[SuicideFuel] [Abused Dog Moment] I got rejected by my oneitis because of my looks, and my looks only. Personality doesn’t mean shit.

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I once again post this to provide sufficient evidence for my utter subhumanity. This is a message that an online female friend sent me a few weeks ago out of nowhere. I have known her since 2011.

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See? My personality is not the problem. So if it’s not personality, what else could it be? Status? She didn’t know I was a NEET who dropped out of college (because I knew she was gonna reject me; didn’t tell her because I didn’t wanna make her feel bad). She knew nothing about me.

She only remembered what I look like from some time before and she realized I’m the ugly ass dude so she went from responding everyday to being incredibly coldhearted and ignoring me after I said who I was and quickly blocked me.

She ignored all my messages that I sent after being blocked; 5 over the next few months. I just wanted to talk platonically if she didn’t want me romantically. All ignored.

I had liked her for 5 years and never spoke to her before, that’s why I was so cringey/clingy. I am embarrassed of my behavior. But this is a testament to how much of an abomination I am. There’s nothing else to blame but my looks here.

:feelsrope: I don’t think I will ever get over this. I am ruined boys. Can I get a hug, anyone? I really need one. ):
 
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Feel free to laugh at me if you don’t like me, I deserve it for being a fucking idiot. :feelsbadman: :feelscry:

Icing on the cake is I told one of her brothers about the fact I reached out to her by phone and that I was rejected just to tell them the truth because I am an honest person and two days later they came to my house causing a massive scene, cussing me out and stuff, yelling at me for even trying in the first place. I didn’t need that on top of my earlier punishment (the rejection). :feelsrope:
 
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I once again post this to provide sufficient evidence for my utter subhumanity. This is a message that an online female friend sent me a few weeks ago out of nowhere. I have known her since 2011.

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See? My personality is not the problem. So if it’s not personality, what else could it be? Status? She didn’t know I was a NEET who dropped out of college (because I knew she was gonna reject me; didn’t tell her because I didn’t wanna make her feel bad). She knew nothing about me.

She only remembered what I look like from some time before and she realized I’m the ugly ass dude so she went from responding everyday to being incredibly coldhearted and ignoring me after I said who I was and quickly blocked me.

She ignored all my messages that I sent after being blocked; 5 over the next few months. I just wanted to talk platonically if she didn’t want me romantically. All ignored.

I had liked her for 5 years and never spoke to her before, that’s why I was so cringey/clingy. I am embarrassed of my behavior. But this is a testament to how much of an abomination I am. There’s nothing else to blame but my looks here.

:feelsrope: I don’t think I will ever get over this. I am ruined boys. Can I get a hug, anyone? I really need one. ):
i even told a girl who was interested to marry im neet and not working and didnt even finish school
She didnt say anything
Over
But she said you need a job for marriage contract i dont care about money
 
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I once again post this to provide sufficient evidence for my utter subhumanity. This is a message that an online female friend sent me a few weeks ago out of nowhere. I have known her since 2011.

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See? My personality is not the problem. So if it’s not personality, what else could it be? Status? She didn’t know I was a NEET who dropped out of college (because I knew she was gonna reject me; didn’t tell her because I didn’t wanna make her feel bad). She knew nothing about me.

She only remembered what I look like from some time before and she realized I’m the ugly ass dude so she went from responding everyday to being incredibly coldhearted and ignoring me after I said who I was and quickly blocked me.

She ignored all my messages that I sent after being blocked; 5 over the next few months. I just wanted to talk platonically if she didn’t want me romantically. All ignored.

I had liked her for 5 years and never spoke to her before, that’s why I was so cringey/clingy. I am embarrassed of my behavior. But this is a testament to how much of an abomination I am. There’s nothing else to blame but my looks here.

:feelsrope: I don’t think I will ever get over this. I am ruined boys. Can I get a hug, anyone? I really need one. ):
I want to clarify that not everybody perceives your personality the same way.

Take me as an example. Some people think I'm a behemently arrogant asshole. Some others think I'm cool and chill, others cold and distant, others.... smth else. But these are short term companionships. Anyone who knows me for long enough will like me guaranteed.

I am sorry about your experience. Love makes us stupid and we think we may have a chance just reaching out, having a talk... but it seems that normally things either go smooth or it just won't happen...

You have an online friend from 2011. Ultimate rotter sign. I have from 2013 still in contact today. Get out. Unironically the only potential successful ltrs I've had have been from doing shit in real life. I dont like dating apps but sometimes I'm forced if theres none irl.
 
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I once again post this to provide sufficient evidence for my utter subhumanity. This is a message that an online female friend sent me a few weeks ago out of nowhere. I have known her since 2011.

