RealLifeJoker
30, 6’0”, mulatto, aspie, htn
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Whether you’re still in your teens, in your twenties or thirties loving yourself and taking pride in your appearance does make a difference on not how people would perceive you but how you present yourself as a person.
If you think you’re ugly and you’re full of hate and bitterness then that won’t get what you want and if you think complaining and wallowing in self-pity will get what you want then you’re clearly mistaken. Why do I say that? Because I used of those men back in my teens and early to not bothering taking care of myself, being resentful towards women not noticing me, envious towards sexually active men/men that could get girls easily, always complaining, blaming everyone for my failures, talking bad about people, etc.
I’m going to list the things I did to not only improve my physical appearance but causing me to leave I call the ugly guy mindset.
-Improving my fashion
-Growing a beard
Regularly using deodorant, aftershave & anti-perspirant
-Getting my haircut every 2 weeks
-Lifting weights
-Planning my workout
-Keeping track of of my calories
-Following a balanced diet
-Cutting down on fizzy drinks
-Eating more fruit and vegetables
-Taking up kick boxing
-Brushing my teeth more often
-Talking to myself in the mirror so I could observe ways to improve my body language
-Monitoring my speech so I could figure out ways to improve my speech impediment
-Saving money
-Cutting down porn
-Reading a book
-Regulating use of mainstream social media sites
If you think you’re ugly and you’re full of hate and bitterness then that won’t get what you want and if you think complaining and wallowing in self-pity will get what you want then you’re clearly mistaken. Why do I say that? Because I used of those men back in my teens and early to not bothering taking care of myself, being resentful towards women not noticing me, envious towards sexually active men/men that could get girls easily, always complaining, blaming everyone for my failures, talking bad about people, etc.
I’m going to list the things I did to not only improve my physical appearance but causing me to leave I call the ugly guy mindset.
-Improving my fashion
-Growing a beard
Regularly using deodorant, aftershave & anti-perspirant
-Getting my haircut every 2 weeks
-Lifting weights
-Planning my workout
-Keeping track of of my calories
-Following a balanced diet
-Cutting down on fizzy drinks
-Eating more fruit and vegetables
-Taking up kick boxing
-Brushing my teeth more often
-Talking to myself in the mirror so I could observe ways to improve my body language
-Monitoring my speech so I could figure out ways to improve my speech impediment
-Saving money
-Cutting down porn
-Reading a book
-Regulating use of mainstream social media sites
