This IG stuff is NOT working out for me

[Amnesia]

This last month I started working back at the night club I was at two years ago as a way to force myself into the real world and work on socializing. Its been cool, but this thread is about how my IG experience has been going. And it's bad. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies, with 10-20 likes on each with barely and comments.

There have been plenty of times I get approached when working at this club by women showing extreme interest, I chat with them exchange Instagrams and then on IG they either ghost me after one message after following me or it fizzles out fast and nothing comes from it. My conclusion is that cause I have no group photos with friends or comments and little likes girls think I am a loser (they arent wrong.) So basically NOT having an IG is better than having a shit one/non NT one.


When Dming girls on insta I get responses like this:

And girls think I am fake who I Dm or think my account is spam since I am "too good looking to have such few followers/not be famous"

I've had a girl tell me that after I met her IRL and she showed my insta to her friends, and they didnt believe her that she had met me. Basically giving my shitty non social instagram to girls is HURTING me. I was better off not having one at this point. By not having IG girls assumed I was more social than I am. Basically to guys here if you have a shitty IG it's best to not have it.


Question I have to you guys:

I am thinking of deleting a lot of the selfies and putting up a few candid/group photos that I do have. The question is, is it suspect to not allow likes/comments. because I am thinking of doing that and just having a mix of selfies and a few group photos, but I still won't have many likes so is it best to just hide them?

 

[Deleted member 8165]

We missed you

 

[Deleted member 11292]

I guess you could buy likes/followers?

 

[gamma]

He is alive!

 

[AscendingHero]

This last month I started working back at the night club I was at two years ago as a way to force myself into the real world and work on socializing. Its been cool, but this thread is about how my IG experience has been going. And it's bad. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies, with 10-20 likes on each with barely and comments.

There have been plenty of times I get approached when working at this club by women showing extreme interest, I chat with them exchange Instagrams and then on IG they either ghost me after one message after following me or it fizzles out fast and nothing comes from it. My conclusion is that cause I have no group photos with friends or comments and little likes girls think I am a loser (they arent wrong.) So basically NOT having an IG is better than having a shit one/non NT one.


When Dming girls on insta I get responses like this:

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And girls think I am fake who I Dm or think my account is spam since I am "too good looking to have such few followers/not be famous"

I've had a girl tell me that after I met her IRL and she showed my insta to her friends, and they didnt believe her that she had met me. Basically giving my shitty non social instagram to girls is HURTING me. I was better off not having one at this point. By not having IG girls assumed I was more social than I am. Basically to guys here if you have a shitty IG it's best to not have it.


Question I have to you guys:

I am thinking of deleting a lot of the selfies and putting up a few candid/group photos that I do have. The question is, is it suspect to not allow likes/comments. because I am thinking of doing that and just having a mix of selfies and a few group photos, but I still won't have many likes so is it best to just hide them?

 

[khvirgin]

"a model guy with 10 likes nah i'm good"
over for models guys, it's medium ugly only

 

[Frank Jack]

 

[Enfant terrible]

 

[AscendingHero]

This last month I started working back at the night club I was at two years ago as a way to force myself into the real world and work on socializing. Its been cool, but this thread is about how my IG experience has been going. And it's bad. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies, with 10-20 likes on each with barely and comments.

There have been plenty of times I get approached when working at this club by women showing extreme interest, I chat with them exchange Instagrams and then on IG they either ghost me after one message after following me or it fizzles out fast and nothing comes from it. My conclusion is that cause I have no group photos with friends or comments and little likes girls think I am a loser (they arent wrong.) So basically NOT having an IG is better than having a shit one/non NT one.


When Dming girls on insta I get responses like this:

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And girls think I am fake who I Dm or think my account is spam since I am "too good looking to have such few followers/not be famous"

I've had a girl tell me that after I met her IRL and she showed my insta to her friends, and they didnt believe her that she had met me. Basically giving my shitty non social instagram to girls is HURTING me. I was better off not having one at this point. By not having IG girls assumed I was more social than I am. Basically to guys here if you have a shitty IG it's best to not have it.


Question I have to you guys:

I am thinking of deleting a lot of the selfies and putting up a few candid/group photos that I do have. The question is, is it suspect to not allow likes/comments. because I am thinking of doing that and just having a mix of selfies and a few group photos, but I still won't have many likes so is it best to just hide them?

