I have stopped fapping for almost 3 years straight. GTFIH!!!!!

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I stopped fapping after realizing that using a male hand to get yourself off is gay asf. If you masturbate after this with your hands then you know what you are.

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WOW. no fapping for 3 years. (the longest i didn't fap after puberty, was maybe 1 month)

Can you answer these things?

1. Did it benefit you to never fap? And in what ways?
2. Did it have negative consequences? So yes, what/which?
3. Do you have low sex drive, or are not very healthy wich causes low libido or something like that.?
3. Did you do crazy shit due to extreme horniness ? (this one I fear most, because I know 1 dude that did no-fap and he ruined a portion of his life because due to his horniness he went into a relationship with a nutthead stipper).
 
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no no fapping for my circumcision
 
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WOW. no fapping for 3 years.

Can you answer these things?

1. Did it benefit you to never fap? And in what ways?
2. Did it have negative consequences? So yes, what/which?
3. Did you do crazy shit due to extreme horniness ? (this one I fear most, because I know 1 dude that did no-fap and he ruined a portion of his life because due to his horniness he went into a relationship with a nutthead stipper).
I replaced it with sex. Instead of fapping I used my girlfriend instead, some guys will have a girl willing to fuck them but they will choose to watch and fap to cuck porn instead.

My confidence went sky-high, I was too busy focusing on fucking the girl I was talking to and didn't give two shits about her opinion of me. Horniness = low inhib state of being.
 
What an achievement
 
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What an achievement
Just tell yourself that using your big, grubby hairy hands is gay, fapping addiction halted (assuming that you're straight).
 
I replaced it with sex. Instead of fapping I used my girlfriend instead
You never had a dry spell period?
Or where you always in relationship, or had women to fuck?

Not fapping is legit, when you have a sexual release. Like you had. But also if you don't have that, you think???
I tried not fapping once, and lasted about 1 month. But I did it at a time/period in my life, when I chose celibacy due to Buddhist religion practise believe. I had to deal with getting fucking irritated; which actually is also a motivator. I can get the low-inhib thing, because the irritation causes low inhib.

My confidence went sky-high, I was too busy focusing on fucking the girl I was talking to and didn't give two shits about her opinion of me. Horniness = low inhib state of being.
I agree. And likely you also gave her good sex, because there is no better sex then low inhib state type of sex. For both. At least, that is my experience. High inhib sex, sucks.
 
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You never had a dry spell period?
Or where you always in relationship, or had women to fuck?

Not fapping is legit, when you have a sexual release. Like you had. But also if you don't have that, you think???
I tried not fapping once, and lasted about 1 month. But I did it at a time, when I chose celibacy due to Buddhist religion practise believe. I had to deal with getting fucking irritated; which actually is also a motivator. I can get the low-inhib thing, because the irritation causes low inhib.


I agree. And likely you also gave her good sex, because there is no better sex then low inhib state type of sex. For both. At least, that is my experience. High inhib sex, sucks.
Always in a relationship since I was 16 (girlfriend is 4 years older than me),still with the same girl. I fuck girls on the side though, or did.

I'd still not fap due to me using a male hand to get myself off, it disgusts me. The only object I fuck are foids.
 
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Always in a relationship since I was 16 (girlfriend is 4 years older than me),still with the same girl. I fuck girls on the side though, or did.

I'd still not fap due to me using a male hand to get myself off, it disgusts me. The only object I fuck are foids.
you cheated? Lol
 
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you cheated? Lol
Morality doesn't exist, but I got her permission to do it, so lol. I've known her since we were children, so we kind of have an odd relationship.
 
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Morality doesn't exist, but I got her permission to do it, so lol. I've known her since we were children, so we kind of have an odd relationship.
she’s cheated as well then, there is no way a woman would stay with you and let you cheat on her with all the options they have
 
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Always in a relationship since I was 16 (girlfriend is 4 years older than me),still with the same girl. I fuck girls on the side though, or did.
I can get/see, that being on not fapping. Makes it more prone, to also have side fucks besides the relationship.

If you really wanna test, challange or punish or push yourself, on the not fapping thing? Go on a sex strike for like a month, and also do not fapping. I guestimate it will be hard for you. Maybe an interesting experiment, if you ever wanna try.
you cheated? Lol
That's only the case if he promised to be monogamous with her, or it was/is implied there would be monogamy.
 
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Suicide fuel post most men sre sexless and have to fap
 
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she’s cheated as well then, there is no way a woman would stay with you and let you cheat on her with all the options they have
She's high T, so it means she's somewhat human. I may break-up with her anyway due to being like an older sister figure, lmao.
 
