people here without a social circle, think social circle is a remedy for their problems

[Deleted member 21735]

So, you GET IOIs? Why not act on them?

i mean women may check me out when im alone. jfl if oyou think i got more than that

 

[Primalsplit]

i mean women may check me out when im alone. jfl if oyou think i got more than that

Find an excuse to talk to them. You don't need tinder then. You don't need to try your luck with mentally ill tinder whores.

Even if it won't go anywhere, you'll be interacting with more normal people. This might make you more NT if you can learn from them. Ofc knowing you, you will probably suck at first 50 approaches. But over time you can learn. It's like any skill.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Find an excuse to talk to them.

havent gotten that in a loooong time. besides, getting stares doesnt mean much

You don't need to try your luck with mentally ill tinder whores.

yeah "tinder girls are evil, the other ones are nicer". meanwhile i got messages on read from 2021 from girls i was classmates with lol

 

[Giorgio]

and a lot of luck, I'd add. legit post.

getting a social circle or "improving your personality and mindset" seem easy to accomplish since they are theoretically intangible, but it could be argued that these are harder to change than your looks level.

I don't know about luck, you can get a social circle without "luck", if you are getting it as a normie and through conventional means (aka school or sports when you're young), but if you're not?

yeah, def needs tons of luck, and perhaps you it won't even help you - a perfect opportunity could fall into your lap, and you'd just miss it, because you don't have the needed brain chemistry, personality and experience to use it

 

[rl⠀]

I don't know about luck, you can get a social circle without "luck", if you are getting it as a normie and through conventional means (aka school or sports when you're young), but if you're not?

yeah, def needs tons of luck, and perhaps you it won't even help you - a perfect opportunity could fall into your lap, and you'd just miss it, because you don't have the needed brain chemistry, personality and experience to use it

when i say luck, i mean there's no 100% efficient step-by-step guide for getting a social circle and stopping being a secluded reject.

still agree overall, tho

 

[Deleted member 21735]

i mean there's no 100% efficient step-by-step guide for getting a social circle and stopping being a secluded reject.

easier to improve your looks

 

[Giorgio]

easier to improve your looks

it unironically actually is easier, even tho improving looks (aka surgery) is very hard to begin with

you can't just become someone else...

 

[Deleted member 21735]

you can't just become someone else...

you can die trying...

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Nigga I want a social circle so I don’t feel like a friendless loser and end up going insane, not to get girls JFL.

Same. I don’t care about dirty foids I just want some friends ffs

 

[Deleted member 19442]

and a lot of luck, I'd add. legit post.

getting a social circle or "improving your personality and mindset" seem easy to accomplish since they are theoretically intangible, but it could be argued that these are harder to change than your looks level.

I don’t know where to start

 

[Deleted member 68587]

You are the most retarded user on ths forum. You just go to an environment where people do something together, like a theatre or book club. No one gets you laid, you just do stuff together. And if a woman liked you in that place for whatever reason, they can come and talk with you. You can do the same with them. Then, sometimes; it develops into something more.

I guess you have grown up with no proper social interaction or something. The very fact that I have to explain this to you, shows how far you are from normalcy.
So I think it probably won't work for you. But you can learn stuff like this.

Like the guy said at the beginning, the odds of you being in a circle where there's good ratios, low competition, attractive young single women, etc is low af esp outside of college.

 

[Deleted member 68587]

I have personal experience with this. I used to be weak ltn facially, framelet, short. Overall subhuman. However i slayed with this exact method. High status friends, friends with hot girls, eventually one takes an interest, thinks i'm 'weirdly cute', then boom i'm putting my fat cock in my stacylite friend

What if ur not in college tho, where do u meet these ppl?

