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An important distinction we don't make enough when discussing looksmaxxing is the difference between good-looking vs. sexy.
They obviously overlap. And at the extremes, you cannot be extremely good-looking without being pretty sexy, nor can you be extremely sexy without being at least decent-looking. But, they're not the exact same thing.
Just think about it, I bet you can think of a girl that is extremely good-looking, yet you can think of another girl who is slightly less "good-looking" yet way sexier. You might look at the first girl "love" her, whereas you look at the second girl and you start losing your mind wanting to f*** her.
I'm too lazy to find pics (if anyone has good examples please post), but some examples of people I'd say are more good-looking than sexy: David Gandy, Sean O pry. Some examples of people I think are more sexy than good-looking: Matthew Noszka, and this guy in the pic below (this guy does insanely well on dating app experiments lol)
We need to start figuring out what contributes to each type of look. Here is what I have compiled so far:
a) good-looking is "sharp", "striking", "high class", "airy", "majestic". Sexy is more "sensual", or has some sort of quality that makes you think of physical touch. In other words, if you look at a "sexy" girl, it somehow involves subconscious thoughts of physical touch. Here is a heuristic I think might work: looking at pics of 2 different men, just ask yourself: which one do you think probably has a bigger dick (based on looks alone)? That guy is probably the sexier of the 2 jfl. I made this shit up so idk if it works.
Here are some things that I think contribute more to "sexiness" than "good-looking":
1) Body (anyone that says body is cope is insane). Specifically, "sexy" tends to be a bit more big/buff and A BIT higher bodyfat (you mfs don't post someone who's 30 bf and say I'm coping).
2) thick neck with NO neck lines / visible neck muscles or bands (technically body, but deserves its own point)
3) slightly bigger lips
4) tan skin
5) Eye area more like Matthew Noszka or Chico rather than David Gandy or Sean O Pry. i.e., slightly less striking colors, slightly less hooding.
6) one or at most two SLIGHT left-right asymmetries on the face. Alright, this sounds stupid, but I think it's legit. It's better to have a slight asymmetry (eg a slight jaw asymmetry, a slight eye asymmetry, a slight lazy eye). Emphasis on slight jfl and only 1 or 2.
7) I ran out of points for now tbh
They obviously overlap. And at the extremes, you cannot be extremely good-looking without being pretty sexy, nor can you be extremely sexy without being at least decent-looking. But, they're not the exact same thing.
Just think about it, I bet you can think of a girl that is extremely good-looking, yet you can think of another girl who is slightly less "good-looking" yet way sexier. You might look at the first girl "love" her, whereas you look at the second girl and you start losing your mind wanting to f*** her.
I'm too lazy to find pics (if anyone has good examples please post), but some examples of people I'd say are more good-looking than sexy: David Gandy, Sean O pry. Some examples of people I think are more sexy than good-looking: Matthew Noszka, and this guy in the pic below (this guy does insanely well on dating app experiments lol)
We need to start figuring out what contributes to each type of look. Here is what I have compiled so far:
a) good-looking is "sharp", "striking", "high class", "airy", "majestic". Sexy is more "sensual", or has some sort of quality that makes you think of physical touch. In other words, if you look at a "sexy" girl, it somehow involves subconscious thoughts of physical touch. Here is a heuristic I think might work: looking at pics of 2 different men, just ask yourself: which one do you think probably has a bigger dick (based on looks alone)? That guy is probably the sexier of the 2 jfl. I made this shit up so idk if it works.
Here are some things that I think contribute more to "sexiness" than "good-looking":
1) Body (anyone that says body is cope is insane). Specifically, "sexy" tends to be a bit more big/buff and A BIT higher bodyfat (you mfs don't post someone who's 30 bf and say I'm coping).
2) thick neck with NO neck lines / visible neck muscles or bands (technically body, but deserves its own point)
3) slightly bigger lips
4) tan skin
5) Eye area more like Matthew Noszka or Chico rather than David Gandy or Sean O Pry. i.e., slightly less striking colors, slightly less hooding.
6) one or at most two SLIGHT left-right asymmetries on the face. Alright, this sounds stupid, but I think it's legit. It's better to have a slight asymmetry (eg a slight jaw asymmetry, a slight eye asymmetry, a slight lazy eye). Emphasis on slight jfl and only 1 or 2.
7) I ran out of points for now tbh