She's high T, so it means she's somewhat human.
yeah but she has still probably cheated bro. Foids wouldn’t even let O Pry cheat
 
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Always assume they've cheated already.

Only time will tell.
i couldn’t stay with a girl who cheated.. it would make me feel so shit

but the chances are, 90% she has bro. I would try to find out if I were u, but not asking her straight up
 
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yeah but she has still probably cheated bro. Foids wouldn’t even let O Pry cheat
Though there aren't many good-looking guys around, except my friends (I never take them near her).
 
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I got her because she's against tinder and social media in general, she's Catholic.
Weird thing is that she acts like a dude (stoic) but looks feminine as fuck, a true anomaly. I think I screwed up by fucking other women, because I always kind of wanted to LTR her tbh.



I feel like busting a nut now, see you guys on pornhub, gonna go watch some "White Middle-aged Husband Gets Fucked In The Ass By BBC As His Wife Watches!!!!!" videos. Ciao!
 
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Yea bro its easy when you have a girlfriend.

Its like when a millionare says just quit your job, its time waste
 
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she’s cheated as well then, there is no way a woman would stay with you and let you cheat on her with all the options they have
yeah but she has still probably cheated bro. Foids wouldn’t even let O Pry cheat
i couldn’t stay with a girl who cheated.. it would make me feel so shit

but the chances are, 90% she has bro. I would try to find out if I were u, but not asking her straight up
You're to concerned, about cheating.
It's an ego thing, that you better get rid of to a large extend.


It should only matter if a chick cheats, when you're a fool that married some woman and she can take all your shit. Or when you as a dude are 100% monogamous by choice, and you are betabuxxing the shit out of her and spend a shitone of money or that chick.
In both cases, the man is a fool anyways, to a large extend. imo

Otherwise, it shoudn't be a internal bother for a man, if a woman fucks other men.
It should then be used by a man, to be able to also fuck side chicks. And 100% avoid any type of betabuxxing, bevause you can say she doesn't give commitment so there is no room for you to give financial/beta buxx commitment

I agree with Patrice O'neal on this one.

 
I got her because she's against tinder and social media in general, she's Catholic.
Weird thing is that she acts like a dude (stoic) but looks feminine as fuck, a true anomaly. I think I screwed up by fucking other women, because I always kind of wanted to LTR her tbh.



I feel like busting a nut now, see you guys on pornhub, gonna go watch some "White Middle-aged Husband Gets Fucked In The Ass By BBC As His Wife Watches!!!!!" videos. Ciao!
i thought you are already in an LTR?
You're to concerned, about cheating.
It's an ego thing, that you better get rid of to a large extend.


It should only matter if a chick cheats, when you're a fool that married some woman and she can take all your shit. Or when you as a dude are 100% monogamous by choice, and you are betabuxxing the shit out of her and spend a shitone of money or that chick.
In both cases, the man is a fool anyways, to a large extend. imo

Otherwise, it shoudn't be a internal bother for a man, if a woman fucks other men.
It should then be used by a man, to be able to also fuck side chicks. And 100% avoid any type of betabuxxing, bevause you can say she doesn't give commitment so there is no room for you to give financial/beta buxx commitment

I agree with Patrice O'neal on this one.


i could never forgive a woman for cheating...
 
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it is easy if you have girl to fuck.
 
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i could never forgive a woman for cheating...
imo, it's a weakness.

because, imo it shows a man is:
- to much invested and handing over power to the woman (to control his sense of self esteem and ego).

Women are sexual beings. And women get quicker bored from fucking the same dick; then most men get tired from fucking the same pussy.
Monogamy should only be a big concern, when you need to stay together for .. years for the sake of raising the kids.
A woman that fucks other man, for me is like: Jackpot. Now, I can go on easy mode, because you can always trow back at her that she doesn't deserve commitment and investment, because she's not exclusive with you. So, it's a cheapest type of reltionship out there.
 
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You're to concerned, about cheating.
It's an ego thing, that you better get rid of to a large extend.


It should only matter if a chick cheats, when you're a fool that married some woman and she can take all your shit. Or when you as a dude are 100% monogamous by choice, and you are betabuxxing the shit out of her and spend a shitone of money or that chick.
In both cases, the man is a fool anyways, to a large extend. imo

Otherwise, it shoudn't be a internal bother for a man, if a woman fucks other men.
It should then be used by a man, to be able to also fuck side chicks. And 100% avoid any type of betabuxxing, bevause you can say she doesn't give commitment so there is no room for you to give financial/beta buxx commitment

I agree with Patrice O'neal on this one.


But what about wanting to settle down (which I want to after a while)?
I'd have to agree with @turkproducer on this one.
 
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But what about wanting to settle down (which I want to after a while)?
I'd have to agree with @turkproducer on this one.
Define: "settle down"??

