I feel like nowadays “NT” is just being thrown around as a dog whistle for feminime brain (PRETTYBOYS comment deserves a thread)

[Deleted member 16346]

Too generalized. Factors like intelligence, extroversion/introversion, social skills all play a role as well.

Every nerd is non NT by that definition in OP yet every nerd has zero masculinity. So that statement makes no sense.
Meanwhile the high T college jocks are NT af.



I think NT means more if someone is capable of participating in normal human social interactions without acting weird.
Are you non NT if you have non mainstream opinions for example? I wouldn’t say that. As long as you are able to act normal among others you are NT.

yeah totally agree

Imo NT isn't a style of feeling but rather a way of acting. If you can bond and interact with other people in a way that has them considering you their equal then you're NT. The male brain is naturally aspie and has weird thought processes but it's easy to hide.

 

[Indo_Chad]

Lol this isn't about IQ at all. It's experiences lol. Proof you have very little. I just know, I just know/

Shut the fuck up clown, leave me alone and find another hobby

 

[Lihito]

No TLDR: if you can't read this, you won't be able to put in effort to build relationships and will always have a small social circle of only people who are already similar to you.

yeah makes sense

no dumbo , its my height and low dymorphism coupled with short face and bad eye area

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Cringiest thread and replies of the month

 

[Deleted member 18301]

Women are more orderly than men and typically tend to think in concrete terms.

Men on general have better attention to detail and find it easier to think in abstract

There is definitely a masculine and feminine brain

Yeah that’s true, but I don’t understand how the fact that there are some men who have a more “feminine” brain let’s say it just genetic wise without any external factors like (parenting/society exposure and so on) shape their personality based on that and are willing to be more “open” to today’s society norms

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

This is something i think most of the forum misunderstands in general.

So the essential ingredients to being 'NT' & popular is being high in agreeableness + being low in neuroticism

Thinking about how the other person is feeling and then responding in ways that are not geared towards reality but instead geared towards making the other person feel good about themselves is a key life skill.

It's free to give someone good feelings and in return they will gift you with favours , loyalty and social status.

Of course, this sort of thinking comes much more naturally to the more socially inclined gender, women.
And I'm certain any data of personality tests will show woman as far more agreeable on average than men.

Being agreeable means sometimes letting shit slide, that would make a more alpha red piller chimp out
It means going out of your way to be conscious of how others are feeling, making sure people are not feeling excluded from the group, making sure people feel heard and valued etc.

This doesn't really fit with the tough alpha masculinity men are usually bombarded with, and is associated with women which is why i think people here calling it the feminine brain and calling autistic behaviour super masculine.

Which btw is funny as fuck because autistic people are neurotic as fuck and being low in neuroticism is a key trait to being seen as manly be women.
Girls can afford to be neurotic and worry about stupid shit, but if you ever show that side of you to a woman she will think you're weak.

When talking to a girl, the "more masculine brain" dude is going to be results focused and tunnel vision on the result her wants, her having sex with him. Plus depending on his aspieness/neuroticism he will have all sorts of weird thoughts clouding up his mind at the same time. If this type of guy doesn't get the result he wants, sex, from the girl he might not even ever speak to her again

The "more feminine brain" dude when talking to a girl is going to be focused on making her feel comfortable, conscious of if she is having fun and tunnel vision on just being likeable. These guys will smile way more, they will listen to what she is actually saying more rather than waiting for their turn to speak, they will be more open with their gestures etc and being low in neuroticism they will appear calm, instead of nervous or creepy.

One guy is bringing positive energy or as girls like to call it "good vibes" so even if she doesnt like your looks, or for any reason doesnt want to hook up. Its still a win because she likes you as a person now.

I would describe what you want to be as Benevolent Masculinity you try to raise people up and be get them to be loyal to you.
however of course the issue with this is you could look too soft, if you don't bitchslap people down when they try to test you.

But heres the beauty of it. Because you have been fostering relationships with both men and women and have been considerate to their feelings, you are a person they like being around because you never bitch and moan about life and always make them feel better about themselves and less insecure.

When someone does try to test you, the entire social group will rally your defence so you don't even need to do anything. There's no bigger mog in life than the entire group telling you they all prefer someone else to you.




So i used to hang around with the UK eqivalant of frat bros all the time.
While yes, you're correct they can form deep deep bonds with the boys
and in a party scene like unis their behaviour is acceptable and so they can succeed socially.

