Social Anxiety is Killing You

[RAITEIII]

When I was 15 my legs would stop responding when I walked by people around my age.

It had nothing to do with looks, i looked awesome and actually always got compliments...

I was scared of falling down or have some weird attack in front of people lol.

Over time it got better, right now i would have 0 difficulty doing anything if I look good.

My biggest problem is conversation. Im very Boring to talk to.

 

[BlackPillChad]

When I was 15 my legs would stop responding when I walked by people around my age.

It had nothing to do with looks, i looked awesome and actually always got compliments...

I was scared of falling down or have some weird attack in front of people lol.

Over time it got better, right now i would have 0 difficulty doing anything if I look good.

My biggest problem is conversation. Im very Boring to talk to.

I was the same way. Even now I am somewhat dependent on my looksmaxes for confidence. It's almost like I am two different people when I employ my temporary looksmaxes (makeup, fashion, lifts) vs when I don't. Like I am putting on a different identity. I can flip the mental switch without being in costume, but it is harder.

 

[Deleted member 4301]

If you have social anxiety inject T asap,plain and simple.

What if you're fucking balding bro

 

[johncruz12345]

Just be normal theory and not do this autistic shit.

 

[ezio6]

pua = Low inhib training

 

[thecel]

Who tf asks for a free cup of water at a fast food restaurant and then asks for a refill?

 

[balding17yomanletcel]

he needs to 750mg t maxx

 

[Deleted member 3902]

Just Pop xanax lmao

 

[MewingJBP]

could do most of them but won't cause I'm not that autistic

 

[GeordiLeFort]

No social anxiety for a protuding maxilla

 

[JamesHowlett]

Applies to normies and above, wouldn’t really help ugly people.

 

[Deleted member 8583]

Applies to normies and above, wouldn’t really help ugly people.

wait how bigs ur dick

 

[JamesHowlett]

wait how bigs ur dick

Why? I was referring specifically to helping social anxiety, not the escorts

 

[Deleted member 8583]

Why? I was referring specifically to helping social anxiety, not the escorts

no I just wanna know

 

[6’1cel]

This is aimed at @rawdogprince since he said something that was very concerning to me:

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If you can't make a phonecall there is no way in hell you are going to be able to have the nerve to see an escort. You probably don't even have the nerve to talk to an employee at the grocery store.

I'm making this a thread because I think this might be beneficial for a lot of other members to hear, even if you don't have it as bad as him:
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Do You Have Social Anxiety? (A 25 Item Checklist to Measure Your Social Anxiety)

Do you have social anxiety? Here's a checklist and test to figure out if you do and how bad it really is

www.goodlookingloser.com

You can do the test for real and read the article to see how you did if you want, but if the idea of doing any of these makes you throw up, you have bad social anxiety and you need to beat it. Even beyond getting laid, this is ruining your entire life. An incel with low-inhib will have a much better life than an incel who is terrified to ask a store employee where they can find the granola bars.

GLL never actually did any writing on how to beat social anxiety if you have it this bad, but it wouldn't be too hard to put together a program similar to his approach anxiety program for people who need to learn to crawl before they can walk (I am probably one of those people, although I have drastically improved in my early adulthood). The key is exposure therapy and continuous progress (much like lifting weights). I'll put designing the Social Anxiety Program on my list of things I want to do for the forum (it will most likely include the above items, with some easier ones to do first and harder ones to do later).

Someone at @rawdogprince 's level probably needs professional therapy or even medical treatment (it could be a hormonal problem). It's a damn shame he can't even call for help.

i cant do any of those things ngl
too much of the old assburger

 

[6’1cel]

I cannot fathom anyone not being able to do these things, and I have social anxiety.

i dont think you do

 

[6’1cel]

If you have social anxiety inject T asap,plain and simple.

has nothing to do with t

 

[Deleted member 1588]

No social anxiety for my 22 inches skull and 6 inch wrists

 

[Achodosh]

This is aimed at @rawdogprince since he said something that was very concerning to me:

View attachment 518123
If you can't make a phonecall there is no way in hell you are going to be able to have the nerve to see an escort. You probably don't even have the nerve to talk to an employee at the grocery store.

I'm making this a thread because I think this might be beneficial for a lot of other members to hear, even if you don't have it as bad as him:
View attachment 518118

Do You Have Social Anxiety? (A 25 Item Checklist to Measure Your Social Anxiety)

Do you have social anxiety? Here's a checklist and test to figure out if you do and how bad it really is

www.goodlookingloser.com

You can do the test for real and read the article to see how you did if you want, but if the idea of doing any of these makes you throw up, you have bad social anxiety and you need to beat it. Even beyond getting laid, this is ruining your entire life. An incel with low-inhib will have a much better life than an incel who is terrified to ask a store employee where they can find the granola bars.

GLL never actually did any writing on how to beat social anxiety if you have it this bad, but it wouldn't be too hard to put together a program similar to his approach anxiety program for people who need to learn to crawl before they can walk (I am probably one of those people, although I have drastically improved in my early adulthood). The key is exposure therapy and continuous progress (much like lifting weights). I'll put designing the Social Anxiety Program on my list of things I want to do for the forum (it will most likely include the above items, with some easier ones to do first and harder ones to do later).

Someone at @rawdogprince 's level probably needs professional therapy or even medical treatment (it could be a hormonal problem). It's a damn shame he can't even call for help.

But dude you gotta know the history of people with social anxiety. Some of us went to high school dealing with rigorous academics and cliquey student bodies and some of us had no choice to be either socially isolated or sit in a reject table. So yeah that was me for a long time and it was something I couldn't control for a long time either.

 

[SupremeDream]

I could do all of those except the wife beater thing

 

[Deleted member 2634]

Social anxiety can suck my dick
You are anxious becuse you look like shit
No confidence for my face