SELF IMPROVEMENT ISN'T ABOUT BEING CHOSEN

[Sabork]

I’ve been thinking about this for a while, and it’s obvious how many people frame self improvement around women. That mindset is already a failure state. If your motivation is external validation, you’ve accepted that your value is determined by someone else's standard. In my case I don’t want improve myself because I want a girl, I improve because I'm not content with the current version of myself. The only consistent outcome of improvement is that you become objectively better: more capable, more disciplined, more aligned with your own standards. The Right mindset isn’t “if I improve, someone will want me.” It’s “I will improve because stagnation is unacceptable.” If girls don't want you after you still win because you’re no longer the person you hated being.

“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.”
— Friedrich Nietzsche

 

[Bryce]

I’ve been thinking about this for a while

Retards dwelling on midwit takes thinking they've come up with some kind of esoteric mind-warper will never not be funny.

 

[Mess]

As the quote goes:

"Chase birds, and they'll fly away. Build a beautiful garden, and the birds will flock."

Something along those lines, I'm paraphrasing.

 

[Mess]

Retards dwelling on midwit takes thinking they've come up with some kind of esoteric mind-warper will never not be funny.

I'm lowkey impressed with the formatting of the Nietzsche quote.

 

[Bryce]

I'm lowkey impressed with the formatting of the Nietzsche quote.

The sheer formatting of it... oh my God, he even used bold and Italics.

 

[Mess]

The sheer formatting of it... oh my God, he even used bold and Italics.

Hey @Sabork, let me take you out to dinner.

 

[Sabork]

ay thanks this took me like a hour to make

 

[Sabork]

Hey @Sabork, let me take you out to dinner.

ay dude thanks

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I’ve been thinking about this for a while, and it’s obvious how many people frame self improvement around women. That mindset is already a failure state. If your motivation is external validation, you’ve accepted that your value is determined by someone else's standard. In my case I don’t want improve myself because I want a girl, I improve because I'm not content with the current version of myself. The only consistent outcome of improvement is that you become objectively better: more capable, more disciplined, more aligned with your own standards. The Right mindset isn’t “if I improve, someone will want me.” It’s “I will improve because stagnation is unacceptable.” If girls don't want you after you still win because you’re no longer the person you hated being.

For real for real. I've never based my principles or self worth on the approval of women, society, or any individual. And I've always been the one who chooses. Girls might want me but they don't get to choose. I choose.

 

[Sabork]

For real for real. I've never based my principles or self worth on the approval of women, society, or any individual. And I've always been the one who chooses. Girls might want me but they don't get to choose. I choose.

what a bout the 17 year old you were talking about

 

[Sabork]

For real for real. I've never based my principles or self worth on the approval of women, society, or any individual. And I've always been the one who chooses. Girls might want me but they don't get to choose. I choose.

sorry for disrespecting you elder you post mog me to gandy

 

[Lefty Rankin]

what a bout the 17 year old you were talking about

sorry for disrespecting you elder you post mog me to gandy

No worries. But I can't recall what you're saying. Which 17 year old?

 

[MLGS0LD1ERB0Y]

I’ve been thinking about this for a while, and it’s obvious how many people frame self improvement around women. That mindset is already a failure state. If your motivation is external validation, you’ve accepted that your value is determined by someone else's standard. In my case I don’t want improve myself because I want a girl, I improve because I'm not content with the current version of myself. The only consistent outcome of improvement is that you become objectively better: more capable, more disciplined, more aligned with your own standards. The Right mindset isn’t “if I improve, someone will want me.” It’s “I will improve because stagnation is unacceptable.” If girls don't want you after you still win because you’re no longer the person you hated being.

100 percent agree with this take + mirin the David McCall avi.

 

[Sabork]

No worries. But I can't recall what you're saying. Which 17 year old?

mb i just saw u as the thumbnail not posting about it

 

[Sabork]

100 percent agree with this take + mirin the David McCall avi.

i dont get avi like avatar the movie

 

[Lefty Rankin]

mb i just saw u as the thumbnail not posting about it

Oh? I'm in a YouTube video? Please send me a link.

 

[Sabork]

Oh? I'm in a YouTube video? Please send me a link.

like a thread link

 

[MLGS0LD1ERB0Y]

i dont get avi like avatar the movie

Nah, profile pic.