However, Frat guys who don't have high agreeableness and low neuroticism will struggle in social situations that aren't a house party.

These are the ones that are seen as douchebags and girls see them as having a shitty personality.
They can hook up at uni sure, but no quality girl will date these guys.

Of course there are Frat boy type who do have high agreeableness and low neuroticism, and these guys are seen by the girls as "not being like those other guys" or "one of the good ones"
They tend to end up at the top of the hierarchy of guys since they are the ones with extended females in their social circle and can bring chicks to a party.

Also once out of the uni binge drinking culture these guys leave the other frat guys in the dust because they can adapt to differing social situations. You'll see this as you get older and societal expectations change.


No TLDR: if you can't read this, you won't be able to put in effort to build relationships and will always have a small social circle of only people who are already similar to you.

Not to blow smoke up your batty, but I'd recommend you make a thread and post this as it prob needs to go in the BOB section.

You have a 60+ body count so are qualified to speak widely on this.

 

[Indo_Chad]

Not to blow smoke up your batty, but I'd recommend you make a thread and post this as it prob needs to go in the BOB section.

You have a 60+ body count so are qualified to speak widely on this.

Agreed, my experiences matches what he just wrote. 100% a BOB post

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Shut the fuck up clown, leave me alone and find another hobby

'Leave me alone' hahahahaa.

Drop the Elliot Rodger act.

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

very IQ and and I agree with every word

Really appreciate this input. Insightful af.

The delicious irony is, i know most people here won't bother to read it or will deny it

When following what i said would improve their chances with girls way more than getting 1% more lean or fucking taking a hammer to your own face to try to grow bones JFL

 

[Deleted member 21628]

Cringiest thread and replies of the month

 

[Indo_Chad]

'Leave me alone' hahahahaa.

Drop the Elliot Rodger act.

No I just cant give enough fucks about a 30 year old pajeet tagging me everywhere

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Agreed, my experiences matches what he just wrote. 100% a BOB post

How many bodies, age, height, face/10, dick size, frame size car, profession etc? Lol

The delicious irony is, i know most people here won't bother to read it or will deny it

When following what i said would improve their chances with girls way more than getting 1% more lean or fucking taking a hammer to your own face to try to grow bones JFL

Just make the thread man. Helping a small handful of people is better than helping none. Besides you can't let that high-effort post go to waste on this thread that will just disappear over a bit of time.

 

[Indo_Chad]

How many bodies, age, height, face/10, dick size, frame size car, profession etc? Lol

Sure

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

No I just cant give enough fucks about a 30 year old pajeet tagging me everywhere

You see? LOL @ItsOVERBuddyBoyos

When they have nothing; age and race. Yet says he's neurotypical lmao

Meanwhile you're 32 lol hahaha aw man. This place is like no other

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Sure

Go on then.....

 

[Indo_Chad]

You see? LOL @ItsOVERBuddyBoyos

When they have nothing; age and race. Yet says he's neurotypical lmao

Meanwhile you're 32 lol hahaha aw man. This place is like no other

Stupid clown I am writing everything in pms?

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Stupid clown I am writing everything in pms?

Ok hit me with your stats and photos in pm.

If you don't quadruple mine at 6'1, insta and NT maxxed I'mma be disappointed

 

[alriodai]

This is something i think most of the forum misunderstands in general.

So the essential ingredients to being 'NT' & popular is being high in agreeableness + being low in neuroticism

Thinking about how the other person is feeling and then responding in ways that are not geared towards reality but instead geared towards making the other person feel good about themselves is a key life skill.

It's free to give someone good feelings and in return they will gift you with favours , loyalty and social status.

Of course, this sort of thinking comes much more naturally to the more socially inclined gender, women.
And I'm certain any data of personality tests will show woman as far more agreeable on average than men.

Being agreeable means sometimes letting shit slide, that would make a more alpha red piller chimp out
It means going out of your way to be conscious of how others are feeling, making sure people are not feeling excluded from the group, making sure people feel heard and valued etc.

This doesn't really fit with the tough alpha masculinity men are usually bombarded with, and is associated with women which is why i think people here calling it the feminine brain and calling autistic behaviour super masculine.

