(only reply if 25+) Need advice deciding on my image

[UnderTheKnife]

I'm now in the middle point between looking young and mature.

I'm 32 but I have looked like 25 for the last few years.
Recently, I've started getting a little forehead wrinkles that are visible. But in parallel, I'm starting to get more attention from women in their late 20s / early 30s. Maybe before, they thought I'm actually around 25 and felt weird giving IOIs to a younger man?
(I'm typing this thread just after getting so clearly hit on by a 30ish bakery clerk, among other similar events over the last few weeks)


I'm confused between two choices.
1. Still trying to pass as young but look older than my perceived age.
Pros: access to younger females
Cons: dating could be more difficult as I would look older, which might signal poor aging genetics and thus lower desire.

2. Pass as my real age, but look younger than most other 30s guys.
Pros: looking young at that age would signal good aging genetics, and thus higher desire from older women.
Cons: will have to accept forgetting about girls in their early 20s.

So what would you do in my shoes? Still try to look younger (e.g. botox for forehead wrinkles), or just give in and enter a new phase in life?

 

[Artemis]

I'm now in the middle point between looking young and mature.

I'm 32 but I have looked like 25 for the last few years.
Recently, I've started getting a little forehead wrinkles that are visible. But in parallel, I'm starting to get more attention from women in their late 20s / early 30s. Maybe before, they thought I'm actually around 25 and felt weird giving IOIs to a younger man?
(I'm typing this thread just after getting so clearly hit on by a 30ish bakery clerk, among other similar events over the last few weeks)


I'm confused between two choices.
1. Still trying to pass as young but look older than my perceived age?
Pros: access to younger females
Cons: could be more difficult as I would look older, which might signal poor aging genetics and thus lower desire.

2. Pass as my real age, but look younger than most other 30s guys.
Pros: looking young at that age would signal good aging genetics, and thus higher desire from older women.
Cons: will have to accept forgetting about girls in their early 20s.

So what would you do in my shoes? Still try to look younger (e.g. botox for forehead wrinkles), and just give in and enter a new phase in life?

I am actively trying to do the first, but im afraid that with my pheno, and ageing, it is over

So, option 2 is the only viable thing...

Btw, saying you "look young" is not exactly precise... you might seem so to yourself, but... you really need to ask a few random people what they think your age is...

 

[UnderTheKnife]

I am actively trying to do the first, but im afraid that with my pheno, and ageing, it is over

So, option 2 is the only viable thing...

Btw, saying you "look young" is not exactly precise... you might seem so to yourself, but... you really need to ask a few random people what they think your age is...

Yeah man was hanging out with a bunch of university students last summer in some random event and they thought I was around their age. They were shocked when I said 31. But stressful events since then have made me age a bit.

 

[UnderTheKnife]

I am actively trying to do the first, but im afraid that with my pheno, and ageing, it is over

So, option 2 is the only viable thing...

Btw, saying you "look young" is not exactly precise... you might seem so to yourself, but... you really need to ask a few random people what they think your age is...

Which pheno are you?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Honestly it really depends on what you look like. Can’t give general advice on this subject, but rather a case by case basis.

 

[Artemis]

Which pheno are you?

I look southern slavic. Good jaw bones + FG, hair, but huge nose, 404 cheekbones and huge brow ridge which makes me look super aggressive and super old because undereye hollows. But the worst is the skin sag + shit Slavic fat distribution in the face, which is sui-fuel.

So i can only say my real age. Need a minifacelift + liposuction to look younger.

Well at least hair is good... im coping with that

 

[UnderTheKnife]

I look southern slavic. Good jaw bones + FG, hair, but huge nose, 404 cheekbones and huge brow ridge which makes me look super aggressive and super old because undereye hollows. But the worst is the skin sag + shit Slavic fat distribution in the face, which is sui-fuel.

So i can only say my real age. Need a minifacelift + liposuction to look younger.

Well at least hair is good... im coping with that

Yeah facelift does wonders. But i guess it's early for that.
Try softmaxxing, like moisturizing daily etc. In case you dont do that already.

 

[coke]

It's a tough one. You could be 36 and look like a teenager like this guy I made a thread about.