THE LEGEND IS BACK IN ALL HIS GLORY

 

[Matthias8272]

 

[AscendingHero]

Inb4 the spam of shitposts and memes itt quickly to farm reacts, im unto you niggas

 

[Amnesia]

We missed you

Thanks

I have been in a really good place starting this job again, made a lot of friends, getting invited out to college parties and stuff kinda putting this forum on the backburner. I really have ascended to the highest point I've ever been at in my life overall. I get tons of compliments and guys and girls wanting to be friends and saying I look like a model. It really has been a good month overall for me

But this IG stuff is definitely a weak area and I think my life/personality/lone wolf type just isn't suited for it

 

[AscendingHero]

 

[AscendingHero]

 

[Prettyboy]

You should farm followers by linking your IG into your Tinder bio @Amnesia, if you aren’t already doing that

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

dn care + dn ask but good to have u back tho

 

[Aloejuice]

This last month I started working back at the night club I was at two years ago as a way to force myself into the real world and work on socializing. Its been cool, but this thread is about how my IG experience has been going. And it's bad. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies, with 10-20 likes on each with barely and comments.

There have been plenty of times I get approached when working at this club by women showing extreme interest, I chat with them exchange Instagrams and then on IG they either ghost me after one message after following me or it fizzles out fast and nothing comes from it. My conclusion is that cause I have no group photos with friends or comments and little likes girls think I am a loser (they arent wrong.) So basically NOT having an IG is better than having a shit one/non NT one.


When Dming girls on insta I get responses like this:

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And girls think I am fake who I Dm or think my account is spam since I am "too good looking to have such few followers/not be famous"

I've had a girl tell me that after I met her IRL and she showed my insta to her friends, and they didnt believe her that she had met me. Basically giving my shitty non social instagram to girls is HURTING me. I was better off not having one at this point. By not having IG girls assumed I was more social than I am. Basically to guys here if you have a shitty IG it's best to not have it.


Question I have to you guys:

I am thinking of deleting a lot of the selfies and putting up a few candid/group photos that I do have. The question is, is it suspect to not allow likes/comments. because I am thinking of doing that and just having a mix of selfies and a few group photos, but I still won't have many likes so is it best to just hide them?

You need to post really high quality photos and videos for IG following and use hashtags, collabs and shit ; good looks doesn't necessarily mean you'd make it big on IG

Look up some fashion guys shit, have a theme , all that kinda stuff . And post consistently

 

[ropemax]

Thanks

I have been in a really good place starting this job again, made a lot of friends, getting invited out to college parties and stuff kinda putting this forum on the backburner. I really have ascended to the highest point I've ever been at in my life overall. I get tons of compliments and guys and girls wanting to be friends and saying I look like a model. It really has been a good month overall for me

But this IG stuff is definitely a weak area and I think my life/personality/lone wolf type just isn't suited for it

Cope, looks don't matter.

 

[Mouthbreath]

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Man I was searching for this video. Thanks a lot for posting! It is one of my favorite short clips

 

[Deleted member 16346]

Holy shit youre back. Missed you man merry xmas

 

[AscendingHero]

NTgame and confidence bro

@Giourdani @looksmaxxer234

Medium Ugly pill too

 

[Deleted member 6403]

We thought you died in a car crash, bro. Glad to see you’re fine.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Damn the blackpill is real. Users be jumping on this thread so fast like Johnny Depp himself made a thread. Niggas here flock to you like flies to shit just because you’re a Chad. No different than foids. Wtf

 

[Deleted member 6403]

We also thought you were being paid to post by our ex-admin.

 

[Deleted member 16346]

Thanks

I have been in a really good place starting this job again, made a lot of friends, getting invited out to college parties and stuff kinda putting this forum on the backburner. I really have ascended to the highest point I've ever been at in my life overall. I get tons of compliments and guys and girls wanting to be friends and saying I look like a model. It really has been a good month overall for me

But this IG stuff is definitely a weak area and I think my life/personality/lone wolf type just isn't suited for it

Good shit bro. I was convinced you roped turns out its the opposite

 

[Looks234]

NTgame and confidence bro

@Giourdani @looksmaxxer234

Medium Ugly pill too

10 likes lol. This is what happens when you make a ig without knowing people.

 

[GymcelDoomer]

. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies,

This reads like a Patrick Bateman monologue. I'm sure you come across as a perfectly stable and normal individual around women...

 

[Amnesia]

This reads like a Patrick Bateman monologue. I'm sure you come across as a perfectly stable and normal individual around women...
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A lot of u spergs would bust a nut if a girl said this to u

cause u idolize weird dark triad figures, having a girl say this to u would be the ultimate compliment

looksmax.org

10 likes lol. This is what happens when you make a ig without knowing people.

