JFL at people who change their entire personality hoping to attract women

[fauxfox]

Imagine having 1 life, and you spend it NOT living true to yourself and your desires.
Instead you bend over backwards for pussy.
You watch countless redpill and charisma videos and autistically study them.
You stand in front of the mirror practicing your openers.
You erase any original part of you that once existed, joining a sea of men who did the exact same shit. Men who were raised by the internet.

 

[Psychophilly]

JFL at having personality for dating. all you need is some generic responds and smiles.

 

[Deleted member 18244]

 

[fauxfox]

JFL at having personality for dating. all you need is some generic responds and smiles.

For short term stuff/hookups yes it doesn't matter but for long term relationships unless you're mogger you need to be interesting and compatible with her. Not even on some bluepill shit. If you're already average looking you can't really afford to not be likeable and interesting.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Especially since personality is 100% cope.

 

[Allandro]

Imagine having 1 life, and you spend it NOT living true to yourself and your desires.
Instead you bend over backwards for pussy.
You watch countless redpill and charisma videos and autistically study them.
You stand in front of the mirror practicing your openers.
You erase any original part of you that once existed, joining a sea of men who did the exact same shit. Men who were raised by the internet.

Personality matters, I have a fucking shitty personality.

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Authenticity sounds like cope

 

[lepo2317]

Funniest thing is when your male friend is changing his whole demeanor when female is on the horizon. I have friends who are 'normal' when talking to you, but when there is girl around they are smiling 24/7 (fake as fuck), changing voice tone and doing some weird shit. Of course it gets them nothing. People like this are the worst.

 

[fauxfox]

Authenticity sounds like cope

The point isn't about being authentic for others, it's about being authentic for yourself. It's healthier to express what you feel and not try to warp yourself into something you're not.

 

[fauxfox]

Funniest thing is when your male friend is changing his whole demeanor when female is on the horizon. I have friends who are 'normal' when talking to you, but when there is girl around they are smiling 24/7 (fake as fuck), changing voice tone and doing some weird shit. Of course it gets them nothing. People like this are the worst.

It's so fucking cringe and whenever it happens I blatantly call them out on it in front of the woman and embarrass them

 

[KEy21_]

Pretty much everyone does this to some degree instinctively

 

[Deleted member 21863]

The point isn't about being authentic for others, it's about being authentic for yourself. It's healthier to express what you feel and not try to warp yourself into something you're not.

Bluepilled nonsense, you just lack the mental fortitude to adapt yourself to the winners mindset. Certain things are better expressed in certain ways and if you express your real feelings openly you will be severely disappointed by how it's perceived, that filter is important
it has the same ring to "accepting yourself" and the looks you were born with because it is the "true you"

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Changing your personality to appeal to women is the ultimate form of simping.

Women absolutely despise my personality and it's probably why I'm still an incel, but I refuse to stoop to the levels of simphood.