The old ways, of being together for 50 years with 1 partner untill death; is game over/history (largely).
I see only 1 reason to settle down, for like 5-10 years; monogamous. And that is when you have a child/children with a woman. Then the first 5 years after birth of that child, both you all focus should be mainly on giving that child the best possible start of it's life. So there shouldn't even be time for fucking around with other randoms.

But then after like the first 5-6 years of a child life. If you both did well. The child should turn out fine (if healthy), andthe child his core programming is finished and done pretty much. Then after that, a seperation or side fucking again shouldn't be a massive issue, or have massive impact on the child *that it could do, in it's first 5 years after birth).

source how the first 5 years of a child are crucial (first 5 years of a human life = everything from the nurture/environmental factor).
If a child gets fucked up in the first 5 years, it's game over. And if the raising is done well in the first 5 years, then the child will be set for life in a positive way (nurture/environmental factor) and will turn out fine (if genes are also good/decent):
- http://www.factsforlifeglobal.org/03/
- https://azpbs.org/2017/11/early-childhood-brain-development-lifelong-impact/
- https://www.cde.ca.gov/sp/cd/re/caqdevelopment.asp
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"The first five years of a child's life are fundamentally important. They are the foundation that shapes children's future health, happiness, growth, development and learning achievement at school, in the family and community, and in life in general."
" Early experiences provide the base for the brain's organizational development and functioning throughout life. They have a direct impact on how children develop learning skills as well as social and emotional abilities."
"The first five years are especially crucial for physical, intellectual, and social-emotional development. "
"Studies have shown that babies and young children who grow up in safe, stable and nurturing environments, with lots of positive interaction with parents and caring adults, will go on to be healthier and more successful in school and in life. Unfortunately, the opposite is true as well. Young children who are deprived of caring interaction do not develop as many positive brain connections. "
"90 Percent of a Child’s Brain Develops by Age 5"
 
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Define: "settle down"??

This is my ideal relationship, "The old ways, of being together for 50 years with 1 partner untill death; is game over/history (largely)".
Getting a religious girl is the best bet if I want to get that type of relationship. That or I move to a Muslim nation, very unlikely.
 
Getting a religious girl is the best bet if I want to get that type of relationship. That or I move to a Muslim nation, very unlikely.
that might be true.
Or a regular non-religuous woman, with a decent amount of restraint, and not a massive body count. Where you 2 make the agreement, to 100% focus on the child for the time period of 5 years (so no time waisting on fucking other randoms and stuff like that). And after that period, to make everything and the relationship more free again, if one of the 2 wants that.

The big risk with reloguous women. Is that they aim for marriage often. And then after the children are older again. They might lose their religion or whatever. And then divorce your ass, and:
* get all or alot of your buildup possessions/wealth;
* get alimony (ex partner income support) that you have to pay for years (or lifetime in some bad states/countries);
* get very high child-support (much more then needs for raising kids) that you have to pay for years to that bitch.

Traditionalist women. Some are like that, because of the benifits they can get out of that. they are as bad as dark triad women:
To give an example:
* What type of women do you think, are most okay with using a men to get a free meal by faking romantic interest?
It are: women scoring high on Dark Triad AND women with Traditional views/believes. (* source)

I also seen plenty nasty, aka high in dark triad traits, women turn traditional. or being a born again Christaia virgin. I think they only did so, because they see how much benifit/money they could get buy getting a betabuxx christain/traditinalst man to marry them.
Therefore, be really carefull. Only genuine religuous women, seem a decent choice. Genuine, as in, really believing it and willing to go full in.

source:

For example. This woman is also very traditionalist.
She is, probably Christian also and, married since young age, and for many years now. To some rich(er) man whom is a bit older then her. In her channel she gives advice how to get money/resources from men and amke men spend on the woman. Aka. Traditional and religuous women; can be a fucking expensive pain in the ass for a man.
 
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that might be true.
Or a regular non-religuous woman, with a decent amount of restraint, and not a massive body count. Where you 2 make the agreement, to 100% focus on the child for the time period of 5 years (so no time waisting on fucking other randoms and stuff like that). And after that period, to make everything and the relationship more free again, if one of the 2 wants that.

The big risk with reloguous women. Is that they aim for marriage often. And then after the children are older again. They might lose their religion or whatever. And then divorce your ass, and:
* get all or alot of your buildup possessions/wealth;
* get alimony (ex partner income support) that you have to pay for years (or lifetime in some bad states/countries);
* get very high child-support (much more then needs for raising kids) that you have to pay for years to that bitch.

