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just wondering how to max out your personality. and don’t give me that „just be confident” bullshit, i want specifics. any manners, certain actions?
 
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i asked this question b4. its the just be confident bullshit
 
some foids like shy boys some other foids prefer confident boys, but the most they like are the confident
 
just wondering how to max out your personality. and don’t give me that „just be confident” bullshit, i want specifics. any manners, certain actions?
fake being NT and blend in
 
just wondering how to max out your personality. and don’t give me that „just be confident” bullshit, i want specifics. any manners, certain actions?
You want specifics, yet you're asking for "personality" help...

What, specifically, are you concerned with? Being more assertive? Being more perceptive? More witty? Presence?
 

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all of the above actually.
Ok...

Don't be a prick, though. Actually try one of these things, just one, for a week or two. If it doesn't help you, you can personally deliver me a big "fuck you".

1. Assertiveness - Find a friend, drill conversation. One of the best things you can do is a mock-up "trial". You can find real court transcripts of a case you're interested in. Do cross-examination, that sorta stuff. Really, any kinda drilling where you need to be assertive- there's police training where recruits literally practice yelling "STOP!". Obviously debate-type shit.

2. Perception - My favourite for this is listening to a video/podcast/audiobook at 2x speed (or faster if you can hack it). Then, after consuming it, take out a notepad and jot down every important point, narrative, or thread you can remember. It'll train you to pick up on details and pay attention. Also, just reviewing written work, like an essay, can help.

3. Wit - Learn from the best, even if you don't agree with their positions. Rhetoricians. Oscar Wilde, Voltaire, Christopher Hitchens. You don't need to trudge through all their work, just their "greatest hits".

4. Presence - I defer to the rest of this community. I really do believe that your stature contributes significantly to how people receive you. That said, internalisation is the undisputed king. If you know for a fact you've been through worse than a little confrontation or debate, you'll be very calm and composed, which can be outright unsettling for many.

I'm sure others have their ways, but this is just a little start.
 
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just wondering how to max out your personality. and don’t give me that „just be confident” bullshit, i want specifics. any manners, certain actions?
you cant change you perseonality
only on a specific person
just be an nd cell
 

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