Which btw is funny as fuck because autistic people are neurotic as fuck and being low in neuroticism is a key trait to being seen as manly be women.
Girls can afford to be neurotic and worry about stupid shit, but if you ever show that side of you to a woman she will think you're weak.

When talking to a girl, the "more masculine brain" dude is going to be results focused and tunnel vision on the result her wants, her having sex with him. Plus depending on his aspieness/neuroticism he will have all sorts of weird thoughts clouding up his mind at the same time. If this type of guy doesn't get the result he wants, sex, from the girl he might not even ever speak to her again

The "more feminine brain" dude when talking to a girl is going to be focused on making her feel comfortable, conscious of if she is having fun and tunnel vision on just being likeable. These guys will smile way more, they will listen to what she is actually saying more rather than waiting for their turn to speak, they will be more open with their gestures etc and being low in neuroticism they will appear calm, instead of nervous or creepy.

One guy is bringing positive energy or as girls like to call it "good vibes" so even if she doesnt like your looks, or for any reason doesnt want to hook up. Its still a win because she likes you as a person now.

I would describe what you want to be as Benevolent Masculinity you try to raise people up and be get them to be loyal to you.
however of course the issue with this is you could look too soft, if you don't bitchslap people down when they try to test you.

But heres the beauty of it. Because you have been fostering relationships with both men and women and have been considerate to their feelings, you are a person they like being around because you never bitch and moan about life and always make them feel better about themselves and less insecure.

When someone does try to test you, the entire social group will rally your defence so you don't even need to do anything. There's no bigger mog in life than the entire group telling you they all prefer someone else to you.




So i used to hang around with the UK eqivalant of frat bros all the time.
While yes, you're correct they can form deep deep bonds with the boys
and in a party scene like unis their behaviour is acceptable and so they can succeed socially.

However, Frat guys who don't have high agreeableness and low neuroticism will struggle in social situations that aren't a house party.

These are the ones that are seen as douchebags and girls see them as having a shitty personality.
They can hook up at uni sure, but no quality girl will date these guys.

Of course there are Frat boy type who do have high agreeableness and low neuroticism, and these guys are seen by the girls as "not being like those other guys" or "one of the good ones"
They tend to end up at the top of the hierarchy of guys since they are the ones with extended females in their social circle and can bring chicks to a party.

Also once out of the uni binge drinking culture these guys leave the other frat guys in the dust because they can adapt to differing social situations. You'll see this as you get older and societal expectations change.


No TLDR: if you can't read this, you won't be able to put in effort to build relationships and will always have a small social circle of only people who are already similar to you.

I'd like to add the more positive attention you receive from women and the more secure you are about your looks the more you willl beacting more naturally agreeable to women and people in general and have low neurotiicsm

most people here are insecure about their looks and try to act more "alpha" and be more non comfomist, that's why they're all homophobic racist and all the other bullshit for no reason

 

[AlexBrown84]

Shit thread from a masc coping indian

What’s new

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

I'd like to add the more positive attention you receive from women and the more secure you are about your looks the more you willl beacting more naturally agreeable to women and people in general and have low neurotiicsm

most people here are insecure about their looks and try to act more "alpha" and be more non comfomist, that's why they're all homophobic racist and all the other bullshit for no reason

I think there is a balance though and that society has now become too overly progressive and liberal. Far too much so imo. You can't say anything now a days, even if it's reasonable if it flirts with being POTENTIALLY 'misinterpreted'. This started on the internet, but I am seeing it transcend into real life. You have to say things in a way that no one can misconstrue and / or manipulatively play with context.

Andrew Tate case in hand.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

most people here are insecure about their looks and try to act more "alpha" and be more non comfomist, that's why they're all homophobic racist and all the other bullshit for no reason

Exhibit A of prototypical incel's coping strategy

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

How to be popular and have girls love your personality

A lot of the forum seems to not understand social circle maxxing and social dynamics as a whole. Having a good social life, and other people care about you is one of the key pillars to having a happy life. This is long but if you are someone who : - Only has a few friends / or no close...

looksmax.org

 

[Deleted member 18301]

I'd like to add the more positive attention you receive from women and the more secure you are about your looks the more you willl beacting more naturally agreeable to women and people in general and have low neurotiicsm

most people here are insecure about their looks and try to act more "alpha" and be more non comfomist, that's why they're all homophobic racist and all the other bullshit for no reason

What he summarized was that it’s good to make yourself like able by other people, aka you force yourself to act a certain way so you impress/make other ppl accept you ( best example was with the girl even if she is not attracted to you she will get good vibes from you) like how much of a clown can you be
The most cringe part was the ppl defending you cuz you’re “such a nice guy” when shit goes down, is this for real?
You should embrace your personality and don’t try to play smth you aren’t meant to be

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Lol this isn't about IQ at all. It's experiences lol. Proof you have very little. I just know, I just know/

He knows more about you ngl. I can just tell. He can make proper inferences most of the time.