Traditionalist women. Some are like that, because of the benifits they can get out of that. they are as bad as dark triad women:
To give an example:
* What type of women do you think, are most okay with using a men to get a free meal by faking romantic interest?
It are: women scoring high on Dark Triad AND women with Traditional views/believes. (* source)

I also seen plenty nasty, aka high in dark triad traits, women turn traditional. or being a born again Christaia virgin. I think they only did so, because they see how much benifit/money they could get buy getting a betabuxx christain/traditinalst man to marry them.
Therefore, be really carefull. Only genuine religuous women, seem a decent choice. Genuine, as in, really believing it and willing to go full in.

source:

For example. This woman is also very traditionalist.
She is, probably Christian also and, married since young age, and for many years now. To some rich(er) man whom is a bit older then her. In her channel she gives advice how to get money/resources from men and amke men spend on the woman. Aka. Traditional and religuous women; can be a fucking expensive pain in the ass for a man.
Thank you for the information, it's truly helpful.
 
Nofap is bullshit for coping soyfags
 
The longest I've been is 2 weeks i think
 
I stopped fapping after realizing that using a male hand to get yourself off is gay asf. If you masturbate after this with your hands then you know what you are.

@turkproducer @Pietrosiek @Gudru



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Nofap is bullshit, i got most highest T ever in life by edging, (Fapping constantly but not actually releasing it), how i feel, i get boners in just 10 second period, i've never got this high in life, i get hard in class and it lasts until i finally bust a nut. Try edging !!
 
Nofap is bullshit, i got most highest T ever in life by edging, (Fapping constantly but not actually releasing it), how i feel, i get boners in just 10 second period, i've never got this high in life, i get hard in class and it lasts until i finally bust a nut. Try edging !!
When someone looks at your history folder, all they'll see are search results for erectile dysfunction.
 
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Congrats bro how do u feel
 
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When someone looks at your history folder, all they'll see are search results for erectile dysfunction.
How, does releasing damages bladder?
 
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I replaced it with sex. Instead of fapping I used my girlfriend instead, some guys will have a girl willing to fuck them but they will choose to watch and fap to cuck porn instead.

My confidence went sky-high, I was too busy focusing on fucking the girl I was talking to and didn't give two shits about her opinion of me. Horniness = low inhib state of being.
Is your girl willing to fuck 2-3 times every day?
 
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i couldn’t stay with a girl who cheated.. it would make me feel so shit

but the chances are, 90% she has bro. I would try to find out if I were u, but not asking her straight up
if I were you I would forget about relationships then, even if she is loyal to you she probably hasn't been in the past because she didn't like you as much
 
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How, does releasing damages bladder?
If you beat your meat constantly, you may eventually get erectile dysfunction. Limit it to pussy only (or ass, mouth, earlobes, etc).
Is your girl willing to fuck 2-3 times every day?
1-2 times, she's high T, so insane sex drive.
 
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Nofap is bullshit, i got most highest T ever in life by edging, (Fapping constantly but not actually releasing it), how i feel, i get boners in just 10 second period, i've never got this high in life, i get hard in class and it lasts until i finally bust a nut. Try edging !!
edging is the worst thing you could possibly do.
I stopped fapping after realizing that using a male hand to get yourself off is gay asf.
idk if this post is serious but if it is congrats bro that's impressive. I've been trying to quit porn for good for about 3 years now, go some good streaks here and there but never managed to kick it for more than 2 months at a time.
 
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WOW. no fapping for 3 years. (the longest i didn't fap after puberty, was maybe 1 month)

Can you answer these things?

1. Did it benefit you to never fap? And in what ways?
2. Did it have negative consequences? So yes, what/which?
3. Do you have low sex drive, or are not very healthy wich causes low libido or something like that.?
3. Did you do crazy shit due to extreme horniness ? (this one I fear most, because I know 1 dude that did no-fap and he ruined a portion of his life because due to his horniness he went into a relationship with a nutthead stipper).
i havent fapped for many years like OP
however, in contrast to OP i did not have sex as im a khhv.
1. The only benefits ive experienced is more time to focus on my hobbies which, given that i am a loser, are vidya, anime, shitposting, lifting and studying.
The is also the purported benefits regarding improving the dopaminergic system. However, any benefit are mitigated by the fact that im addicted to shitposting and vidya gaems which contribute to undermining the dopaminergic system.
There are also some benefits regarding self-control. I feel that im more productive in terms of school work but still procrastinate like many students. overall Its nice to know that im not a low iq primitive oversexualized normie
2. the consequence is that every month i have a wet dream. I wake up and my underwear is wet.
3. i have a low sex drive but im physiologically healthy according to my blood tests.
4. im not extremely horny. I became slightly less inhibited but the improvement was minimal at best.
 
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