just moderate

 

[Xangsane]

try muslim dating app and filter with the races you want

95% curry here

 

[Bewusst]

op looking for the perfect wife on a dating app aka whoring platform and people still wonder why their relationships fail

 

[Xangsane]

chad problems

You don't understand....

 

[Deleted member 18301]

Get a hobby were women are also involved, go to your uni parties, social max if dating apps don’t bring you joy

 

[currylightskin]

95% curry here

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[Xangsane]

Get a hobby were women are also involved, go to your uni parties, social max if dating apps don’t bring you joy

I graduated university. I'm now talking here on my break.

Most of the women that I work with either already have boyfriends, aren't my type or they're married middle aged women

 

[Xangsane]

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Thanks, I'll have a look

 

[Blackgymmax]

No, we understand. You just can't meet up with them because you don't actually look like what you out on hinge

 

[Zylk]

People here make assumptions about me and wonder why I'm not getting what they want. The problem really isn't my looks as I get loads of likes, the problem is that I'm looking for a very specific type of woman that I cannot seem to find on apps.

Dude, women on dating apps are only looking for quick sex 90% of the time, there is no point in looking there for a steady partner.

Get out there, improve your social skills for NT, and you will get the woman you are looking for (probably).

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

'No one gets me man Im so special and different' - getting some serious im not like other girls type vibes from your posts of late

 

[Xangsane]

op looking for the perfect wife on a dating app aka whoring platform and people still wonder why their relationships fail

Everyone kept telling me to try hinge and I did. I got a lot of likes but they were not from women I actually wanted.

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

You don't understand....

I understand but I can't be of any help when my circumstances are completely different

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

You don't understand....

not that I have my dating life sorted anyway tbh

 

[Deleted member 18301]

I graduated university. I'm now talking here on my break.

Most of the women that I work with either already have boyfriends, aren't my type or they're married middle aged women

Than social max, go to festivals etc

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Dude, women on dating apps are only looking for quick sex 90% of the time, there is no point in looking there for a steady partner.

Get out there, improve your social skills for NT, and you will get the woman you are looking for (probably).

I actually did get lucky off tinder and find a girl who was a legit pretty good match for me personality wise and was also both crazy into eachother physically like a year and a half ago.

After thousands of swipes havent had that sort of chemistry again tho so Ive concluded it was a 1 in a million fluke which wont happen again

 

[Xangsane]

No, we understand. You just can't meet up with them because you don't actually look like what you out on hinge

No, I don't faceapp my pics.

I make sure they're well-taken though.

 

[Blackgymmax]

People here make assumptions about me and wonder why I'm not getting what they want. The problem really isn't my looks as I get loads of likes, the problem is that I'm looking for a very specific type of woman that I cannot seem to find on apps.

The specific type of woman on those dating apps are an easy find with someone of your edited pics level. That's why I find it hard to believe. Even if those pics were 2psl lower it would be an easy bag. A high quality nigger food who's educated? A homeless bum looking htn white dude would easily land that shit so you expect me to believe a pretty boy chad can't and hates high quality white women? LOL

 

[Acee]

Not reading this larp.

 

[Deleted member 8365]

Based pfp

 

[Xangsane]

Dude, women on dating apps are only looking for quick sex 90% of the time, there is no point in looking there for a steady partner.

Get out there, improve your social skills for NT, and you will get the woman you are looking for (probably).

I graduated university. I'm now talking here on my break.

Most of the women that I work with either already have boyfriends, aren't my type or they're married middle aged women

Even my social circle and extended social circle this happens

 

[Xangsane]

Based pfp

Thanks

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

The specific type of woman on those dating apps are an easy find with someone of your edited pics level. That's why I find it hard to believe. Even if those pics were 2psl lower it would be an easy bag. A high quality nigger food who's educated? A homeless bum looking htn white dude would easily land that shit so you expect me to believe a pretty boy chad can't and hates high quality white women? LOL

nah man you just dont get it hes special and different

 

[NegativeNorwood]

To be honest with you, I think you are barking the wrong tree.
Women in dating apps are..."primal", because that's what dating apps are for, to help people to find partners (plural) to unleash their primal desires and have casual sex. Anyone who says otherwise is either lying to you or has the IQ of an apricot (both don't fit your partner criteria in any possible scenario).