View attachment 2104138

See? My personality is not the problem. So if it’s not personality, what else could it be? Status? She didn’t know I was a NEET who dropped out of college (because I knew she was gonna reject me; didn’t tell her because I didn’t wanna make her feel bad). She knew nothing about me.

She only remembered what I look like from some time before and she realized I’m the ugly ass dude so she went from responding everyday to being incredibly coldhearted and ignoring me after I said who I was and quickly blocked me.

She ignored all my messages that I sent after being blocked; 5 over the next few months. I just wanted to talk platonically if she didn’t want me romantically. All ignored.

I had liked her for 5 years and never spoke to her before, that’s why I was so cringey/clingy. I am embarrassed of my behavior. But this is a testament to how much of an abomination I am. There’s nothing else to blame but my looks here.

:feelsrope: I don’t think I will ever get over this. I am ruined boys. Can I get a hug, anyone? I really need one. ):
You cannot like someone for 5 years. This is Islamic romanticism and fairy tail idea of love has been your destruction. Don't repeat the mistake. You need to know if u have chances with someone quickly and dont waste time
 
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You're not alone
She got married, my brother left the house, I stay inside my room all day. I have become more alone since then. Strangely I don’t feel lonely anymore. Perhaps because I became dead inside over the years.
 
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i even told a girl who was interested to marry im neet and not working and didnt even finish school
She didnt say anything
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But she said you need a job for marriage contract i dont care about money
Yes, bhai, you prove my point. If I had good looks like you did (ma sha Allah), then I would not have been rejected. It was the only thing holding me back. ): All women look at is your looks. Nothing else matters.
 
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Yes, bhai, you prove my point. If I had good looks like you did (ma sha Allah), then I would not have been rejected. It was the only thing holding me back. ): All women look at is your looks. Nothing else matters.
Face>Height>Frame
Brutal women
 
What race
Very beautiful white girl!

Sike.

Pakistani. I had no idea what she looked like. I still sort of don’t. It’s like a vague image I can’t recall.
 
your personality is shit wtf lol
 
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Bhai aap Pakistani ho, arrange marriage ho jayega. Don’t worry 😎
 
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I want to clarify that not everybody perceives your personality the same way.

Take me as an example. Some people think I'm a behemently arrogant asshole. Some others think I'm cool and chill, others cold and distant, others.... smth else. But these are short term companionships. Anyone who knows me for long enough will like me guaranteed.

I am sorry about your experience. Love makes us stupid and we think we may have a chance just reaching out, having a talk... but it seems that normally things either go smooth or it just won't happen...

You have an online friend from 2011. Ultimate rotter sign. I have from 2013 still in contact today. Get out. Unironically the only potential successful ltrs I've had have been from doing shit in real life. I dont like dating apps but sometimes I'm forced if theres none irl.
Thanks for the well-thought out message. I gotta say, I like you; I have no problems with you whatsoever. If someone doesn’t like you it’s because they either don’t know you or don’t want to know you. If you are good looking, it’s the former. If you’re ugly, it’s the latter. Look at me. Point in case. And thank you bhai. I need a hug I guess. I’m a sensitive dude deep down so it really stung. Also I am still a NEET today. There’s nothing for me to do. I have to wait until college starts. I will be studying computer science so it’s gonna be a sausage fest haha.
 
You cannot like someone for 5 years. This is Islamic romanticism and fairy tail idea of love has been your destruction. Don't repeat the mistake. You need to know if u have chances with someone quickly and dont waste time
I really did bhai. Perhaps she thought I was lying? (Lol mega cope she knew I was being honest.) Often when I come with a cope, I immediately destroy it myself. We all know what the problem is: my looks.
 
You cannot like someone for 5 years. This is Islamic romanticism and fairy tail idea of love has been your destruction. Don't repeat the mistake. You need to know if u have chances with someone quickly and dont waste time
But you’re right I won’t repeat this mistake. I won’t like anyone again. Until the day they say “I like you” themselves.
 
Face>Height>Frame
Brutal women
Face > everything.

Yes women are incredibly cruel and heartless. I learned this lesson the hard way.
 
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@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
 
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@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
@It'snotover couldn’t even tag you properly, I am a failure all-around :feelsrope:
 
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@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
dont rope bhai y are too good to rope ngl
 
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@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
Roping is never the solution that way you lose this world and the afterlife. Better times await you bhai, if only you have patience.
 
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But you’re right I won’t repeat this mistake. I won’t like anyone again. Until the day they say “I like you” themselves.
All these message need addressing. I'm busy at the moment but will bookmark and move to PM when have time
 
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dont rope bhai y are too good to rope ngl
Maybe I should get a pet (no cap 🧢 @emeraldglass haha get it?) or something so I feel like I am useful to something at least. Thanks for your nice words bhai.
 