35 Year Old TikTokker that looks like a teenager but turns 36 next month (Pierre Boo)

50% of it is genetic and other 50% is fighting against agepill.. Im 31 AND i STILL HAVE FULL HAIR And I only have 1-2 wrinkles WHEN i smile. Even if you're genetically shit, you can still look good in your 30's/40's by working out, staying lean and eating healthy. No excuses. That's great. I...

looksmax.org

He probably could never get a mature women over 30+ unless they like the Lolito type of guys. But he could certainly date early 20's girls who would find him interesting, but they might grow out of his look.

Your best bet would be the first option, remain trying to look younger than you are, because it's only going to benefit you down the line. Look at guys like Jared Leto. Remember, a lot of people think being 18-24 is the best because it's easy to date. It's not entirely the youthful look making them easy to date, it's more the lifestyles. Girls don't expect you to make money/have a job, they start to want that reliability and ditch those guys that don't have that, regardless of how good looking they are.

Keep looking younger as much as you can, workout and work strongly on your income. A lot of people here chasing after 18-21 year old girls don't understand how incredible older women can be over 35, I'm in my mid 20's and I can't wait to be an older guy 35-40 so I can bag some women 35-45 without them thinking they are a creep. When I was 21 I got speaking to a 37 year old girl, great body and looked stunning, she said I was good looking but I was too young. I remember her blackpilling me telling me she takes good care of herself and can't find a single man her age that does the same, she'd prefer a younger looking masculine man with a good looking body.

Women generally prefer older men, no idea why. You'll notice 18 year old girls like 25 year old guys. 21 year old girls like 25-30 year old guys, then 25 year old girls will really go for anything from 30-39, after 40 you're kind of focusing on girls aged 30+. Eventually you'll find someone to settle down with and not give a fuck about who you're impressing, but always keep yourself looking youthful.

 

[Artemis]

Yeah facelift does wonders. But i guess it's early for that.
Try softmaxxing, like moisturizing daily etc. In case you dont do that already.

I use tret atm. Let's see what happens. But it just for the texture.

Skincare does nothing for the fascia. If the skin shows the sag, skincare is useless. The only way to fix this is some type of facelift.

Yes, im too young. Was rejected for mini-facelift. But the problem is: the plastic surgeons did not offer shit as a solution to my problem except fillers, which is a terrible terrible thing on a male for this problem (when injected in the skin, not the bone, it tends to spread, and bloat the face).

 

[Moggie]

I look southern slavic. Good jaw bones + FG, hair, but huge nose, 404 cheekbones and huge brow ridge which makes me look super aggressive and super old because undereye hollows. But the worst is the skin sag + shit Slavic fat distribution in the face, which is sui-fuel.

So i can only say my real age. Need a minifacelift + liposuction to look younger.

Well at least hair is good... im coping with that

I thought you were Finnish?

 

[Artemis]

I thought you were Finnish?

I am a finnish citizen. Slavic though.

 

[Moggie]

I am a finnish citizen. Slavic though.

can I pass as south slav (croat)?

 

[Artemis]

can I pass as south slav (croat)?

Hmmm... dont think so. But you could pass as generic "southern white" aka spanish-italian or sth. I feel like your features a little too thin for slav-larping tbh. Though i met people with similar faces as yours among slavs.

 

[lepo2317]

I'm 28 and I get much more attention from younger girls, but I look just like when I was 21. No wrinkles, no sign of ageing. For me I will stick to younger girls are as long as I can even if I will have to lie about my age and now I sometimes do. When I was 24, 18 years old girl liked me being little older, but now I'm oldcel for them even tho I look younger.

 

[Moggie]

Hmmm... dont think so. But you could pass as generic "southern white" aka spanish-italian or sth. I feel like your features a little too thin for slav-larping tbh. Though i met people with similar faces as yours among slavs.

I am too gracile, ty slav bro

op you can look youthful due to skin clarity / quality, hair which is good or thin structure and having a 13 or 30 look which isnt good.

 

[Yatagarasu]

I’m not 25+ lol

 

[Bitch]

damn u an oldcel