
BucketCrab
If you can't climb out, drag others down.
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Recently started wearing a ring when going out.
I've had 4 different girls comment on me having a new ring and wanting to see it up close and compliment me on it, while touching my hand and fingers.
I think rings can be an interesting softmaxx as they draw attention to the hands, and most girls are really into male hands. So it both leads them to look at your hands, and gives them an excuse to touch/look at them up close in a way that's socially acceptable. It also kind of leans into prettyboy/eboy territory which is a popular niche.
Five important pieces of information are to be considered here;
I've had 4 different girls comment on me having a new ring and wanting to see it up close and compliment me on it, while touching my hand and fingers.
I think rings can be an interesting softmaxx as they draw attention to the hands, and most girls are really into male hands. So it both leads them to look at your hands, and gives them an excuse to touch/look at them up close in a way that's socially acceptable. It also kind of leans into prettyboy/eboy territory which is a popular niche.
Five important pieces of information are to be considered here;
- I already dress elegantly and have a prettyboyish vibe. Not sure rings would fit any aesthetic, they'd probably look out of place on hypermasc guys.
- I have attractive hands (large palms, long slender fingers, veiny, groomed fingernails) - drawing attention to your hands may be counterproductive if they're not your strong suit.
- You need a certain degree of confidence to pull off male jewellery, even subtle ones like rings. So don't wear any if you get mad when someone calls you a faggot for it.
- I was not wearing generic silver plain rings; they don't draw as much attention, and if a man wears a ring, it's usually one of those or a wedding band so it doesn't make you stand out that much. I was wearing a ring that looked eye-catching but not too extravagant. Find one that is unique and works with your style.
- It's just a stylemaxx. Don't assume it will turn you into a slayer.