You live in the UK which is quite multicultural, you should join Facebook groups of like minded people and attend to events where you may have more possibilities to find someone that fits your criteria (ie: a reading club, specific classical music events, islam related celebrations or activities, etc). There may be less women there than on Tinder, but the probabilities of them fitting your criteria should be higher IMO.

 

[Deleted member 18301]

Everyone kept telling me to try hinge and I did. I got a lot of likes but they were not from women I actually wanted.

On dating apps there are women who look worse irl and others who look actually better in motion, if u don’t go actually out with them u will never find out anyway

 

[Xangsane]

The specific type of woman on those dating apps are an easy find with someone of your edited pics level. That's why I find it hard to believe. Even if those pics were 2psl lower it would be an easy bag. A high quality nigger food who's educated? A homeless bum looking htn white dude would easily land that shit so you expect me to believe a pretty boy chad can't and hates high quality white women? LOL

You don't get it. The many women that like my profile aren't women I actually like.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

Why u go on tinder u aspie.
At least go on muzzmatch or go irl

No I'll find a HQNP black girl on tinder

 

[Blackgymmax]

nah man you just dont get it hes special and different

For God's sake, even obese white dudes are landing the type of black chicks he's looking for.

 

[Xangsane]

On dating apps there are women who look worse irl and others who look actually better in motion, if u don’t go actually out with them u will never find out anyway

Most women fraud on apps

 

[Xangsane]

For God's sake, even obese white dudes are landing the type of black chicks he's looking for.

In America yes

 

[Blackgymmax]

You don't get it. The many women that like my profile aren't women I actually like.

No I fully understand. The women you like literally worship guys who look like your picture which is why I can't take you seriously. I bet you the bfs of the niggers you post have a worse pheno and bones than your pictures 100%

 

[Xangsane]

No I fully understand. The women you like literally worship guys who look like your picture which is why I can't take you seriously. I bet you the bfs of the niggers you post have a worse pheno and bones than your pictures 100%

I didn't find them on uk hinge, tinder or bumble.

 

[Xangsane]

To be honest with you, I think you are barking the wrong tree.
Women in dating apps are..."primal", because that's what dating apps are for, to help people find to find partners (plural) to unleash their primal desires and have casual sex. Anyone who says otherwise is either lying to you or has the IQ of an apricot (both don't fit your partner criteria in any possible scenario).

You live in the UK which is quite multicultural, you should join Facebook groups of like minded people and attend to events where you may have more possibilities to find someone that fits your criteria (ie: a reading club, specific classical music events, islam related celebrations or activities, etc). There may be less women there than on Tinder, but the probabilities of them fitting your criteria should be higher IMO.

No wonder those women don't like to fill out their bios or descriptions.

98% of the attractive ones (of any race) have this love island look to them, wallahi.

The Essex look is very popular here.

I'll look into those Facebook groups.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

For God's sake, even obese white dudes are landing the type of black chicks he's looking for.

i was being sarcastic boyo

 

[Xangsane]

I actually did get lucky off tinder and find a girl who was a legit pretty good match for me personality wise and was also both crazy into eachother physically like a year and a half ago.

After thousands of swipes havent had that sort of chemistry again tho so Ive concluded it was a 1 in a million fluke which wont happen again

And that's why my dream won't ever happen on a dating app

 

[Deleted member 18301]

Most women fraud on apps

With how many u went out so u know it’s true, give it a shot first and find out yourself. If u actually look like in your pictures aka solid chadlite I don’t see an issue for u to get dates

 

[Blackgymmax]

i was being sarcastic boyo

I know, I just wasn't finished ranting

 

[Deleted member 19896]

i was being sarcastic boyo

Rate

 

[Xangsane]

With how many u went out so u know it’s true, give it a shot first and find out yourself. If u actually look like in your pictures aka solid chadlite I don’t see an issue for u to get dates

I want to date in a halal manner.
You also don't understand that I'm not looking for willy nilly dates but a specific type of woman.

 

[Chadeep]

Why do you hate curryfoids? Any specific reason?