Even though I'm a Chadlite (rated 5.5 PSL on average), what seems to be the main cause of my dating problems?

What seems to be the main cause of my dating problems?


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probs aspie even tho i think ur mostly larping/satirical
u reply like an ai chatbot at times tbh
but i still wish u well
No, not larping. Like in what way do you think I reply like some ai chatbot? :p
 
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You already know….. autism sonny Jim I’m in the same situation as you it’s over for both of us. You mogg me though I think
Why do so many people here think I'm an autist? :feelswhy:
 
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In your position I'd abuse my good genetics for ONS with gothy daddy-issues white chicks, but hey that's just me. Good luck bud.
Why them in particular, is it because they're not good LTR material?
 
bro how many likes / matches on tinder? You are truely mogger I dont get how you are no slayer😢
 
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I guess I don't put myself out there too much. I had one ex gf, one lay (from her) but that was it - she was a pos.
yeah i know she was dom and wanted to fuck you in the ass
 
bro how many likes / matches on tinder? You are truely mogger I dont get how you are no slayer😢
85 likes within 24 hours in the south east of England.
 
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I think it's mostly a case of the country you're in not having the sort of women you're after in large enough quantities.

I'd maybe recommend you try Central Asia where there are lots of Muslim women who are like you in that they're not super devout, but still have traditional values. They also often have phenotypes that would appeal to you.

Not really sure how you'd go about Central Asiamaxxing appropriately though. I've never heard of someone trying to date women from that region or locationmaxxing there before.
I think so too sadly but I could try the non South Asian Muslim community.

I think it would be a little dangerous to centralasiamaxx because their fathers would be all over me if I tried to take their daughter :feelskek:

I love their pheno though
 
Islamic culture associated failo, Islamic NAME failo, you not fitting into contemporary Anglo-Saxon society and their way of life, your autism(self-explanatory, no offense), your softness(you want to fuck foids in relationships and not pump and dump them), and your high-inhib behaviour.

You're obviously really good looking, a solid 7-7.5 Chadlite with very good coloring etc and you're 5'10 which is above average in the UK so you don't have any height failos so that's that.
It's so sad that Islam is a failo here whereas Christianity is not, despite the fact both are abrahamix religions (and most young people who are staunch practicers of Christianity these days in the uk are black people who also are taxed just as much as arab and South Asian people).

On a scale of 1 to 10, how soft and high inhib am I?

Thank you, I don't really think my looks are the problem. I think it's more to do with my personality traits and shyness/softness, and the fact my dating style doesn't seem to be compatible with Anglo culture (I still won't change to fit in)
 
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On a scale of 1 to 10, how soft and high inhib am I?
8 in terms of "softness" and high inhibition. You have a very kind outlook on life and that gives me the impression that you are a very soft person in real life and that's holding you back from just fucking whores left and right without any remorse...because you feel bad about hookup culture and only want to have sex in a committed relationship.

It's evident you're also quite reluctant to assimilate to the local culture so that's another self-imposed barrier you have that's preventing you from truly "succeeding"(quotation marks because we all define success differently) in the dating game.
 
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too high inhib

Someone of your looks level, especially arab should have way more of an attitude than you seem to.

Nigga you're 5.5 psl, you have it better than everyone except rugby Chad's. Go out and fuck some bitches

Forget your morals...go and experience life before you decide what is right or wrong
No worries. I think I break the stereotype that "most or all arab men are misogynistic and dominant in relationships" but I've no idea why I didn't grow up to be that person luckily.
I read a lot of stories when I was a little boy and continue to be bookish up to this day. Sometimes when I read these stories or watch shows/films I found it easy to put myself in the character's shoes and feel them out. Maybe that shaped my personality traits as an adult.

I would go out to get laid if it weren't for my morals which I hold so closely to my chest. I hate seeing someone get hurt and as a result of getting laid with girls randomly I'd feel guilty of hurting her feelings after she releases that oxytocin after bonding during sex. Especially being 5.5 PSL.

Sex, for me, is an act of love rewarded to the woman I can easily pour out my heart and soul to because she deserves it.
 
8 in terms of "softness" and high inhibition. You have a very kind outlook on life and that gives me the impression that you are a very soft person in real life and that's holding you back from just fucking whores left and right without any remorse...because you feel bad about hookup culture and only want to have sex in a committed relationship.

It's evident you're also quite reluctant to assimilate to the local culture so that's another self-imposed barrier you have that's preventing you from truly "succeeding"(quotation marks because we all define success differently) in the dating game.
I think the fact I used to read a lot of fiction as a little boy, as well as watching loads of mature, emotionally-charged films while growing up, made my shape my personality traits as an adult. I don't wear my emotions on my sleeves nor am I very expressive; most people say I have a "calm, soothing and warm" presence whatever that means...

I'd say I'm pretty introspective and I tend to "feel" my emotions pretty strongly from within.

