Tinder date just left after 7 minutes

[Amnesia]

We match at 3am, she messages first whats up. We chat a bit say I'm drinking to appear NT (even tho Im not drinking or NT) she says she wants to join. She comes over we meet on the street walk into my apartment. We sit on the couch and do a shot, she looks at me and like the first thing she says is "you're very pretty, but you're wearing color contacts."

Being called out so directly I respond yes, and she says that she can tell cause she also wears color contacts. We do another shot, she keeps saying how pretty I look and how GL I am and that I MUST model. She asks where I work I respond, then I get up to get some water from my fridge. And shes on her phone texting for like 2 minutes. She says she actually has to leave but now that she has my number she will hit my up to hang.

She again says how good looking I am, and I say "then why are you leaving !" In a joking way, she doesn't really respond, just small laugh. She says sorry but says again that she will hit ME up. I ask if she wants me to walk her to her car, she says yes and I do. She gets in her car and leaves.




I have no idea what to think from this situation. I don't expect to hear from her again, and I will be ghosted. Thoughts?

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Yes you should rope
Sorry bro

 

[xdxdxnice1]

nah sounds genuine tbh. she will probably hit you back up

 

[Deleted member 6997]

Never began for you

 

[Amnesia]

There's no way it's genuine, you make the drive to a hot guys house at 330am even if u have to leave u would be like ok lets bang really quick lets be honest, why else are we here at this late in the night

If I dont get a text in the next few minutes like "i got home safe sorry i had to go" then its over

so far no text its been 15 min

 

[Blackout.xl]

We match at 3am, she messages first whats up. We chat a bit say I'm drinking to appear NT (even tho Im not drinking or NT) she says she wants to join. She comes over we meet on the street walk into my apartment. We sit on the couch and do a shot, she looks at me and like the first thing she says is "you're very pretty, but you're wearing color contacts."

Being called out so directly I respond yes, and she says that she can tell cause she also wears color contacts. We do another shot, she keeps saying how pretty I look and how GL I am and that I MUST model. She asks where I work I respond, then I get up to get some water from my fridge. And shes on her phone texting for like 2 minutes. She says she actually has to leave but now that she has my number she will hit my up to hang.

She again says how good looking I am, and I say "then why are you leaving !" In a joking way, she doesn't really respond, just small laugh. She says sorry but says again that she will hit ME up. I ask if she wants me to walk her to her car, she says yes and I do. She gets in her car and leaves.




I have no idea what to think from this situation. I don't expect to hear from her again, and I will be ghosted. Thoughts?

You got called out on frauding and didn’t respond properly. She texted a chad who mogs you and went to fuck him. She probably talked behind your back too.

Over 4 u nigga. You’re getting ghosted

 

[Deleted member 2756]

chad definitely called her, she's gonna get dicked down right now by someone better looking.

 

[Deleted member 616]

Sometimes you have to let go. You can't mog everyone and let every girl love you.

 

[Casadonis]

over for browneyecels

 

[karbo]

i literally cant tell what the fuck this must mean son. should have asked her directly to know

 

[Nisse]

Never began for you

 

[Amnesia]

It doesnt makie a lot of sense. If u walk into a guys house and arent into him why stay and do 2-3 more shots and tell him how GL he is and ask about his work before leaving. And why if ur itching to get out ask him to walk u to ur car, u would be like NAW im good u dont have to bye

 

[Amnesia]

Maybe you're looking too much into it and she legitimately was busy and will call you back

Ok maybe u gotta go but like u cant fuck for 10 minutes quickly?? lol

 

[Alt Number 3]

Girls know when u is frauding. It takes one to know one.

 

[Spartacus1-]

There are three possibilities
1- you got mogged by a bigger chad
2- she was creeped out by you
3- she was genuine and really had to go
I'll wager the first possibility

 

[Amnesia]

There are three possibilities
1- you got mogged by a bigger chad
2- she was creeped out by you
3- she was genuine and really had to go
I'll wager the first possibility

Yeah I mean this slut WAS on Tinder at 3am matching with guys and instantly looking to go over to their house, she prob swiped a guy as she was parking at my apartment hopeing he would message her back and he did when she was over and went to his house.

BRUTAL

 

[Disabledcel]

Maybe she don't like drink?

