Users older than 21: Do you have any absolutely COLOSSAL regrets (particularly things you did *NOT* do) that are almost worth killing yourself over?

[Deleted member 27836]

- Missed POTENTIAL chances, you can never go back
- Might have led your life onto a different "track" (but probably not)
- No risk, no fun (even if odds are stacked against you)
- You were too much of a pussy and now it hurts

 

[Enfant terrible]

you can always turn your life around especially in your 20s and 30s

 

[Itsmelurking505]

- Missed POTENTIAL chances, you can never go back
- Might have led your life onto a different "track" (but probably not)
- No risk, no fun (even if odds are stacked against you)
- You were too much of a pussy and now it hurts

Yes all above

 

[Deleted member 27836]

you can always turn your life around especially in your 20s and 30s

True! Not questioning that. I’m asking about a specific event or situation. Like not asking that girl out when you were 15. She didn’t even even know you, was a class below you, and now lives on a different continent and is much uglier anyway. My odds would have been bad. Maybe 1 in a million, or 0.0001%

 

[slayerToBe]

I wish I did sports as a little kid, I mean now I'm decently athletic, I work out and do judo, but in elementary and middle school I could have been way more popular and NT if I just did sports, I would try hang out with popular kids but they would always end up making fun of me and not hanging out w me coz I couldn't do shit. Plus they could have made me leaner in those years, not that I was fat.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

I wish I did sports as a little kid, I mean now I'm decently athletic, I work out and do judo, but in elementary and middle school I could have been way more popular and NT if I just did sports, I would try hang out with popular kids but they would always end up making fun of me and not hanging out w me coz I couldn't do shit. Plus they could have made me leaner in those years, not that I was fat.

Are you still a KHHV? If yes could this have been different at the end of middle school?

 

[lilxder2]

I'm 20 but not really, during HS I my brain chemistry and looks simply didnt let me experience a lot of things rhat would be considered worthwhile. If anything I regret not fixing my brain earlier

 

[blackpilledforlife]

I'm 20 but not really, during HS I my brain chemistry and looks simply didnt let me experience a lot of things rhat would be considered worthwhile. If anything I regret not fixing my brain earlier

How did you fix it

 

[lilxder2]

How did you fix it

Exposure therapy and quitting addictive behaviour (playing vidya games all day and scrolling social media and shit).

 

[Deleted member 27836]

In grade 8 i should have asked that girl a grade lower out, despite her not knowing me, and chances having been 1 in a million (0.0001%). She was among the 3 most attractive girls in middle school). I should have at least tried but didn’t want to be humiliated. I was ugly.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

scrolling social media and shit).

i regret doing this over the last years and not working out at all. 99% of my free-time i spent on YT, social media (scrolling), TV, porn, and video games. The rest I read.

 

[lilxder2]

i regret doing this over the last years and not working out at all. 99% of my free-time i spent on YT, social media (scrolling), TV, porn, and video games. The rest I read.

Yeah it's disgusting and truly useless, I tried this monk mode redpill cope first time around a year ago and my whole outlook on life changed ded srs. You should try it, you will get so bored after 2 days max that you will force yourself outside looking for human contact (I always used to think I'm an introvert but in reality my whole social energy was wasted on social media).

 

[Kamui]

Im not 21 I’m 18 but I wish I started boxing earlier, definitely one of the best decisions I ever made in my life

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Im not 21 I’m 18 but I wish I started boxing earlier, definitely one of the best decisions I ever made in my life

So you’d say your regret is somewhere between options 2 and 3 ?

 

[AlexBrown84]

nah i played my life perfectly

only regret is falling asleep in one of my teslas and crashing that bitch

was a good lesson tho cuz it made me more resilient in tough situations.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

nah i played my life perfectly

only regret is falling asleep in one of my teslas and crashing that bitch

was a good lesson tho cuz it made me more resilient in tough situations.
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What penalty did you get

 

[slayerToBe]

Are you still a KHHV? If yes could this have been different at the end of middle school?

Yeah, it probably could have been as if my elementary and middle school years were good that would sort of compound into high school. Although I'm 16 rn so there's still hope for me to be happy.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Yeah, it probably could have been as if my elementary and middle school years were good that would sort of compound into high school. Although I'm 16 rn so there's still hope for me to be happy.

Im 25.

 

[AspiringMogger]

I stopped playing football from 13-18. I didn’t excersize at all between those ages and just got very fat. I would’ve probably been 2-3 inches taller if I had continued since I would’ve reached my expected height. Oh well

 

[New Poster]

Tons of women I could have fucked

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Im not 21 I’m 18 but I wish I started boxing earlier, definitely one of the best decisions I ever made in my life

My worst regret is dropping boxing at 15. Subhanallah. It would’ve singlehandedly overhauled my life. Where I could’ve been by now but I have to start from scratch at 20.

Boxing will give you everything, friends, confidence, health, self defense, happiness, fun etc. Boxing and martial arts are life

 

[Deleted member 16444]

- Missed POTENTIAL chances, you can never go back
- Might have led your life onto a different "track" (but probably not)
- No risk, no fun (even if odds are stacked against you)
- You were too much of a pussy and now it hurts

Playing video games was a big misstake, i think a lot of ppl can relate. Ppl talk about porn but video games are worse u just rot inside doing nothing

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Playing video games was a big misstake, i think a lot of ppl can relate. Ppl talk about porn but video games are worse u just rot inside doing nothing

I can certainly relate. I'm almost 26, and it's extremely brootal. I should have worked on myself ever since I was like 13/14. I don't wanna think about what could have been... makes me feel sad/angry so much that my stomach literally hurts as I type this

 

[AlexBrown84]

What penalty did you get

$50 ticket or something lol

i was surprised the cops didn’t drug test me or anything. i almost hit a car full of kids too but God was on my side

 

[Orc]

I should've started lifting earlier, that's about it.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

I can certainly relate. I'm almost 26, and it's extremely brootal. I should have worked on myself ever since I was like 13/14. I don't wanna think about what could have been... makes me feel sad/angry so much that my stomach literally hurts as I type this

I’m sad because I started working on myself at 14 then flaked at 15 and descended to where I am at 20. Next level brutal.

