wadsef
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Basically, if a girl can see a future with you she'll make you wait before you two fuck so that you can have a romantic story about how you got together.
For a while now, girls have been telling me that they make guys they like the most wait, and I always thought they were lying. It seemed like a thin excuse for them to treat less attractive dudes as 'oofy-doofy' and 'beta bucks'. However, I'm realizing that that isn't true.
She wants a future with you, so she doesn't want you to be that guy that she fucked on the night that you both met. She can't lie about how you two met unless she coordinates with all her friends, witnesses, and you. So, the real story will get out, and that's a nightmare: "How did mommy and daddy meet?" "He was a some random nigga gave her back shots after meeting her for like 30min because she was desperate and horny."
It's about the narrative: the story about Obama taking Michelle on cute ice cream dates is part of their "lore". Imagine if instead of that story, the Obamas met in a random ONS at a Chicago club. It's a bad look for the girl, and she's trying to avoid having that follow her around in your relationship.
On the other hand, if a girl is physically attracted to you, you're a stranger, and she doesn't see a future with you, she'll fuck you immediately. She has nothing to lose in this case.
Thusly, a girl "making you wait" might have less to do with "Chadness", and more to do with your actual potential to be a life partner to the girl. Even the most attractive guy is subject to this rule-- she doesn't want to have to tell everyone that you meet in a way that would comprise the social perception of the relationship.
Might be water, though so idk
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For a while now, girls have been telling me that they make guys they like the most wait, and I always thought they were lying. It seemed like a thin excuse for them to treat less attractive dudes as 'oofy-doofy' and 'beta bucks'. However, I'm realizing that that isn't true.
She wants a future with you, so she doesn't want you to be that guy that she fucked on the night that you both met. She can't lie about how you two met unless she coordinates with all her friends, witnesses, and you. So, the real story will get out, and that's a nightmare: "How did mommy and daddy meet?" "He was a some random nigga gave her back shots after meeting her for like 30min because she was desperate and horny."
It's about the narrative: the story about Obama taking Michelle on cute ice cream dates is part of their "lore". Imagine if instead of that story, the Obamas met in a random ONS at a Chicago club. It's a bad look for the girl, and she's trying to avoid having that follow her around in your relationship.
On the other hand, if a girl is physically attracted to you, you're a stranger, and she doesn't see a future with you, she'll fuck you immediately. She has nothing to lose in this case.
Thusly, a girl "making you wait" might have less to do with "Chadness", and more to do with your actual potential to be a life partner to the girl. Even the most attractive guy is subject to this rule-- she doesn't want to have to tell everyone that you meet in a way that would comprise the social perception of the relationship.
Might be water, though so idk
Corollaries:
- You can get a lot of 'easy' sex if you find a way to consistently date women that “don’t see a future” with you. EG: poor guy that only dates middle class girls.
- If you can tell whether or not a woman “sees a future with you”, then you can tune when you try to fuck her to her perceptions of you. (Note: This behavior is manipulation and you shouldn't do it). Regardless of what you want, if she wants to make you her boyfriend, you should wait a date or two and make the dates (somewhat) thoughtful before you try and fuck her. If she doesn’t see a future with you, you can try to fuck her as soon as humanely possible.
- Trying to have sex early in the courtship process can be interpreted as saying “I don’t see a future with you” to the girl.
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