Take sometime for yourself

[savage21]

Like many of you, I have extreme social anxiety and am in a depressive state.

It started out manageable in high school and was in middle school as I would still somewhat talk to people but would get extremely scared and would calculate whatever I would say.

Any time I got a negative feedback I wouldn’t talk for some days and I didn’t have a girlfriend or went to a single party once.

Anyways, fast forward to university this has gotten much worse. I barely even am able to eat because I’m extremely afraid of sitting in a public dining by myself and often just buy groceries to make food in my dorm.

Recently I found a park/forest program near my university. I go by myself and sometimes I help out removing invasive species from the woods and it really calms me down. After, I’ll grab a bite to eat and take a walk.

Just take some time out of your day to find something you genuinely enjoy doing instead of rotting on here.

Now, I’m not saying abandon your responsibilities and solely do what makes you happy because that would be unfeasible for most.

Just remember there is more to experiencing your life than what you look like. Self improvement is great, but don’t let it overwhelm you. If you can’t have a top percentile face and a great social life, just live for yourself and do what you can that makes you happy.

Just realized this entire thread is water for most people but thought I’d post it anyway

@Jason Voorhees @Glorious King

 

[crazyguy]

Like many of you, I have extreme social anxiety and am in a depressive state.

It started out manageable in high school and was in middle school as I would still somewhat talk to people but would get extremely scared and would calculate whatever I would say.

Any time I got a negative feedback I wouldn’t talk for some days and I didn’t have a girlfriend or went to a single party once.

Anyways, fast forward to university this has gotten much worse. I barely even am able to eat because I’m extremely afraid of sitting in a public dining by myself and often just buy groceries to make food in my dorm.

Recently I found a park/forest program near my university. I go by myself and sometimes I help out removing invasive species from the woods and it really calms me down. After, I’ll grab a bite to eat and take a walk.

Just take some time out of your day to find something you genuinely enjoy doing instead of rotting on here.

Now, I’m not saying abandon your responsibilities and solely do what makes you happy because that would be unfeasible for most.

Just remember there is more to experiencing your life than what you look like. Self improvement is great, but don’t let it overwhelm you. If you can’t have a top percentile face and a great social life, just live for yourself and do what you can that makes you happy.

Just realized this entire thread is water for most people but thought I’d post it anyway

@Jason Voorhees @Glorious King

so youre basically telling me to abandon my responsibilities

 

[Frenulum]

i was shy as a kid, when i got into puberty i became extremely nt and charismatic

 

[savage21]

so youre basically telling me to abandon my responsibilities

Hope you’re doing fine

i was shy as a kid, when i got into puberty i became extremely nt and charismatic

Great for you. An anxietycels dream. Best of luck

 

[crazyguy]

Hope you’re doing fine

im killing myself tomorrow

 

[savage21]

im killing myself tomorrow

Take some time for yourself and rethink your decision. I can’t change your mind only you can .

 

[crazyguy]

Take some time for yourself and rethink your decision. I can’t change your mind only you can .

too late, i have the pills ready

 

[savage21]

too late, i have the pills ready

You can throw them out

 

[crazyguy]

You can throw them out

wouldnt that be a waste

 

[savage21]

wouldnt that be a waste

They’re not worth more than your life. No amount of pills will ever be worth more than your life.

 

[crazyguy]

They’re not worth more than your life. No amount of pills will ever be worth more than your life.

but i have nothing to live for anymore

 

[savage21]

but i have nothing to live for anymore

just live for yourself

 

[crazyguy]

what do you mean by that

 

[Glorious King]

Like many of you, I have extreme social anxiety and am in a depressive state.

It started out manageable in high school and was in middle school as I would still somewhat talk to people but would get extremely scared and would calculate whatever I would say.

Any time I got a negative feedback I wouldn’t talk for some days and I didn’t have a girlfriend or went to a single party once.

Anyways, fast forward to university this has gotten much worse. I barely even am able to eat because I’m extremely afraid of sitting in a public dining by myself and often just buy groceries to make food in my dorm.

Recently I found a park/forest program near my university. I go by myself and sometimes I help out removing invasive species from the woods and it really calms me down. After, I’ll grab a bite to eat and take a walk.

Just take some time out of your day to find something you genuinely enjoy doing instead of rotting on here.

Now, I’m not saying abandon your responsibilities and solely do what makes you happy because that would be unfeasible for most.

Just remember there is more to experiencing your life than what you look like. Self improvement is great, but don’t let it overwhelm you. If you can’t have a top percentile face and a great social life, just live for yourself and do what you can that makes you happy.

Just realized this entire thread is water for most people but thought I’d post it anyway

@Jason Voorhees @Glorious King

good thread


just cus people dont get lucky with elite tier genetics doesnt mean its all over


chuds like kai , speed , ray should be a hope that even if your fucked

all it takes is just 1 good year to turn ya life around