Why tf can't I find love?

[Squizaz]

17yo, 182.2cm (5'11.7) in Austria.

life is unenjoyable if you're alone, just in general there's not much point in anything since you won't accomplish anything valuable and feelings are chemical reactions.

My friends who are under 180 and have a 5-6.5/10 face are all in relationships and I don't get how they are doing it.

I don't really have problems with approaching women, I always ended up leaving with their insta. But after a few weeks they start to ghost me like you could have just rejected me instead.

Had only 1 relationship in my entire life and that was 4 years ago and I'm afraid that it might be my last too. Still a virgin, could have lost my virginity to 2 women but I'm demisexual.

I'd say I'm a 5.5-6/10 facially and my body is not bad either just that I'm a twink (57-60kg). Look at pics/vids I added. In the vid I used a lot of retouched.

Into fashion so people sometimes look at me weirdly because of how I dress. But I guess nichemaxing is a way to filter out people who you'll truly enjoy to be around.

Might be truly over for me. I don't even know how to describe how sad I'm about this stuff, seeing other people in relationships while I'm lonely. Just seeing a girl my type irl or online ruins my mood for the entire day, knowing that I can't get that.

I'm just frustrated about this topic, had to let this out and yap about it.

 

[uglyfreak]

treat them like they're a brick wall that you can speak with and thats how i bagged my ex whilst i was nd

 

[NOMALICIOUSINTENT]

Try men probably since ur demisexual that already means ur faggot/faggot-leaning

 

[alexcs]

you need to focus on the bigger things in life and the women will come

 

[Squizaz]

Try men probably since ur demisexual that already means ur faggot/faggot-leaning

I do not feel attracted to men and I'm not gay. And being demisexual doesn't equal to being a faggot

 

[thekey]

17yo, 182.2cm (5'11.7) in Austria.

life is unenjoyable if you're alone, just in general there's not much point in anything since you won't accomplish anything valuable and feelings are chemical reactions.

My friends who are under 180 and have a 5-6.5/10 face are all in relationships and I don't get how they are doing it.

I don't really have problems with approaching women, I always ended up leaving with their insta. But after a few weeks they start to ghost me like you could have just rejected me instead.

Had only 1 relationship in my entire life and that was 4 years ago and I'm afraid that it might be my last too. Still a virgin, could have lost my virginity to 2 women but I'm demisexual.

I'd say I'm a 5.5-6/10 facially and my body is not bad either just that I'm a twink (57-60kg). Look at pics/vids I added. In the vid I used a lot of retouched.

Into fashion so people sometimes look at me weirdly because of how I dress. But I guess nichemaxing is a way to filter out people who you'll truly enjoy to be around.

Might be truly over for me. I don't even know how to describe how sad I'm about this stuff, seeing other people in relationships while I'm lonely. Just seeing a girl my type irl or online ruins my mood for the entire day, knowing that I can't get that.

I'm just frustrated about this topic, had to let this out and yap about it.

Prolly high inhib
Thats what happens to me

 

[NOMALICIOUSINTENT]

I do not feel attracted to men and I'm not gay. And being demisexual doesn't equal to being a faggot

 

[Hemophylia]

17yo, 182.2cm (5'11.7) in Austria.

life is unenjoyable if you're alone, just in general there's not much point in anything since you won't accomplish anything valuable and feelings are chemical reactions.

My friends who are under 180 and have a 5-6.5/10 face are all in relationships and I don't get how they are doing it.

I don't really have problems with approaching women, I always ended up leaving with their insta. But after a few weeks they start to ghost me like you could have just rejected me instead.

Had only 1 relationship in my entire life and that was 4 years ago and I'm afraid that it might be my last too. Still a virgin, could have lost my virginity to 2 women but I'm demisexual.

I'd say I'm a 5.5-6/10 facially and my body is not bad either just that I'm a twink (57-60kg). Look at pics/vids I added. In the vid I used a lot of retouched.

Into fashion so people sometimes look at me weirdly because of how I dress. But I guess nichemaxing is a way to filter out people who you'll truly enjoy to be around.

Might be truly over for me. I don't even know how to describe how sad I'm about this stuff, seeing other people in relationships while I'm lonely. Just seeing a girl my type irl or online ruins my mood for the entire day, knowing that I can't get that.