 

[Amnesia]

Also it doesnt make sense if u go to a guys house and want to leave knowing u have to drive away why would u do like 2 -3 shots possibly making u too drunk to drive. U would only continue to drink if u planned to stay, unless something last minute unexpected really DID come up

None of it makes much sense.

But she hasnt texted me even like "srry I had to leave we should hang again"

its over

 

[Deleted member 6497]

When will you learn that youre 4.5 psl

 

[Selfahate]

You should have told her you look pretty too but you are wearing makeup

 

[Amnesia]

When will you learn that youre 4.5 psl

Half the conversation was this girl telling me I should model and how good looking my facial features were.


But actually I do think this site overrated me a lot.

You should have told her you look pretty too but you are wearing makeup

Well I WAS wearing eyebrow gel clear mascara. Helps tame and shape eyebrows

I almost sperged out and told her we should just take our clothes off and bangout real qucik as she was leaving

 

[Deleted member 1588]

She matched with a bigger chad sorry bro and she is getting dicked dowm hard by him now.

Over for Amnesiacels

 

[Apeiron]

Maybe her house is on fire

 

[Amnesia]

She matched with a bigger chad sorry bro and she is getting dicked dowm hard by him now.

Over for Amnesiacels

She musta matched with @ArvidGustavsson

 

[Deleted member 6497]

Half the conversation was this girl telling me I should model and how good looking my facial features were.


But actually I do think this site overrated me a lot.



I almost sperged out and told her we should just take our clothes off and bangout real qucik as she was leaving

Next time put some lipsticks to achieve 5psl

 

[Lux]

She seriously took 2 shots & drove away?

 

[Amnesia]

She seriously took 2 shots & drove away?

Dude no joke she took 2 shots told me I should model and how pretty I am, was texting for 2 minutes and left basically

 

[Deleted member 1862]

she doesn't find you attractive NEXT

in all seriousness though, because of double standards she was probably weirded out by you wearing coloured contacts

it's one girl, ik it hurts your ego but just move on bc she isn't worth it.

You shouldn't concern yourself with her opinions, tinder is literally an ocean of thots

 

[Deleted member 1862]

She seriously took 2 shots & drove away?

WHO WOULD WANT TO FUCK A DRINK DRIVER ANYWAY? SMFH THIS BITCH

 

[Amnesia]

she doesn't find you attractive NEXT

in all seriousness though, because of double standards she was probably weirded out by you wearing coloured contacts

it's one girl, ik it hurts your ego but just move on bc she isn't worth it.

You shouldn't concern yourself with her opinions, tinder is literally an ocean of thots

Funny isn't it, she even said she wears them herself.

If this chick does hit me again and I end up banging her Imma choke her so hard and deep throat her so hard till she gags for standing me up

 

[Copemaxxing]

ACCEPT IT DUDE. As you SAID THE CHAD PROBABLY TEXTED HER WHEN SHE ARRIVED AT YOUR HOUSE. NOBODY CAN MOG ALWAYS

 

[Deleted member 6113]

Do you get called out on coloured contacts often?
When you get called good looking is there a dopamine response or are you used to it at this point?

 

[turkproducer]

maybe she is bait and switching up

 

[Amnesia]

Do you get called out coloured contacts often?
When you get called good looking is there a dopamine response or are you used to it at this point?

It does happen occasionally, usually I deny it and people accept it but this girl like did it so confidently and directly that theres no way I could deny it She didnt SEEM to mind cause shes like Yeah I wear em too so I could tell. It makes sense though cause now that I wear color contacts I can tell as well when a girl is wearing them.

It's always good getting called GL. I went into the DMV the other day to retake my driver license pic and the cute girl taking it was even like, Wow you look like a model. Nothing beats getting called GL unsolicited IRL

 

[Deleted member 2756]

maybe she thinks you're autistic for wearing eye contacts despite being already very attractive.

I'd too be put off If I was with an attractive girl whom felt the need to wear contacts.

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Maybe u arent as goodlooking IRL as on the pics

 

[Amnesia]

Maybe u arent as goodlooking IRL as on the pics

except all she did in person was tell me how GL I am, and she did it on her own its not like I told her she was beautiful and to be polite she responded "yeah u are so gl too!"