See below:
No worries. I think I break the stereotype that "most or all arab men are misogynistic and dominant in relationships" but I've no idea why I didn't grow up to be that person luckily.
I read a lot of stories when I was a little boy and continue to be bookish up to this day. Sometimes when I read these stories or watch shows/films I found it easy to put myself in the character's shoes and feel them out. Maybe that shaped my personality traits as an adult.

I would go out to get laid if it weren't for my morals which I hold so closely to my chest. I hate seeing someone get hurt and as a result of getting laid with girls randomly I'd feel guilty of hurting her feelings after she releases that oxytocin after bonding during sex. Especially being 5.5 PSL.

Sex, for me, is an act of love rewarded to the woman I can easily pour out my heart and soul to because she deserves it.
I can't ever imagine myself pumping and dumping a girl because of the same reason above. I think I tend to romanticise sex often but that's okay. I prefer to reward sex in certain situations when the woman deserves it.

I don't understand why certain cultures can't mix well with Anglo culture but other cultures (eg other European cultures and some afro Caribbean) can

I have some afro Caribbean male friends :feelswah:
 
lmao i love your threads
Thank you!
And also yeah UK and Anglosphere is racist against non anglos... realize you'll never be seen the same a white prettyboy

That's why you have to be Low inhib and a bit intimidating
Aw, that sucks. It's weird how they'd take a darker skinned, brown-eyed, less northern European looking white man over a blue eyed arab, even minorities.

As a prettyboy chaddamlite how would foids view me?
 
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Thoughts?
I feel it's your autism, you should have no probs dating hot hqnp women at all
Your looks, dick etc don't matter for this
 
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Have you not been diagnosed?
Did no teacher ever bring it up your parents?
One did when I was 6, but that teacher seemed to not like me at all.

No, I haven't been and I don't think I have it.
 
I feel it's your autism, you should have no probs dating hot hqnp women at all
Your looks, dick etc don't matter for this
Thank you, on a scale of 1 to 10 how autistic am I?
 
If a girl tried to pull that on me at all, I'd firmly say not, then anally fuck her.
yeah thats the spirit man . girls only respect guys who hurt them ...dont even wait to say no to her . toss her upside down
 
yeah thats the spirit man . girls only respect guys who hurt them ...dont even wait to say no to her . toss her upside down
I wouldn't hurt her, just tell her firmly but kindly.
 
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Thank you, on a scale of 1 to 10 how autistic am I?
I have no idea how you act irl

But on this forum 8/10

Also is your dick 5.5 inches bone pressed?
Did you hot ex gf cum when you used to fuck her and did she ever say anything about it
It's about actual average tbh on the lower end
 
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I have no idea how you act irl

But on this forum 8/10

Also is your dick 5.5 inches bone pressed?
Did you hot ex gf cum when you used to fuck her and did she ever say anything about it
It's about actual average tbh on the lower end
Pretty much the same irl. I'm pretty calm on the surface.

Yeah, bone pressed.

She always came yes, but her attention was more on my balls, adonis belt, abs and ass.
 
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pretty boys have highest desire to JB's but you don't want JB's you want roasties:lul:
 
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Pretty much the same irl. I'm pretty calm on the surface.

Yeah, bone pressed.

She always came yes, but her attention was more on my balls, adonis belt, abs and ass.
Did she mention anything about the size?
Damn you aren't even lean imagine if you had a full six pack how much more she would've came
Would've been soaking
 
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Did she mention anything about the size?
Damn you aren't even lean imagine if you had a full six pack how much more she would've came
Would've been soaking
She never mentioned anything about the size. At the time I had a faintly visible "six pack" but I'd love to get leaner.
 
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She never mentioned anything about the size. At the time I had a faintly visible "six pack" but I'd love to get leaner.
Life fuel bro she was cumming with your dick size
Maybe it's overplayed on this site having a big dick

Ngl though bro knowing I have a big d gives me a weird energy it's cool
 
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Life fuel bro she was cumming with your dick size
Maybe it's overplayed on this site having a big dick

Ngl though bro knowing I have a big d gives me a weird energy it's cool
How long are you?
 
How long are you?
My mid shaft girth is 5.5, my head girth is 5.75 inch and my base girth is 5.75 inch
Length is 7 bone pressed

Very blessed with a thicker head girth than the rest as it's ideal
 
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My mid shaft girth is 5.5, my head girth is 5.75 inch and my base girth is 5.75 inch
Length is 7 bone pressed

Very blessed with a thicker head girth than the rest as it's ideal
I've also got a thick shaft and head girth too. 5.4 mid shaft if I can recall correctly - I measured my dick a few months back.

7 inches is well above average.
 
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I've also got a thick shaft and head girth too. 5.4 mid shaft if I can recall correctly - I measured my dick a few months back.

7 inches is well above average.
Ahhh that means you have nothing to worry about well above average
 
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