 

[Deleted member 19576]

,

 

[BoneDensity]

Stupid clown I am writing everything in pms?

are you 32 years old?

 

[Deleted member 19576]

I think there is a balance though and that society has now become too overly progressive and liberal. Far too much so imo. You can't say anything now a days, even if it's reasonable if it flirts with being POTENTIALLY 'misinterpreted'. This started on the internet, but I am seeing it transcend into real life. You have to say things in a way that no one can misconstrue and / or manipulatively play with context.

Andrew Tate case in hand.

Wh

Tate said women should “bare [sic] some responsibility” for rape. Most people that are banned from social media are usually bullies, People that speared hate/ violence with their words. Tate is bad example.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

are you 32 years old?

Hes 21yo, nt and Mogger

 

[BoneDensity]

Hes 21yo, nt and Mogger

Good. Would be ridiculous for a 32 year old man to write that kind of stuff.

 

[Over]

He is way too humble to post this for himself so I will.

He nailed exactly what being supposedly 'neurotypical' means. The female brain is not the norm amongst both genders.

View attachment 1884133

ye bro you are just free thinker high prenatal T masc brain mogger, not asocial autist with next to zero smalltalk skills

 

[alriodai]

What he summarized was that it’s good to make yourself like able by other people, aka you force yourself to act a certain way so you impress/make other ppl accept you ( best example was with the girl even if she is not attracted to you she will get good vibes from you) like how much of a clown can you be
The most cringe part was the ppl defending you cuz you’re “such a nice guy” when shit goes down, is this for real?
You should embrace your personality and don’t try to play smth you aren’t meant to be

the thing about this thread is that you sholdn't force anything on anybody

i'm naturally like what OP describes in this thread, and i don't wnana change that for other ppl

 

[Deleted member 18301]

the thing about this thread is that you sholdn't force anything on anybody

i'm naturally like what OP describes in this thread, and i don't wnana change that for other ppl

Exactly the intention behind its what matters, if you’re like that naturally than you should stick to that

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

ye bro you are just free thinker high prenatal T masc brain mogger, not asocial autist with next to zero smalltalk skills

The OP wasn't typed by myself. Of course a more socially adjusted person would have quickly picked up on that and/or aimed the comment at the person who did type it.

 

[Over]

The OP wasn't typed by myself. Of course a more socially adjusted person would have quickly picked up on that and/or aimed the comment at the person who did type it.

you mog me

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Hes 21yo, nt and Mogger

You're 24, very aspie and a filled with filler.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

are you 32 years old?

No @ItsOVERBuddyBoyos is 32

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

He knows more about you ngl. I can just tell. He can make proper inferences most of the time.

Wise word:

Drop your girly favouritism tribal bullshit

Ive never portrayed myself to be a slayer. I am humble, modest and very open minded. I don't compete on this platform. I don't use it, unlike you, to boost my social self-esteem. It's clear this is what you are doing. We are just grown men having a discussion.

ItsOver is 32 years of age too. He is an extrovert and super sociable with a 60+ body count and so it would only make sense that he knew more. It's not a slight on me that he does and the fact you mention it like it is shows how shallow your mind is.

Get over yourself, no one gives 2 fucks about your ascension; A) because you're too pussy to show yourself on the site and B) because you have the personality of a cardboard box. Let it go now and stop dropping into my threads and making cheap little jabs. It shows you as disingenuous and still very infantile.

 

[Deleted member 19576]

This what NT IS.... You are handsome. You can do anything stupid as you want and girls will not judge you. If you are ugly you are not NT. Not matter how good social skill you have. You will never be NT if you are not good looking. Its just that simple .