Maybe I should get a pet (no cap 🧢 @emeraldglass haha get it?) or something so I feel like I am useful to something at least. Thanks for your nice words bhai.
Get a doggo
 
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Roping is never the solution that way you lose this world and the afterlife. Better times await you bhai, if only you have patience.
Then how do I fix my brain bhai? Like it’s all I ever think about. 😭😭 I think it’s cause I’m a NEET who spends all his time inside his room.
 
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@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
Emotions are like a roller coaster, sometimes you think you have conquered a certain feeling but the devil tries again. You have to keep fighting the battle mentally. After a while you will conquer.
 
Rape her
 
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You’re a moderator
 
Get a doggo
I LOVE dogs and I want one so badly but I have OCD so it can’t work.

I was thinking of like, a lizard of a pet rat. I can relate to rats. They are unwanted. Like me (to my oneitis). :feelsrope:
 
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Date older plus sized women at church
 
Wtf man. No way. Besides I don’t have it in me to rape anyone. I couldn’t get it up even if I wanted to (I don’t- but you get the point). Stop being weird man.
 
Then how do I fix my brain bhai? Like it’s all I ever think about. 😭😭 I think it’s cause I’m a NEET who spends all his time inside his room
The mind is an enemy when not properly used. You should keep the mind busy. Being a NEET wil only strengthen the emotions you have.
 
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I LOVE dogs and I want one so badly but I have OCD so it can’t work.

I was thinking of like, a lizard of a pet rat. I can relate to rats. They are unwanted. Like me (to my oneitis). :feelsrope:
maybe a cat?
 
The mind is an enemy when not properly used. You should keep the mind busy. Being a NEET wil only strengthen the emotions you have.
Well I am doomed then until college starts. That’s 5 more months thinking about someone who doesn’t even remember me (which is good because I want to be forgotten, my behavior was too cringe and I am embarrassed).
 
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maybe a cat?
I have an allergy to cats apparently haha. I think a rat would be nice. I think they’re cute and just like how I am unwanted, so are they. So it makes sense. I will get a ratbhai. He’s gonna be my bhai rat.
 
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Wtf man. No way. Besides I don’t have it in me to rape anyone. I couldn’t get it up even if I wanted to (I don’t- but you get the point). Stop being weird man.
I thought you were a warm blooded Pakistani, what happened?
 
I thought you were a warm blooded Pakistani, what happened?
Don’t you mean cold-blooded? A warm-blooded person would be like me. A cold-blooded person would do what you said.
 
@emeraldglass @it’snotover bhais should I just rope or what? I’m a lost cause I feel, perhaps nothing will fix me and I am doomed.
Nevermind you would have made this story public, ngl. But you need to move on... otherwise you'll always feel like shit. Also why are you talking about roping again, you either ldar and accept your single man life for forever or you take action and fix your nose to get to mtn if you don't want to die alone, just do what makes you feel the best. And no don't rope or it's over for this forum fratello:feelswhat::rage:
 
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Well I am doomed then until college starts. That’s 5 more months thinking about someone who doesn’t even remember me (which is good because I want to be forgotten, my behavior was too cringe and I am embarrassed).
Buy a pet that you can keep busy with. And try not to hang on this forum too long bhai. I have also found that fresh air relaxes the brain, try taking a short walk sometimes. It doesn't have to be long just a few minutes is enough and try to get enough sleep. Little sleep can also contribute to depressed feelings. You can do this brother, hang in there.
 
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Don’t you mean cold-blooded? A warm-blooded person would be like me. A cold-blooded person would do what you said.
Rape is a crime of passion
 
Nevermind you would have made this story public, ngl. But you need to move on... otherwise you'll always feel like shit. Also why are you talking about roping again, you either ldar and accept your single man life for forever or you take action and fix your nose to get to mtn if you don't want to die alone, just do what makes you feel the best. And no don't rope or it's over for this forum fratello:feelswhat::rage:
Yes but I haven’t said why I liked her etc that’s only what a few guys know about because I sort of wanted a perspective to see if it made sense (@Htobrother @emeraldglass did it make sense or was I just delusional?) I don’t know fratello it’s probably because I haven’t slept much today and haven’t eaten much either. I won’t do it but I have stupid thoughts sometimes. I am trying to fix my life; I applied for college and got accepted! Now I have to wait until then. But all I ever do is spend time in my room anyway. I go outside maybe once a month or so.
 
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I have an allergy to cats apparently haha. I think a rat would be nice. I think they’re cute and just like how I am unwanted, so are they. So it makes sense. I will get a ratbhai. He’s gonna be my bhai rat.
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Brown or White?
 
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