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I only allow myself to drink once every 3 days, but it feels like a waste to sit at home for the other 2 nights because I'm getting older every day. So I went clubbing without alcohol for the first time ever.
I arrived outside the bar and then it hit me, I'm sober and don't have liquid courage. I sat on a bench for like 20 minutes feeling frozen. Then I went into the bar. This was the scene that greeted me when I walked in.
First I see a busty mulatto girl at the bar and she's vaping. I ask her if I'm allowed to vape in here, she looks up and says yes, then looks back down at her phone. I'm already feeling down at this point.
Then I sit at the bar and order a Sprite. Here I am drinking the Sprite, feeling completely out of place.
Then some thick looking blonde sits next to me. I lean over and ask "Didn't we match on Tinder, you look like one of my matches". She was giggling and talking back, so I knew it was a hook. Then some guy she knows came and sat next to her on the other side chatting her up, and I felt too high inhibition to say anything more.
Then I move to the dance floor and just stand there alone making a pumping motion with one hand in the air. Suddenly a tall skinny girl with brown hair walks through the dance floor and she's looking right at me. A few minutes later she walks in the other direction and she's making eye contact again. Then she moves to the dance floor right in front of me. I lean in and say "Hey you look lost, are you looking for something?". She's yelling back that she can't understand what I'm saying, and I'm feeling nervous without the liquid courage so I don't even say anything else or try to dance with her. Then some 6'3 chad she knows comes up behind her, she turns around and they start making out right in front of me.
Here she is with that guy on the left side
I'm completely sober and surrounded by drunk people. I just keep bouncing my arm in the air trying to look like I fit in. There was a blonde stacy on the dance floor who made eye contact with me two times and she stared at me, but she was with a group of guys and I was too high inhibition to do anything. Then I see the thick blonde from the bar dancing in front of me, and she seemed to be looking at me but I couldn't really tell. I then got a better look and realized I didn't find her that attractive.
I felt exhausted by that point and left. I did three half-assed approaches. Clubbing without alcohol is completely different. With alcohol I can just let loose and do the craziest approaches, but being sober I felt so self-conscious and like I was viewing myself in third person. Even guys didn't seem to want to talk with me because I probably across as stiff and awkward.
@Zelenskyiv
@MoggerGaston
@BrahminBoss
I arrived outside the bar and then it hit me, I'm sober and don't have liquid courage. I sat on a bench for like 20 minutes feeling frozen. Then I went into the bar. This was the scene that greeted me when I walked in.
First I see a busty mulatto girl at the bar and she's vaping. I ask her if I'm allowed to vape in here, she looks up and says yes, then looks back down at her phone. I'm already feeling down at this point.
Then I sit at the bar and order a Sprite. Here I am drinking the Sprite, feeling completely out of place.
Then some thick looking blonde sits next to me. I lean over and ask "Didn't we match on Tinder, you look like one of my matches". She was giggling and talking back, so I knew it was a hook. Then some guy she knows came and sat next to her on the other side chatting her up, and I felt too high inhibition to say anything more.
Then I move to the dance floor and just stand there alone making a pumping motion with one hand in the air. Suddenly a tall skinny girl with brown hair walks through the dance floor and she's looking right at me. A few minutes later she walks in the other direction and she's making eye contact again. Then she moves to the dance floor right in front of me. I lean in and say "Hey you look lost, are you looking for something?". She's yelling back that she can't understand what I'm saying, and I'm feeling nervous without the liquid courage so I don't even say anything else or try to dance with her. Then some 6'3 chad she knows comes up behind her, she turns around and they start making out right in front of me.
Here she is with that guy on the left side
I'm completely sober and surrounded by drunk people. I just keep bouncing my arm in the air trying to look like I fit in. There was a blonde stacy on the dance floor who made eye contact with me two times and she stared at me, but she was with a group of guys and I was too high inhibition to do anything. Then I see the thick blonde from the bar dancing in front of me, and she seemed to be looking at me but I couldn't really tell. I then got a better look and realized I didn't find her that attractive.
I felt exhausted by that point and left. I did three half-assed approaches. Clubbing without alcohol is completely different. With alcohol I can just let loose and do the craziest approaches, but being sober I felt so self-conscious and like I was viewing myself in third person. Even guys didn't seem to want to talk with me because I probably across as stiff and awkward.
@Zelenskyiv
@MoggerGaston
@BrahminBoss
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