 

[Deleted member 68587]

if these guys have ever had a social circle, they'd know it makes it 150% easier to meet new girls spontaneously, without having to degrade yourself by "cold approaching" or making shitty profiles on dating apps

from just going out with a group of friends regularly (indicates you aren't a non-nt outcast), getting invited to parties and social events just because someone from your friend group got invited, meeting their cousins, female friends, female friends of their girlfriends and so on and on.

sure, if you are gl and attractive enough, you can get girls without that, but just lol at unremarkable normies trying to accomplish that because they were dleusional enough to think they were destined to become main characters later in life

This isn't a viable strategy for guys that aren't in college/HS. Lets stop acting like it is.

 

[Primalsplit]

Like the guy said at the beginning, the odds of you being in a circle where there's good ratios, low competition, attractive young single women, etc is low af esp outside of college.

No. You fucking loser. What you mean is just an admittance of how much you suck at social interactions and meeting up new people if that is your experience. Don't blame the game if you're basically a fucking noob.

 

[Deleted member 92573]

the odds of meet a gl girl, from a social circle, who is single, and is into you are smaller than being born tall, gl with high IQ. surgeries are the only legit, objective way to ascend, forget about everything else and focus on materialism.

Chad has harems, including real friends

 

[Deleted member 81875]

If you're MTN+ then yes.

What

 

[Deleted member 81875]

Oh well that sucks opportunities get even shittier after

Yes and no. Men’s SMV is at their lowest in college but they have more opportunities. Most men peak SMV 22-30 and also peak in money and game and overall experience. My looks have only improved since 18.

Idiots will say life is over at 18, when you’re bones haven’t even fully grown and you don’t even have a car. Like wtf. My social skills and ability to handle dates women’s behavior etc has gone up so much since 18. I had no idea back then.

After college as long as you looksmax and use dating apps you can have as many dates as you want.

I barely even touch dating apps and get 2-3 dates a wk pretty easily. Not w Stacy’s but w girls around my SMV level -weak HTB-HTB. So I consider this pretty decent and I sure as fuck wasn’t getting these results at 18

@JOJOcelReturns @Amnesia

 

[Deleted member 81875]

Yes and no. Men’s SMV is at their lowest in college but they have more opportunities. Most men peak SMV 22-30 and also peak in money and game and overall experience. My looks have only improved since 18.

Idiots will say life is over at 18, when you’re bones haven’t even fully grown and you don’t even have a car. Like wtf. My social skills and ability to handle dates women’s behavior etc has gone up so much since 18. I had no idea back then.

After college as long as you looksmax and use dating apps you can have as many dates as you want.

I barely even touch dating apps and get 2-3 dates a wk pretty easily. Not w Stacy’s but w girls around my SMV level -weak HTB-HTB. So I consider this pretty decent and I sure as fuck wasn’t getting these results at 18

@JOJOcelReturns @Amnesia

Women’s SMV isn’t higher in college it’s just that they look more youthful

 

[Deleted member 68587]

No. You fucking loser. What you mean is just an admittance of how much you suck at social interactions and meeting up new people if that is your experience. Don't blame the game if you're basically a fucking noob.

Projecting hard with 12k rep my G. Go get some sunlight nigger

 

[Deleted member 68587]

if these guys have ever had a social circle, they'd know it makes it 150% easier to meet new girls spontaneously, without having to degrade yourself by "cold approaching" or making shitty profiles on dating apps

from just going out with a group of friends regularly (indicates you aren't a non-nt outcast), getting invited to parties and social events just because someone from your friend group got invited, meeting their cousins, female friends, female friends of their girlfriends and so on and on.

sure, if you are gl and attractive enough, you can get girls without that, but just lol at unremarkable normies trying to accomplish that because they were dleusional enough to think they were destined to become main characters later in life

Yeah but how are you suppose to get a social circle like that if ur not in college? Should I just larp as a student and cold approach people to be friends or get a part time job at a restaurant to try to build a social circle that way?

 

[Deleted member 68587]

What is this stupid ass thread? You view social circles as a means to Stacy’s vagina. A lack of a social circle is a massive problem in its own right.

It’s really hard for vagina not to be the center of your focus when you lack it