AspiringMogger
Cupid’s best friend.
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I’ve gone out drinking 5 days in a row with the same set of 85 people and these are the things I noticed.
1) Having good conversational skills matter a lot, not only in relation to dating but becoming popular as well. There were a decent amount of good looking guys who were introverted and didn’t put themselves forward, which meant they were pushed down in the pegging order. Women however approached all of them at some point and tried getting to know them 1on1 at some point through the week.
2) Assortative mating and looksmatched approaching is very apparent. What I mean by this is that all people at the end of the week ended up in social groups they were meant to. This includes looks, popularity and NT’ness. The first couple of days people were just pre-drinking and talking to whoever they were closest to, but as people gradually learned more about each other they also started hanging out together and the social hierarchy in the class was formed. The most NT people were hanging out together, the nerdy girls were hanging out together, the decent looking but lower NT guys were hanging out together, and the ugly + low NT guys weren’t getting invited to anything.
3) What I also observed was the popular men all had 3/4 of these traits: Good body, height, good face, and being NT (good communication skills, risk taking, being on the front foot, you could say the life of the party essentially).
4) The women engage in assortative mating just as much as the men. Stacy can pick the best looking guys and they’re all simping for her. MTN’s are competing for MTB’s. And LTN’s are competing for LTB’s.
I saw one LTN try to approach the best looking girl in my class and he got brutally eviscerated.
5) You can fake NT but if you aren’t truly NT you will at some point get found out. First day I sat next to two coke sniffing party boys from one of the richest parts in my country. I did good in the beginning but I slowly realised I couldn’t relate to shit these guys were talking about and I bounced away from them. At the end of the week these were the guys chilling with the best looking women.
1) Having good conversational skills matter a lot, not only in relation to dating but becoming popular as well. There were a decent amount of good looking guys who were introverted and didn’t put themselves forward, which meant they were pushed down in the pegging order. Women however approached all of them at some point and tried getting to know them 1on1 at some point through the week.
2) Assortative mating and looksmatched approaching is very apparent. What I mean by this is that all people at the end of the week ended up in social groups they were meant to. This includes looks, popularity and NT’ness. The first couple of days people were just pre-drinking and talking to whoever they were closest to, but as people gradually learned more about each other they also started hanging out together and the social hierarchy in the class was formed. The most NT people were hanging out together, the nerdy girls were hanging out together, the decent looking but lower NT guys were hanging out together, and the ugly + low NT guys weren’t getting invited to anything.
3) What I also observed was the popular men all had 3/4 of these traits: Good body, height, good face, and being NT (good communication skills, risk taking, being on the front foot, you could say the life of the party essentially).
4) The women engage in assortative mating just as much as the men. Stacy can pick the best looking guys and they’re all simping for her. MTN’s are competing for MTB’s. And LTN’s are competing for LTB’s.
I saw one LTN try to approach the best looking girl in my class and he got brutally eviscerated.
5) You can fake NT but if you aren’t truly NT you will at some point get found out. First day I sat next to two coke sniffing party boys from one of the richest parts in my country. I did good in the beginning but I slowly realised I couldn’t relate to shit these guys were talking about and I bounced away from them. At the end of the week these were the guys chilling with the best looking women.