In fact i never once complimented her on her looks when she was over

 

[Deleted member 6538]

She picked up your phone and saw that thread where @Salludon mogged you to self harm and then she lost interest

 

[killer400]

girls don't say you are good looking when they don't thinks so. how much experience do u have with situations like this? new girls coming over? if this is a recoccuring thing it's probably your energy, behavior, mood is off. Else, she got confirmation from some other guy that she can come over.

 

[Deleted member 5393]

except all she did in person was tell me how GL I am, and she did it on her own its not like I told her she was beautiful and to be polite she responded "yeah u are so gl too!"

In fact i never once complimented her on her looks when she was over

She just said that so u wouldnt feel bad about her leaving, like the phrase ”its not you its me!”

theres no other explanation why she comes home to u at night then just leaves. Maybe she had a double date and wanted to see who was best looking.

 

[Amnesia]

girls don't say you are good looking when they don't thinks so. how much experience do u have with situations like this? new girls coming over? if this is a recoccuring thing it's probably your energy, behavior, mood is off. Else, she got confirmation from some other guy that she can come over.

It was prob my energy, the energy of a sperg. I did mention like once she got inside, "hahaI actually wasnt even going to invite u over cause I woke up with this pimple on my nose lolz"

Why did I say that? Im so insecure and a sperg. Shes like "omgg dude ur good, but why did u say that now all I will see is ur zit haha!"

She just said that so u wouldnt feel bad about her leaving, like the phrase ”its not you its me!”

theres no other explanation why she comes home to u at night then just leaves.

I get what ur saying, but she kept making comments about it. It wasnt just like one comment she said how gl i was then like complimented all my facial featurs, then talked about how I should model

 

[Vidyacoper]

its most likely that she got turned off when she found out you were wearing color contacts or got weirded out or something, dont get what else it could be
shell probably ghost you if she hasnt messaged you yet

 

[Amnesia]

Maybe I was "too pretty" to her and just had no sex appeal to her. Girls dont want pretty guys

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Just dont read too much into it, girls are irrational and unpredictable. Even with my Tyler Maher chadfish i ran a while back i got ghosted by psl5 girls.

 

[killer400]

It was prob my energy, the energy of a sperg. I did mention like once she got inside, "hahaI actually wasnt even going to invite u over cause I woke up with this pimple on my nose lolz"

Why did I say that? Im so insecure and a sperg. Shes like "omgg dude ur good, but why did u say that now all I will see is ur zit haha!"



I get what ur saying, but she kept making comments about it. It wasnt just like one comment she said how gl i was then like complimented all my facial featurs, then talked about how I should model

Take this advice with caution because it's not healthy but it works for me. Naturally i am too much of a nice guy so usually on first dates i tell myself the girl is worthless and lower than the shit on my shoe, a worthless piece of shit. This brings a very different dynamic. Sadly enough (I'm actually sad about it because I don't want to fake) gives me great results in regards to first dates. And I am not meeting trash woman, they are university / graduates where this works on.

 

[KrissKross]

I am starting to slowly think @Amnesia might be larping tbh

I’d very much like to see some more photos of him to see what all the fuss is about. Something isn’t adding up here

 

[Chadeep]

Maybe she was into 6'6 Dom ogres instead of maesthetic Chad's like you.

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Maybe I was "too pretty" to her and just had no sex appeal to her. Girls dont want pretty guys

You look like a masculine all-american chad but we havnt seen you with color contacts. Do u have any new pics with them.

also post pic of the girl

 

[Deleted member 7747]

Brother instead of asking randoms here why she left and expecting them to answer on her behalf, just ask her yourself. Send a simple 'Everything okay?' so that you seem genuine but not clingy. If she replies, then she replies. If not, forget about her.

And yes, good looking people get ghosted and rejected, too. That's life. I think your insecurity and past traumas are subconsciously making you doubt yourself. The reason she left most likely has nothing to do with your appearance. If she didn't find you good-looking, initially, then she wouldn't have gone to your apartment to begin with. She probably just pussied out, is in the middle of a break-up, just got her period, etc. You never know.

We've all been there man lol. You'll be fine.

 

[Amnesia]

Just dont read too much into it, girls are irrational and unpredictable. Even with my Tyler Maher chadfish i ran a while back i got ghosted by psl5 girls.

Regardless, it's something any dude who has experience with women knows just how fucking unpredictable and flaky women are. Most of their actions dont make ANY SENSE whatsoever, and spending too much time trying to logically deduce why they did something is a futile exercise