 

[Aladin]

There was this really ugly girl I could have fucked at 19, she wasn't fat, but I didn't do it. I wish I did so I could have lost my virginity earlier.

 

[Gengar]

- Missed POTENTIAL chances, you can never go back
- Might have led your life onto a different "track" (but probably not)
- No risk, no fun (even if odds are stacked against you)
- You were too much of a pussy and now it hurts

Sums up my experiences.

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I'm gonna be 21 soon but my only regret was not losing my virginity sooner

 

[Akhi]

you can always turn your life around especially in your 20s and 30s

elab this lifefuel

 

[Akhi]

I should've started lifting earlier, that's about it.

 

[Deleted member 30857]

- Missed POTENTIAL
- You were too much of a pussy and now it hhur

Yes man I regret that I didn't do any sports in puberty. In combination with chronic masturbation, which probably started at the age of 12-13, when I first saw porn. Maybe not all the time, but around the age of 15-18 I masturbated two to three times a day. It literally killed my testosterone and growth hormone. As a result, I will never reach my full genetic potential in face, height, frame, and penis. I won't say that I'm not happy with my height (around 190 cm), but it drives me crazy that I COULD be at least a solid two meters tall if I hadn't wasted the crucial growing years.
Well, of course, in this mode of life, I constantly felt like a bitch, weak, and was constantly depressed. Because of this, I was AFRAID to respond to SIGNS of ATTENTION from one female classmate because I didn't believe I could attract even a legit LTB. But I constantly cope with all of the above with the idea that I am not entirely to blame for this, since I grew up without a father.I would like to imagine what would happen if mother gave me up and put me in a shelter or if I just happened to be in bad company. Perhaps, on the contrary, my life would be radically different and I would realize my physical and psychological side much better.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Yes man I regret that I didn't do any sports in puberty. In combination with chronic masturbation, which probably started at the age of 12-13, when I first saw porn. Maybe not all the time, but around the age of 15-18 I masturbated two to three times a day. It literally killed my testosterone and growth hormone. As a result, I will never reach my full genetic potential in face, height, frame, and penis. I won't say that I'm not happy with my height (around 190 cm), but it drives me crazy that I COULD be at least a solid two meters tall if I hadn't wasted the crucial growing years.
Well, of course, in this mode of life, I constantly felt like a bitch, weak, and was constantly depressed. Because of this, I was AFRAID to respond to SIGNS of ATTENTION from one female classmate because I didn't believe I could attract even a legit LTB. But I constantly cope with all of the above with the idea that I am not entirely to blame for this, since I grew up without a father.I would like to imagine what would happen if mother gave me up and put me in a shelter or if I just happened to be in bad company. Perhaps, on the contrary, my life would be radically different and I would realize my physical and psychological side much better.

shit bro sorry! I can very much relate, as the same thing happened to me. I'm 25 and 5'4", I should have been 6'1"... my dad is 6'3" my mother is 5'6", doctors predicted I will become 6'1

 

[Deleted member 30857]

I read that you too were addicted to rotting at home and PORN. That's brutal, my friend. In spite of what the copers say, but a person cannot reach his genetic potential if he spent all his youth at home, where he masturbated and cried.

 

[MongolTurk]

I'm 17 but I colossally regret being born ugly asf

 

[Deleted member 27836]

I read that you too were addicted to rotting at home and PORN. That's brutal, my friend. In spite of what the copers say, but a person cannot reach his genetic potential if he spent all his youth at home, where he masturbated and cried.

yes, thank you brother, and I also got into early puberty + stress + hormone imbalance fucked up my face and height. I was meant to be a chad (I was a chad child up until 12, also looked like I will be tall, my parents and sister look good but me... nope. I got fucked, and here we are! Ugly manlet instead of at-least-normal-height chadlite)

 

[urukhaiascension]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

shit bro, finasteride actually sucks, be glad you didn't start at 18

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

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[Deleted member 27836]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

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[Deleted member 31459]

I lifted since 14 but I wish I took exercising more seriously sooner and that I just ate better overall

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

"Finasteride use has been associated with long-term and persistent endocrine, neurological, sexual, and ocular side effects."

you're welcome.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Take finasteride at 18, i began at 27 its over

I was affected by it too

 

[Deleted member 31459]

Also, I sorta wish I took esportsmaxxing more seriously and had a pc to myself earlier at like 12 instead of 16

 

[Deleted member 30857]

yes, thank you brother

 

[BoredPrince]

I regret not finding .org when I was 15

 

[Deleted member 27836]

I regret not finding .org when I was 15

unfortunately when I was 15 (in 2013) this site didn't exist

 

[TheAnomaly]

Had the chance to bang my onenits. I blew it. To this day I hurts my soul.

 

[Deleted member 27836]

Had the chance to bang my onenits. I blew it. To this day I hurts my soul.

how tall and old are you, where are you from? I'm 5'5", 25 and German

 

[EnglandBadman]

Many regrets but this is my biggest one:
Thread 'I used to be a bully.'
https://looksmax.org/threads/i-used-to-be-a-bully.832495/