Reminder that Personality Still Matters

[ArtOfCope]

I'm tired of seeing all you copers say personality is a small part of the equation of being attractive. Every girl I've gone out with from OLD and IRL was excited to go out with me initially because I've been rated on normie foid scale as an 8, with my friend's asian gf saying I'm a 9 behind my back. I think every date goes great until I ask them out again. Then comes either the ghosting or "I didn't feel a strong connection". Literally has happened 10 times now I think lmao. I've even been denied a 3rd date by my catholic virgin oneitis I met IRL who all of my friends objectively rated a 4/10 on the normie scale and said she looks like a cave women JFL . If you already are GL, but not NT, it's still somewhat over if you ever want a gf, or even a 2nd date for that matter lmao. Will probably just get a Ukrainian mail order bride when I'm 30 at this point unironically. Anyone have tips for personalitymaxxing?

 

[khvirgin]

Name checks out

 

[Constantin Denis]

Personality matters as much as ear shape

 

[ArtOfCope]

Personality matters as much as ear shape

I mean obv the better looking you are the less it matters, but unless you're male model tier, there's plenty of chadlites with more NT personalities to take your place.

 

[Constantin Denis]

I mean obv the better looking you are the less it matters, but unless you're male model tier, there's plenty of chadlites with more NT personalities to take your place.

nah man it doesn't matter at all unless you're antisocial af like me

 

[ArtOfCope]

nah man it doesn't matter at all unless you're antisocial af like me

Maybe. Guess I'm just aspie then. Friends have told me their gfs say I give off Ted Bundy vibes. I guess I'm not chad enough where that becomes a good thing

 

[Deleted member 14754]

 

[Velvet_Thorns]

I'm tired of seeing all you copers say personality is a small part of the equation of being attractive. Every girl I've gone out with from OLD and IRL was excited to go out with me initially because I've been rated on normie foid scale as an 8, with my friend's asian gf saying I'm a 9 behind my back. I think every date goes great until I ask them out again. Then comes either the ghosting or "I didn't feel a strong connection". Literally has happened 10 times now I think lmao. I've even been denied a 3rd date by my catholic virgin oneitis I met IRL who all of my friends objectively rated a 4/10 on the normie scale and said she looks like a cave women JFL . If you already are GL, but not NT, it's still somewhat over if you ever want a gf, or even a 2nd date for that matter lmao. Will probably just get a Ukrainian mail order bride when I'm 30 at this point unironically. Anyone have tips for personalitymaxxing?

If you're 7+/10 and not getting ltr you must be either annoying af or severely autistic. What do you think are your main flaws?

 

[subhuman incel]

@OldVirgin how is your personality IRL?

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Personality is important. Is it as important as looks? No. But if you're boring or aspie it's over. I don't like when people say personality is cope. A girl will find another chad with a good personality over a boring one. Especially in a LTR, where people see eachother everyday and know their flaws, etc.

 

[Deleted member 5786]

Personality is important. Is it as important as looks? No. But if you're boring or aspie it's over. I don't like when people say personality is cope. A girl will find another chad with a good personality over a boring one. Especially in a LTR, where people see eachother everyday and know their flaws, etc.

@subhuman incel

 

[Deleted member 5786]

Personality is important. Is it as important as looks? No. But if you're boring or aspie it's over. I don't like when people say personality is cope. A girl will find another chad with a good personality over a boring one. Especially in a LTR, where people see eachother everyday and know their flaws, etc.

@subhuman incel

 

[ArtOfCope]

If you're 7+/10 and not getting ltr you must be either annoying af or severely autistic. What do you think are your main flaws?

Social skills probably need some work, but it's not like I'm severely unaware. I probably need to just date more since I never really have interaction with people on a regular basis. Almost all my dates have been from OLD so maybe that contributes. Kinda hard to meet irl people with not many friends

 

[Deleted member 11610]

This sperg is likely confusing personality with NT. Probably starts mentioning train facts during the middle of a date, NT is separate from personality. Personality for the most part is a cope, NT is crucial. @CATBOY @Stopping@Nothing19 @Copesville

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

This must be what you mean by "Personality":

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Oneitis:

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It seems he found a new piece:

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Comments before ditching her:

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Month later:

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His "ex" struggled with self-harm issues. His comments:

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[JackHanma]

Personality does matter, looks hook them in but they'll get bored of you if you're not low-inhib and interesting.

Some girls like the "shy nerdy" guy but nobody likes a boring image obsessed incel with no friends or hobbies

 

[metagross]

Personality does matter, looks hook them in but they'll get bored of you if you're not low-inhib and interesting.

Some girls like the "shy nerdy" guy but nobody likes a boring image obsessed incel with no friends or hobbies

Why not though? I think there are more girls who have no hobbies than guys.
A male usually always has some kind of hobby, even if it is nerdy. - A woman or girl on the other hand often outright says that she has "basically no hobbies" (happened plenty of times) or, if she does have a hobby, it is usually a hobby that is used as a way to socialize with other people, but not really enjoyed for the activity itself.

So why should "no hobbies" be a bad thing? They often don't have hobbies themselves.

 

[ArtOfCope]

Why not though? I think there are more girls who have no hobbies than guys.
A male usually always has some kind of hobby, even if it is nerdy. - A woman or girl on the other hand often outright says that she has "basically no hobbies" (happened plenty of times) or, if she does have a hobby, it is usually a hobby that is used as a way to socialize with other people, but not really enjoyed for the activity itself.

