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Kraken
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The idea that you can improve your social skills, become more likeable or respected, etc is one of the most pervasive blue pill copes. It relies on the incorrect assumption that your social prowess is based off the things you say, when that’s actually not even 20% of it. In reality your social skills = your looks, the way you speak, tiny little mannerisms, posture and movements, etc.
It’s not purely about how attractive you are like a lot of users here believe but it’s still all shit that you have no real control over. At the end of the day people just pick up a vibe from you, which has pretty much nothing to do with the actual content of what you say. If the vibe they get is good you can’t say anything wrong and if the vibe they get is bad you can’t say anything right.
If you have social anxiety or struggle in social situations it’s because you give off bad vibes to people which causes them to react negatively. The constant negative reactions then cause you to have anxiety about interacting with others. And there’s probably nothing you can do to fix it. That’s life, might as well just put garbage bags over your windows and hide away from the rest of society until you die
It’s not purely about how attractive you are like a lot of users here believe but it’s still all shit that you have no real control over. At the end of the day people just pick up a vibe from you, which has pretty much nothing to do with the actual content of what you say. If the vibe they get is good you can’t say anything wrong and if the vibe they get is bad you can’t say anything right.
If you have social anxiety or struggle in social situations it’s because you give off bad vibes to people which causes them to react negatively. The constant negative reactions then cause you to have anxiety about interacting with others. And there’s probably nothing you can do to fix it. That’s life, might as well just put garbage bags over your windows and hide away from the rest of society until you die