
UnderTheKnife
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I'm now in the middle point between looking young and mature.
I'm 32 but I have looked like 25 for the last few years.
Recently, I've started getting a little forehead wrinkles that are visible. But in parallel, I'm starting to get more attention from women in their late 20s / early 30s. Maybe before, they thought I'm actually around 25 and felt weird giving IOIs to a younger man?
(I'm typing this thread just after getting so clearly hit on by a 30ish bakery clerk, among other similar events over the last few weeks)
I'm confused between two choices.
1. Still trying to pass as young but look older than my perceived age.
Pros: access to younger females
Cons: dating could be more difficult as I would look older, which might signal poor aging genetics and thus lower desire.
2. Pass as my real age, but look younger than most other 30s guys.
Pros: looking young at that age would signal good aging genetics, and thus higher desire from older women.
Cons: will have to accept forgetting about girls in their early 20s.
So what would you do in my shoes? Still try to look younger (e.g. botox for forehead wrinkles), or just give in and enter a new phase in life?
I'm 32 but I have looked like 25 for the last few years.
Recently, I've started getting a little forehead wrinkles that are visible. But in parallel, I'm starting to get more attention from women in their late 20s / early 30s. Maybe before, they thought I'm actually around 25 and felt weird giving IOIs to a younger man?
(I'm typing this thread just after getting so clearly hit on by a 30ish bakery clerk, among other similar events over the last few weeks)
I'm confused between two choices.
1. Still trying to pass as young but look older than my perceived age.
Pros: access to younger females
Cons: dating could be more difficult as I would look older, which might signal poor aging genetics and thus lower desire.
2. Pass as my real age, but look younger than most other 30s guys.
Pros: looking young at that age would signal good aging genetics, and thus higher desire from older women.
Cons: will have to accept forgetting about girls in their early 20s.
So what would you do in my shoes? Still try to look younger (e.g. botox for forehead wrinkles), or just give in and enter a new phase in life?
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