I'm just frustrated about this topic, had to let this out and yap about it.

instead of chasing butterflies focus on building your garden and they wll come by itself

 

[Squizaz]

you need to focus on the bigger things in life and the women will come

Biggest cope ever. Only works for 6ft+ and 7+/10 facially. Most likely women will approach you if you're average/slightly above average

 

[jflmeister]

true riralite

 

[Squizaz]

Prolly high inhib
Thats what happens to me

Could be a reason

 

[alexcs]

Biggest cope ever. Only works for 6ft+ and 7+/10 facially. Most likely women will approach you if you're average/slightly above average

yeah sure bro, at some point women stop giving a shit if you look attractive and start caring about what you have

go ahead bro keep crying on a forum about how you pull no bitches when you cant even better your self.

 

[Squizaz]

instead of chasing butterflies focus on building your garden and they wll come by itself

Same thing:

Biggest cope ever. Only works for 6ft+ and 7+/10 facially. Most likely women will approach you if you're average/slightly above average

 

[Squizaz]

yeah sure bro, at some point women stop giving a shit if you look attractive and start caring about what you have

go ahead bro keep crying on a forum about how you pull no bitches when you cant even better your self.

For them to even care about what you have, you first need to be good looking.

And you do not know my past so to judge by this one thread and saying that I can't better myself even tho I did, is an awful thing to say

 

[Squizaz]

true riralite

Many people say that i look similar to rira, lol. My favorite compliment

 

[alexcs]

For them to even care about what you have, you first need to be good looking.

And you do not know my past so to judge by this one thread and saying that I can't better myself even tho I did, is an awful thing to say

i do not know your past but you are so bothered by not pulling any bitches that instead of working harder you just cry and cope on a forum with other incels. thats all i neeed to know

 

[jflmeister]

Many people say that i look similar to rira, lol. My favorite compliment

riramaxxing (in appearance jfl) is the best route for deathnics with good eye areas

 

[carvxx]

Go fuck all of them, let them suffer, abuse them and kill them if you can, they love that for some reason

 

[Squizaz]

riramaxxing (in appearance jfl) is the best route for deathnics with good eye areas

Whatever a deathnic is I never understood that term, I'm romanian.

 

[jflmeister]

Whatever a deathnic is I never understood that term, I'm romanian.

it means someone with dark skin and/or non-caucasian features

 

[Squizaz]

Go fuck all of them, let them suffer, abuse them and kill them if you can, they love that for some reason

Haven't reached that stage yet, would be my LAST option, to give up on everything, live life by my animal instinct and act on my deepest long kept desires.

I hope I'll never have to do that.

 

[Barreton]

I'm demisexual

thought this was some gay shit but looked it up and it's relatable, never gonna call myself that tho

 

[carvxx]

Aún no he llegado a esa etapa, sería mi ÚLTIMA opción renunciar a todo, vivir la vida según mi instinto animal y actuar según mis deseos más profundos y largamente guardados.

Espero no tener que hacer eso nunca.

My wet dream is to become a true adam, and invite all the girls in the world to spend a night with me on an island, and then bomb the island with a nuclear bomb, jbg is law

 

[jflmeister]

Haven't reached that stage yet, would be my LAST option, to give up on everything, live life by my animal instinct and act on my deepest long kept desires.

I hope I'll never have to do that.

never crash out bro it's never worth it plus you can at least cope your way out of depression with escapism

 

[Barreton]

I always ended up leaving with their insta. But after a few weeks they start to ghost me

bro they're probably ghosting you because who tf is talking to girls for a few weeks on insta?

You might think they like guys that are super into their personality but they don't reward that behavior, you need to meet up with them quicker

 

[SerafimN]

rira is that you

 

[Squizaz]

bro they're probably ghosting you because who tf is talking to girls for a few weeks on insta?

You might think they like guys that are super into their personality but they don't reward that behavior, you need to meet up with them quicker

I try to meet up but I always get the "I can't this week" "not free for the next 2 weeks" or bullshit like that, they always avoid meeting up.
I try to meet up with them irl in about 2-3 weeks max. I guess I learned from now on, if they keep saying such things I'm blocking them instantly

 

[Squizaz]

rira is that you

 

[Majklos]

Don’t think once you find someone that it’ll solve everything

 

[Squizaz]

never crash out bro it's never worth it plus you can at least cope your way out of depression with escapism

escapism is the only thing that's keeping me sane. But I don't know for how much longer it will help

 

[Barreton]

I try to meet up but I always get the "I can't this week" "not free for the next 2 weeks" or bullshit like that, they always avoid meeting up.
I try to meet up with them irl in about 2-3 weeks max. I guess I learned from now on, if they keep saying such things I'm blocking them instantly

Move on, but blocking them just reinforces that you're butthurt, doesn't matter so much what the woman thinks but watch out for what your own perception of yourself is.