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

This what NT IS.... You are handsome. You can do anything stupid as you want and girls will not judge you. If you are ugly you are not NT. Not matter how good social skill you have. You will never be NT if you are not good looking. Its just that simple .

Wrong. Here is proof just alone.

 

[the BULL]

Keep writing essays about "NT"
Girls will fucking mold their personality to yours when they like you, if you don't like NT lifestyle there's no purpose in trying to change your brain chemistry. NT activities are copes for ppl with no purpose in life

 

[Deleted member 4430]

You're 24, very aspie and a filled with filler.

25

Thats why full beard mogs on me despite decent bones. Im 25

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

25

Wow he is 25

Lol simply 5 years younger than me. That is insane lol

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Keep writing essays about "NT"
Girls will fucking mold their personality to yours when they like you, if you don't like NT lifestyle there's no purpose in trying to change your brain chemistry. NT activities are copes for ppl with no purpose in life

How to be popular and have girls love your personality

A lot of the forum seems to not understand social circle maxxing and social dynamics as a whole. Having a good social life, and other people care about you is one of the key pillars to having a happy life. This is long but if you are someone who : - Only has a few friends / or no close...

looksmax.org

Debate in this thread you jackass.

 

[the BULL]

How to be popular and have girls love your personality

A lot of the forum seems to not understand social circle maxxing and social dynamics as a whole. Having a good social life, and other people care about you is one of the key pillars to having a happy life. This is long but if you are someone who : - Only has a few friends / or no close...

looksmax.org

Debate in this thread you jackass.

Bruh i couldn't care less lol don't you understand that you're no different from the Red pill fags
I want to be liked for Who i AM not what people around me EXPECT ME to be according to their criterion. If those people don't like me for what i am, they are not my people, Is not that difficult no?? And the fact that you Need to be NT to get girls Is cope. There's the pool of introvert / autenthic girls which are my type.

 

[Deleted member 19576]

Wrong. Here is proof just alone.

View attachment 1884433

I have been watching Finnish big brother. ALL ugly guys are rejected by women and barely any people talk with them even when they had good social skills. Only average tall guy and Handsome manlet get attention and support from women. Handsome guy is very childish and he has brain of peanut. His social skill are level of children. He touches women and nobody tell them to stop etc.. They just laugh with him and there are like two girls that have show love interested on him. No matter what this idiot manlet good looking fella do.. They still like this peanut butter head. The tall fat ass ugly guy was consired creepy when he tried to make conservation with girls in the house.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Bruh i couldn't care less lol don't you understand that you're no different from the Red pill fags
I want to be liked for Who i AM not what people around me EXPECT ME to be according to their criterion. If those people don't like me for what i am, they are not my people, Is not that difficult no?? And the fact that you Need to be NT to get girls Is cope. There's the pool of introvert / autenthic girls which are my type.

Do you really think somebody that doesn't care would make this brand of thread:

i cringe so hard at retards who think they can "NTmax"

do you enjoy watching sports with friends, going for city walks in the centre, going to restaurants, taking pics of each other every time you do something, every fucking day?? if not you AREN'T nt, simple as that, you can't force yourself to like things NT like, it's not much different to...

looksmax.org

Actions > Words

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

I have been watching Finnish big brother. ALL ugly guys are rejected by women and barely any people talk with them even when they had good social skills. Only average tall guy and Handsome manlet get attention and support from women. Handsome guy is very childish and he has brain of peanut. His social skill are level of children. He touches women and nobody tell them to stop etc.. They just laugh with him and there are like two girls that have show love interested on him. No matter what this idiot manlet good looking fella do.. They still like this peanut butter head.

This NT sort of stuff is obviously for at least average looking men. Nobody ever implied you could be sub 4 in the looks department son lol. The black pill is a threshold.

 

[the BULL]

Do you really think somebody that doesn't care would make this brand of thread:

i cringe so hard at retards who think they can "NTmax"

do you enjoy watching sports with friends, going for city walks in the centre, going to restaurants, taking pics of each other every time you do something, every fucking day?? if not you AREN'T nt, simple as that, you can't force yourself to like things NT like, it's not much different to...

looksmax.org

Actions > Words

?? I cringe at the retards that think they can force themselves to like things they don't like to do in order to please girls.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

?? I cringe at the retards that think they can force themselves to like things they don't like to do in order to please girls.

You are bitter and it shows.



You can't hide it, no matter how hard you try.