how to fix confidence problems

[gandylite.]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

 

[rj_0616]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

Bump
I struggle with this too

 

[Valkyrjaj]

Try to max every area of your looks. Be a bit cocky. Try to be social.

 

[rj_0616]

Try to max every area of your looks. Be a bit cocky. Try to be social.

All that just for one normie to make a comment that makes u go back to not speaking until spoken to

 

[Valkyrjaj]

All that just for one normie to make a comment that makes u go back to not speaking until spoken to

Huh??? You might think im stupid but I dont get it

 

[Matrix88]

What's your rating and height? If ur MTN+ and avg height then stop being a pussy

Don't make me mad bro, us LTN manlets really suffer from what ur saying

 

[Orion]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

the way is u just gotta accept that ur not ugly and nobodys like u and analyzes every single flaw in ur face
at first i was embarrassed and insecure asf around my gf or friends but i just had to realize they really dont give a shit cause im not sub 5
just accept it its the only way to not be a miserable insecure antisocial chud
goodluck boyos

 

[foidlovingmtn]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

dealt with this my whole life
high inhib, learn to become a jester, take drugs or deal with it

 

[nopeguy8]

I got the same issue bro

But it’s mainly because of my petite frame, because I’m really skinny

Being a twink out in public and seeing women more built than you is the biggest confidence killer on some days

Honestly why I hate going outside

 

[narceye]

Were you unattractive growing up? did you receive negative reinforcement? Your insecurities at the developing age will be a part of you for the rest of your life. You can counter this by getting positive reinforcement. That should help you put most of your insecurities in the past. You just have to overcome this. I recommend you go out with your friends the next time. Good luck.