If you ever get to a level where you're texting as many women as women are messaging men, you'll understand it's usually not that deep for why a girl is replying like that. And probably you just don't have a large enough sample size + you're putting too much gravity on it which the girl can feel.

 

[Squizaz]

Don’t think once you find someone that it’ll solve everything

This hurts to accept but it's true

 

[Squizaz]

Move on, but blocking them just reinforces that you're butthurt, doesn't matter so much what the woman thinks but watch out for what your own perception of yourself is.

I haven't blocked a lot of women just the ones where I really fucked up but everyone learns from mistakes.

as many women as women are messaging men

How many would that be

 

[Barreton]

How many would that be

I'd aim for about 30 at once as a good start, see how much time you have for it. Can find them online as well but meeting them in person first is preferable.

 

[agonyv]

dont care about those things
just know about your accomplishments and how you're going to get them in the future. to think of the negative is bringing a downfall to yourself

 

[fucknatty]

Learn PUA game

yea ik PUA shit gets a lot of hate but u can’t deny it works

All you really need to research is shit tests and preselection

 

[Squizaz]

Learn PUA game

yea ik PUA shit gets a lot of hate but u can’t deny it works

All you really need to research is shit tests and preselection

Never heard of it, I googled it and a game came up, do you mean that? Tell me about it

 

[fucknatty]

Never heard of it, I googled it and a game came up, do you mean that? Tell me about it

Pick up artist game, it works if you aren’t a complete fucking loser at least.

 

[Barreton]

Learn PUA game

yea ik PUA shit gets a lot of hate but u can’t deny it works

All you really need to research is shit tests and preselection

he knows what's up

But, if you're not keen on fucking chicks right after meeting them like you (OP) imply you are, don't expect that to happen very often, so temper your expectations.

 

[Squizaz]

Pick up artist game, it works if you aren’t a complete fucking loser at least.

I'll give it a try

 

[fucknatty]

yeah it works a lot

take it from me bro, its worth your time.

although its gonna take a lot of effort if ur an iqlet

 

[fucknatty]

yeah it works a lot

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take it from me bro, its worth your time.

although its gonna take a lot of effort if ur an iqlet.

I'll give it a try

 

[fucknatty]

just be confident

 

[Fatcarl]

Imo get a haircut and start wearing contact lenses, learn a little bit of game on how to escalate after you have approached women and identified choosing signals. You'll be fine, never stress.

 

[Squizaz]

yeah it works a lot

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take it from me bro, its worth your time.

although its gonna take a lot of effort if ur an iqlet

"Just tell me I'm cute", the best I would get if I'd say that would be a "thank you" or that "" to my message. I guess you both already had some type of bonding when you said that.

 

[fucknatty]

"Just tell me I'm cute", the best I would get if I'd say that would be a "thank you" or that "" to my message. I guess you both already had some type of bonding when you said that.

well obviously u need to have a good personality (yes it isn’t cope) or ur gigafucked

i literally compete with MHTNs and come out winning as an MTN because of my texting style and unique personality.

LOOKS ARE NOT EVERYTHING AND UR AN IQLET IF U THINK THEY ARE LITERALLY EVERYTHING

 

[Squizaz]

Imo get a haircut and start wearing contact lenses, learn a little bit of game on how to escalate after you have approached women and identified choosing signals. You'll be fine, never stress.

Long hair looks better on me, and I'm letting it grow till it's to my shoulders. Contact lenses would be a good idea but I'm broke to afford em, might invest tho.

 

[Fatcarl]

Long hair looks better on me, and I'm letting it grow till it's to my shoulders. Contact lenses would be a good idea but I'm broke to afford em, might invest tho.

Maybe ask your barber for advice, regardless of length you always want to have it well groomed

 

[fucknatty]

u dont even look bad my guy u just need some skin care and never ever wear those gay ass glasses again. contacts would ascend u.

 

[Squizaz]

well obviously u need to have a good personality (yes it isn’t cope) or ur gigafucked

i literally compete with MHTNs and come out winning as an MTN because of my texting style and unique personality.

LOOKS ARE NOT EVERYTHING AND UR AN IQLET IF U THINK THEY ARE LITERALLY EVERYTHING

I'll make another thread in ~3 months and update y'all