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How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
 
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dm me or smth no one is gonna help you if you don't give more information
 
the reason why its hard is because u feel like talking to women is like some fucking boss fight or something, look up exposure therapy. Start small by doing some eye contact practice, search it up on yutub. And then try striking up a conversation with people, like a friend or a cashier. Then just build up, your gonna have to desensitize your brain from anxiety first before trying to be smoooth
 
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its was never bout charisma
(ofc it will play a small impact, but it is far from the main point in the relationship)
 
I've thought about this and honestly the best possible solution I could come up with it:

When you are 18 take a gap year and move to a random city, large enough to where you wouldn't likely run into the same people twice. Get your little income and apartment set up, and then go out in public and start talking to whoever you're drawn to, saying the first thing off the top of your mind. Let your inner conscience just flow, with little to no regard for actual success. Because you're that young most blunders will be excused anyway (being socially misfit retard WONT be in just a few years so get on it young anons...). You also dont have to be honest about your real name or address or anything. You can completely blow up your reputation in that city for the purpose of learning and ironing out your quirks and objectives. You'll also get a much better understanding of where your base actually sits on the social/looks hierarchy, that you couldn't get in the vindictive, competitive, closed off environment of highschool where you never truly know what people's motives are in ignoring or telling you you're "ugly" etc. Anyway, now with this new data, you move back home, or wherever you're going to college, and you can approach girls with much more intention and clarity about what to say and what you want out of the interaction. Call it 'training grounds theory' or wtv
 
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its was never bout charisma
(ofc it will play a small impact, but it is far from the main point in the relationship)
the most important thing is the face?)
 
I've thought about this and honestly the best possible solution I could come up with it:

When you are 18 take a gap year and move to a random city, large enough to where you wouldn't likely run into the same people twice. Get your little income and apartment set up, and then go out in public and start talking to whoever you're drawn to, saying the first thing off the top of your mind. Let your inner conscience just flow, with little to no regard for actual success. Because you're that young most blunders will be excused anyway (being socially misfit retard WONT be in just a few years so get on it young anons...). You also dont have to be honest about your real name or address or anything. You can completely blow up your reputation in that city for the purpose of learning and ironing out your quirks and objectives. You'll also get a much better understanding of where your base actually sits on the social/looks hierarchy, that you couldn't get in the vindictive, competitive, closed off environment of highschool where you never truly know what people's motives are in ignoring or telling you you're "ugly" etc. Anyway, now with this new data, you move back home, or wherever you're going to college, and you can approach girls with much more intention and clarity about what to say and what you want out of the interaction. Call it 'training grounds theory' or wtv
Bro, did you really write all of this yourself? Thank you so much. I'll definitely take it into account.
 
the most important thing is the face?)
height, face, frame and dick
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How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
socialmaxx there are alot of guides regarding this
 
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dm me or smth no one is gonna help you if you don't give more information
wsg ur dms / profile is private I can't dm you and I wanted to ask something
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
by being attractive
 
wsg ur dms / profile is private I can't dm you and I wanted to ask something
hey it shouldnt be private, just click on my name here and click start chat, but ill msg u
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
you dont
 
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How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
Looks are everything; if you're good-looking, you'll have a better chance of approaching them easily.
 
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How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
game is not gonna help you bro. there's a reason why your charisma is low, there's a reason why your shy. :blackpill:. watch rehab room on YT, maybe you'll learn stuff. if you we're 6'5 and good looking would you be shy?
 
dont do it unless youre htn+ lmao
 
make sure you’re naked
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
just rape them :ZZoomer:
 
have your flaccid penis out
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
it was never about the charisma, just get to htn and take some pregab
 
have you ever cold approached one?
but yeah have been rejected like 10 times before its so brutal getting rejected even tho they are straight ltbs
 
How do I approach girls? How can I improve my charisma? What should I talk about with a girl? What should I do if I'm shy talking to girls and even approaching them? Why is it so hard? Please give me some tips or links to guides.
dont, the roi is so bad. to save yourself from low self esteem just use social media (not dating apps)
 
game is not gonna help you bro. there's a reason why your charisma is low, there's a reason why your shy. :blackpill:. watch rehab room on YT, maybe you'll learn stuff. if you we're 6'5 and good looking would you be shy?
You dont, they're all evil
 
but yeah have been rejected like 10 times before its so brutal getting rejected even tho they are straight ltbs
thats exactly what im saying lmao, the humiliation is brutal and will kill your confidence. especially in the club where the competition is through the roof
 

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