Why LDARing is bad

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You’re imitating hiding alone in a cave after being exiled from your tribe

Think about it, natural humans are hypersocial, pretty much always surrounded by their tribesmen from when they wake up until they go to sleep surrounded by them. They spend most of their time outside in the sun and lived in fairly spread out, spacious environments and aligned their sleep/wake times with their circadian rythm

LDARing is the opposite- you’re alone, sedentary in a dark, cramped environment. Humans in nature are only ever alone if they’ve been exiled by their tribe, or if they’re all dead. And ones chance of survival is very low on your own in nature.

So naturally, you will constantly experience low level stress and depression living like this, unless you have a certain kind of neurodivergent mind

Moreover, most LDARers have very erratic and unnatural sleeping habits, often waking up late and staying up late, barely even seeing the sun. A constant lack of sunlight is literally simulating hiding away in a cave

If you must LDAR, try to maintain some irl connections and have regular meetups with likeminded individuals. You don’t have to be a chad or even a normie to have friends, you just need to engage with others like you. Think back to school, the most neurodivergent nerds often had their own little groups even if others looked down on them. They were often much happier than the loners, too

Just find ways to get out of your room and talk to anyone
 
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You’re imitating hiding alone in a cave after being exiled from your tribe

Think about it, natural humans are hypersocial, pretty much always surrounded by their tribesmen from when they wake up until they go to sleep surrounded by them. They spend most of their time outside in the sun and lived in fairly spread out, spacious environments and aligned their sleep/wake times with their circadian rythm

LDARing is the opposite- you’re alone, sedentary in a dark, cramped environment. Humans in nature are only ever alone if they’ve been exiled by their tribe, or if they’re all dead. And ones chance of survival is very low on your own in nature.

So naturally, you will constantly experience low level stress and depression living like this, unless you have a certain kind of neurodivergent mind

Moreover, most LDARers have very erratic and unnatural sleeping habits, often waking up late and staying up late, barely even seeing the sun. A constant lack of sunlight is literally simulating hiding away in a cave

If you must LDAR, try to maintain some irl connections and have regular meetups with likeminded individuals. You don’t have to be a chad or even a normie to have friends, you just need to engage with others like you. Think back to school, the most neurodivergent nerds often had their own little groups even if others looked down on them. They were often much happier than the loners, too

Just find ways to get out of your room and talk to anyone
Dnr, is the sky blue ahh thread, 🌊
 
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Ldar doesn’t mean be a social outcast. Could just chill in a field with a group of friends and do nothing
 
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Ldar doesn’t mean be a social outcast. Could just chill in a field with a group of friends and do nothing
99% of LDARers dont though
most just rot on their own in their rooms
 
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Dnr, is the sky blue ahh thread, 🌊
i thought the cave metaphor was pretty cool idk just randomly thought of that
obviously the premise is basic, just linking it to why it feels so bad
 
i thought the cave metaphor was pretty cool idk just randomly thought of that
obviously the premise is basic, just linking it to why it feels so bad
Fym feels bad, it feels super awesome to do nothing, I wish I could do that for the rest of my life :bigbrain:
 
Fym feels bad, it feels super awesome to do nothing, I wish I could do that for the rest of my life :bigbrain:
do nothing alone in your room?
ur probably nd or schizoid or something as i addressed in the post, it becomes torturous after a while for most people
 
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do nothing alone in your room?
ur probably nd or schizoid or something as i addressed in the post, it becomes torturous after a while for most people
I'm not ND, I don't have schizophrenia or some other shit, it's just easy and I'm lazy and shi :200IQ:
 
I'm not ND, I don't have schizophrenia or some other shit, it's just easy and I'm lazy and shi :200IQ:
schizoid not schizophrenia
if you’re very asocial, can’t really form close relationships or bonds and prefer your own company you might qualify
 
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schizoid not schizophrenia
if you’re very asocial, can’t really form close relationships or bonds and prefer your own company you might qualify
I don't mind interaction, I think that ppl just don't like me very much, but it's ight :forcedsmile:
 
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I don't mind interaction, I think that ppl just don't like me very much, but it's ight :forcedsmile:
thats fair
nd is a broad term. my main point is that most people (including myself) tend to get depressed and anxious during prolonged isolation because humans are by nature a very social species. some people are different, more power to you if you’re able to tolerate it or even thrive on your own
 
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thats fair
nd is a broad term. my main point is that most people (including myself) tend to get depressed and anxious during prolonged isolation because humans are by nature a very social species. some people are different, more power to you if you’re able to tolerate it or even thrive on your own
Its sometimes harsh, bc even some very ND ppl I know go to parties, and I haven't been invited to one in like 11 months, that's why I joined the forum, to interact with ppl :feelshah:
 
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Im too autistic to be bothered with zero social life tbh, I only keep a very small one to get through life and a gf, any more and I would be too tired, some dsys I wish I could be like nietzsche and just hide away somewhwre
 
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Yes, means nobody has a use for you
 
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