So to my question I posed in the OP:

Is it suspect to turn off likes on your photos? What if I had a few group photos and selfies and just had all comments and likes off? is that better than having few likes?

 

[Deleted member 16346]

A lot of u spergs would bust a nut if a girl said this to u

cause u idolize weird dark triad figures, having a girl say this to u would be the ultimate compliment

looksmax.org

So to my question I posed in the OP:

Is it suspect to turn off likes on your photos? What if I had a few group photos and selfies and just had all comments and likes off?

Absolutely dont turn off the likes. It makes you look either insecure or like you dont have friends. Just pay for followers and likes or smth

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Stop being a whiny bitch and get your followers/status up. You can easily start a tiktok posting just selfies and get your followers up to 10k+ in under a month.

 

[Looks234]

Is it suspect to turn off likes on your photos? What if I had a few group photos and selfies and just had all comments and likes off? is that better than having few likes?

Nah it’s normal to turn off your likes, everyone does it. They can still scroll through the likes tho, but it mogs having your double digit like count-displayed.

 

[Deleted member 275]

made a lot of friends, getting invited out to college parties. I really have ascended to the highest point I've ever been at in my life overall. I get tons of compliments and guys and girls wanting to be friends and saying I look like a model. It really has been a good month overall for me

This is why we looksmax boys.

Looks>everything

 

[GymcelDoomer]

A lot of u spergs would bust a nut if a girl said this to u

cause u idolize weird dark triad figures, having a girl say this to u would be the ultimate compliment

looksmax.org

So to my question I posed in the OP:

Is it suspect to turn off likes on your photos? What if I had a few group photos and selfies and just had all comments and likes off? is that better than having few likes?

Just have a healthy variety of pics showcasing NT activities like bowling, hitting a pr at the gym and sitting with friends at some social event lol

 

[Amnesia]

This is why we looksmax boys.

Looks>everything

kinda

but if looks are everything I wouldnt get ghosted by women who literally approach me telling me I look like a model then when they see my IG they ghost

 

[Amnesia]

Just have a healthy variety of pics showcasing NT activities like bowling, hitting a pr at the gym and sitting with friends at some social event lol

i dont do or have any of those things tho so I can't lol that's why I think its best I just not have IG

 

[JustDoIt]

Don't post a bunch of pictures in a row, you have to grow your IG organically, post a picture every 2 weeks or something. It's better to have 1 pic that has a lot of likes than 20 pics that have 10~20 likes as you said.

You can also delete all of your pics and start getting the IG of people you meet irl and have them follow back, once you get like 100 this way you post a pic. Since you have met those people before they're more willing to like the picture.

 

[Central Cee]

Just follow 100 girls a day for 6 months and then unfollow everyone, maybe half will notice and you’ll have good ratio

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Don't post a bunch of pictures in a row, you have to grow your IG organically, post a picture every 2 weeks or something. It's better to have 1 pic that has a lot of likes than 20 pics that have 10~20 likes as you said.

You can also delete all of your pics and start getting the IG of people you meet irl and have them follow back, once you get like 100 this way you post a pic. Since you have met those people before they're more willing to like the picture.

Also helps to have friends/a social life. If it's just you and you aren't tagging anyone, you'll look like a catfish JFL.

 

[JustDoIt]

Thanks

I have been in a really good place starting this job again, made a lot of friends, getting invited out to college parties and stuff kinda putting this forum on the backburner. I really have ascended to the highest point I've ever been at in my life overall. I get tons of compliments and guys and girls wanting to be friends and saying I look like a model. It really has been a good month overall for me

But this IG stuff is definitely a weak area and I think my life/personality/lone wolf type just isn't suited for it

Since you're getting social IRL just delete all of your pics and say it's a new IG account and that you deleted your old one, then you start posting pics like I said.

 

[Amnesia]

Just follow 100 girls a day for 6 months and then unfollow everyone, maybe half will notice and you’ll have good ratio

I've been doing that to get followers. But they still don't all like me photos. Even my brother told me my account would look sus to ppl cause it's just pics of a GL dude with little or no comments on the pics.

