scared to kiss a girl or put my arm around her

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im 17, never had a girlfriend, i now have a girlfriend - and im petrified to do anything, my brain overthinks everything i dont know what to do. any anti anxiety pill help me.
 
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Hang out with her in person more often snd get to know her more and try to be in the moment
 
if a woman likes you she will let you do literally anything that isn’t obviously off limits. if she doesn’t want you to kiss her she’s not your girlfriend. everything is okay my goat
 
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Hang out with her in person more often snd get to know her more and try to be in the moment
iv been out with her like 12 times now.... we got closer just i havent do anything and she said i need to make the first move as she wont
 
if a woman likes you she will let you do literally anything that isn’t obviously off limits. if she doesn’t want you to kiss her she’s not your girlfriend. everything is okay my goat
im just so nervous i panic, i get my arm half way around and itch my head.

and i have no idea how to kiss a girl too is this a problem?
 
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im just so nervous i panic, i get my arm half way around and itch my head.

and i have no idea how to kiss a girl too is this a problem?
If you want to hint at a kiss. Just slowly move from her eyes and down to her lips. Repeat and she will get the cue.

Then just go in and gently just meet eachother. Tilt your head slightly. And just alternate between her upper lip and lower lip when kissing. Its practice but yeah thats the gist of it. Don't use tongue yet.
 
If you want to hint at a kiss. Just slowly move from her eyes and down to her lips. Repeat and she will get the cue.

Then just go in and gently just meet eachother. Tilt your head slightly. And just alternate between her upper lip and lower lip when kissing. Its practice but yeah thats the gist of it. Don't use tongue yet.
okay thanks man i have never done this before - thank you
 
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im just so nervous i panic, i get my arm half way around and itch my head.

and i have no idea how to kiss a girl too is this a problem?
you’ll be fine LOL you can’t know if you’ve never done it. just practice with her brah

she will like you showing her affection. if she doesn’t then she’s probably not the one
 
im 17, never had a girlfriend, i now have a girlfriend - and im petrified to do anything, my brain overthinks everything i dont know what to do. any anti anxiety pill help me.
life is never this serious bro
 
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you’ll be fine LOL you can’t know if you’ve never done it. just practice with her brah

she will like you showing her affection. if she doesn’t then she’s probably not the one
I will ty man i want to try find a way to like show or sign i am going too
 
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I will ty man i want to try find a way to like show or sign i am going too
i mean. im autistic as hell so maybe this is different but when this scenario happened with my girlfriend now i literally just said "i want to kiss you but im nervous"

it sounds so silly but thats just who i am. and it works
 
i mean. im autistic as hell so maybe this is different but when this scenario happened with my girlfriend now i literally just said "i want to kiss you but im nervous"

it sounds so silly but thats just who i am. and it works
thats actually smart asf
 
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