Why can't guy admit they do something to impress girl?

[messi1]

"I don't lift for girl"
"I want to help my gramma"
I get a hair cut ,buy nice clothe,get fit to impress woman too
I never denied that

 

[The Grinch]

Who said we‘re trying to impress women? We wanna impress our homies actually

 

[messi1]

Who said we‘re trying to impress women? We wanna impress our homies actually

Maybe not you but a lot of guy lift to impress woman

 

[The Grinch]

Maybe not you but a lot of guy lift to impress woman

So what? Let them feel better about themselves, it doesn’t affect you

 

[3pslnoharmony]

"I don't lift for girl"
"I want to help my gramma"

I have no one to impress other than my self I want to look in the mirror and be happy instead of being disgusted

 

[got.daim]

Who said we‘re trying to impress women? We wanna impress our homies actually

lol gymcel cope

 

[FiendFiend]

"I don't lift for girl"
"I want to help my gramma"

yes grandma i can garry ur groceries!!

 

[messi1]

So what? Let them feel better about themselves, it doesn’t affect you

Why don't just said that
I get a hair cut ,buy nice clothe to impress woman too
I never denied that

 

[IraniancelV2]

Who said we‘re trying to impress women? We wanna impress our homies actually

So you lift for social status, OPs point still stands.

It's cringe and foidlike

"I'm wearing make up for myself"

 

[Im sorry mother]

THIS WILL SHOW HER!

 

[Old Büll]

How you felt typing this

 

[IraniancelV2]

THIS WILL SHOW HER!
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Holy fuck

 

[The Grinch]

lol gymcel cope

I always knew you are obese

 

[got.daim]

I always knew you are obese

I have a fit lean bod

 

[The Grinch]

I have a fit lean bod

Don’t try to impress another dude on an incel forum, son

 

[messi1]

Don’t try to impress another dude on an incel forum, son

damn this guy is good at verbal fight

 

[The Grinch]

damn this guy is good at verbal fight

Been here since 2022, i am experienced

 

[Latinus]

"I don't lift for girl"
"I want to help my gramma"
I get a hair cut ,buy nice clothe,get fit to impress woman too
I never denied that

It's the same as the famous advice "you shouldn't care what other people think", (straight) men saying they don't care about the opinion of women are simply larping as the based alpha male whose only opinion he should care is his own.

But by acting and saying that they don't care about the opinion of women, instead of being seen as the based alpha, they are actually projecting an insecure persona towards society as a whole.

I mean, you shouldn't have a black & white view of social dynamics with women, meaning, you shouldn't act like a slave to their desires/opinions, but saying you don't care about them; saying your personal development has 0 to do with women, is pure hypocrisy/coping.

If you're a straight man, you DO CARE about female validation, you do want them to see and desire you.

Recognizing that doesn't make you a simp, it only shows that you're not a caricature of a meme: the sigma male that doesn't care about social conventions and is happy by himself and without the approval of anyone else.