Also helps to have friends/a social life. If it's just you and you aren't tagging anyone, you'll look like a catfish JFL.

yeah I am sure that's true. But since I have none this will never happen therefore I think it's best to not have IG

 

[Deleted member 15099]

Nigga we thought you were dead. There were conspiracy theories spread about you jfl

 

[GymcelDoomer]

i dont do or have any of those things tho so I can't lol that's why I think its best I just not have IG

in that case I'd post pics of nature, urban scenes etc mixed in with some selfies, preferably taken outside while engaging in some kind of physical activity e.g jogging on a scenic bridge with the backdrop of the sun rising captioned "Morning jog"

Paint yourself as a down to earth introvert who's into photography hence the nature/urban pics. This gives your personality a story, something women can deduce and make a profile judgement as oppose to taking a bunch of selfies in your apartment like a non NT autist, women can't deduce anything from that aside from "this person is lonely and sus"

 

[Central Cee]

I've been doing that to get followers. But they still don't all like me photos. Even my brother told me my account would look sus to ppl cause it's just pics of a GL dude with little or no comments on the pics.



yeah I am sure that's true. But since I have none this will never happen therefore I think it's best to not have IG

If your ig is just a bunch of mirror selfie’s it’s gonna look weird/fake

Post pics with your brother and sister

out at the bar where you work

Weekend activities

pets

no one posts selfies on ig except creeps and girls

 

[JustDoIt]

Man, people really have no awareness about those things in this forum. Having a good IG isn't really about having high production nt pictures and videos, the most important thing is to have a good amount of people (less than you might think) you had an interaction irl following you and also people that have followers in common, mirror pics aren't bad unless it's the only thing that you post.

If your ig is just a bunch of mirror selfie’s it’s gonna look weird/fake

Post pics with your brother and sister

out at the bar where you work

Weekend activities

pets

no one posts selfies on ig except creeps and girls

selfies are the most common type of pic on ig, it's also common to see girls with good IGs that only post selfies/mirrorpics/bikinipics

 

[Cali Yuga]

This last month I started working back at the night club I was at two years ago as a way to force myself into the real world and work on socializing. Its been cool, but this thread is about how my IG experience has been going. And it's bad. For reference I have 600 followers and am following 800 people. All my pics are selfies, with 10-20 likes on each with barely and comments.

There have been plenty of times I get approached when working at this club by women showing extreme interest, I chat with them exchange Instagrams and then on IG they either ghost me after one message after following me or it fizzles out fast and nothing comes from it. My conclusion is that cause I have no group photos with friends or comments and little likes girls think I am a loser (they arent wrong.) So basically NOT having an IG is better than having a shit one/non NT one.


When Dming girls on insta I get responses like this:

View attachment 1459598



And girls think I am fake who I Dm or think my account is spam since I am "too good looking to have such few followers/not be famous"

I've had a girl tell me that after I met her IRL and she showed my insta to her friends, and they didnt believe her that she had met me. Basically giving my shitty non social instagram to girls is HURTING me. I was better off not having one at this point. By not having IG girls assumed I was more social than I am. Basically to guys here if you have a shitty IG it's best to not have it.


Question I have to you guys:

I am thinking of deleting a lot of the selfies and putting up a few candid/group photos that I do have. The question is, is it suspect to not allow likes/comments. because I am thinking of doing that and just having a mix of selfies and a few group photos, but I still won't have many likes so is it best to just hide them?

your plan to appear nt will outperform autist selfies for sure

still not ideal

women use insta as a way to filter out dudes like us for exactly the reasons youre talking about: outsider introverts with no friends who have masculine world view and spend all day talking to schizos online

nothing puts a woman off more than knowing youre not an npc

 

[Central Cee]

Also since you’re a bartender put that in your bio with your bars ig

and then have pics of you there

basically proof that you’re real

 

[Amnesia]

Another option I think is to just have one picture, the best one I have with the most likes and that's it as my only post. I've seen girls who do this, just to have a presence or way to talk to others on IG. They just have one picture

 

[Amnesia]

Also since you’re a bartender put that in your bio with your bars ig

and then have pics of you there

basically proof that you’re real

not a bartender just work at a night club serving drinks, getting ubers for people who need it, walk around help out etc

 

[noodlelover]

Dude just buy likes, followers, and comments.

 

[Amnesia]

your plan to appear nt will outperform autist selfies for sure

still not ideal

women use insta as a way to filter out dudes like us for exactly the reasons youre talking about: outsider introverts with no friends who have masculine world view and spend all day talking to schizos online

nothing puts a woman off more than knowing youre not an npc

yeah exactly. I can fraud a LOT of things and I do but this is something that's becoming too difficult for me to fake and it's becoming detrimental now. All the girls I have fucked this last month that I pulled from this club never have seen my IG lol. I think that's telling