So why should "no hobbies" be a bad thing? They often don't have hobbies themselves.

Because a girl's hobbies can be watching Netflix and hanging out with friends (Which is what 90% of them say), and there is still a plethora of guys willing to date them and do the heavy lifting in conversation. Guys naturally have more of a desire to achieve in life because they have to if they want to find a mate. If you were a girl and had options, would you pick the guy who who does sports, plays an instrument, does photography, etc; or the guy who rots in his room all day on looksmax.org?

 

[Deleted member 15595]

This sperg is likely confusing personality with NT. Probably starts mentioning train facts during the middle of a date, NT is separate from personality. Personality for the most part is a cope, NT is crucial. @CATBOY @Stopping@Nothing19 @Copesville

NT is giga important, at least here

personality means fucking nothing

 

[Chad69]

 

[Deleted member 15441]

I'm tired of seeing all you copers say personality is a small part of the equation of being attractive. Every girl I've gone out with from OLD and IRL was excited to go out with me initially because I've been rated on normie foid scale as an 8, with my friend's asian gf saying I'm a 9 behind my back. I think every date goes great until I ask them out again. Then comes either the ghosting or "I didn't feel a strong connection". Literally has happened 10 times now I think lmao. I've even been denied a 3rd date by my catholic virgin oneitis I met IRL who all of my friends objectively rated a 4/10 on the normie scale and said she looks like a cave women JFL . If you already are GL, but not NT, it's still somewhat over if you ever want a gf, or even a 2nd date for that matter lmao. Will probably just get a Ukrainian mail order bride when I'm 30 at this point unironically. Anyone have tips for personalitymaxxing?

This sperg is likely confusing personality with NT. Probably starts mentioning train facts during the middle of a date, NT is separate from personality. Personality for the most part is a cope, NT is crucial. @CATBOY @Stopping@Nothing19 @Copesville

Yeah your confusing NT with Personality. Lol at thinking you need to be some japing-ape with a tier 10 personality.

EVERY girl over a 5/10 is NT as fucking shit. She was in sororities, has a huge Instagram, posts crap on snap/insta, goes to bars, socialize for hours on end..etc.

If you cannot hold NT sober conversations with strangers and PARTICULARLY girls over 5/10 it's gonna be tough tough. Your gonna have to date low NT beckies, or even low tier beckies (like me) while you get occasional iOis from stacey lites/High tier beckies once you open you mouth it's over.

NT means you can hold normal conversations with a range of people and talk to a girl/girlfriend in a NT manner for hours/dates/days/month/vacations...etc.

NT=Cool=Normal Mid/Upper popularity HS/College

The other day I was drunk at the dog park and said somthing in passing to a stacey "our dogs are gonna be worn out" as they were chasing eachother she kinda smiled and said "yeah" Then I chatted up some low tier becky and was acting Super NT about not seeing a specific breed she had, and how I almost got one. The Stacey was eye fucking the living shit out of me while I was holding Loud/NT/Confident conversation.

Just lol if you think looks is everything.

 

[Chad69]

because I've been rated on normie foid scale as an 8, with my friend's asian gf saying I'm a 9 behind my back

Agh I actually went to read to hear some beautiful bluepills
And stopped reading right here
An 8 or an 9 (if a foids tells you so) is usually a 6 so don’t think your some mega Chad cuz even 7.5 can be a successful model tier or famous instagrammer or tiktoker and keep in mind they don’t use their personalities

 

[Deleted member 15441]

NT is giga important, at least here

personality means fucking nothing

NT is sooo life once looks threholds are met. See every NT Normie dating 5-7/10s while you go on OLD with low tier-mid tier asperger beckies.

High tier beckies and above are NT as shit and at the bars meeting guys/social circles..etc.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

NT is sooo life once looks threholds are met. See every NT Normie dating 5-7/10s while you go on OLD with low tier-mid tier asperger beckies.

High tier beckies and above are NT as shit and at the bars meeting guys/social circles..etc.

You have to NT max every day. Socializing as much as possible with everyone at work, elevator, gym front desk, gym, work, clients, grocery store....etc.
Over time you become NT.

 

[Deleted member 15595]

NT is sooo life once looks threholds are met. See every NT Normie dating 5-7/10s while you go on OLD with low tier-mid tier asperger beckies.

High tier beckies and above are NT as shit and at the bars meeting guys/social circles..etc.

it depends what age range you are talking about, but NT is extremely important here at school

 

[Deleted member 15441]

it depends what age range you are talking about, but NT is extremely important here at school

School is extremly important to be popular/NT. But once ur older I guess it dies down a bit as Career/Looks play a big role

 

[Lihito]

I'm tired of seeing all you copers say personality is a small part of the equation of being attractive. Every girl I've gone out with from OLD and IRL was excited to go out with me initially because I've been rated on normie foid scale as an 8, with my friend's asian gf saying I'm a 9 behind my back. I think every date goes great until I ask them out again. Then comes either the ghosting or "I didn't feel a strong connection". Literally has happened 10 times now I think lmao. I've even been denied a 3rd date by my catholic virgin oneitis I met IRL who all of my friends objectively rated a 4/10 on the normie scale and said she looks like a cave women JFL . If you already are GL, but not NT, it's still somewhat over if you ever want a gf, or even a 2nd date for that matter lmao. Will probably just get a Ukrainian mail order bride when I'm 30 at this point unironically. Anyone have tips for personalitymaxxing?

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